Sometimes its Best

Sometimes its best;

When you have that intense sexual drive for someone, to just spend it on intimate conversation. Sit together, holding each other, and talking to each other while rubbing and all that, talking to each other sexually about whats on your mind. Even if its the things that bother you. Its the best way to release those thoughts.

You have to follow a basic rule, don't get rid of the mood. No matter what you say to each other, keep the mood alive. For some reason it seems to restore things I guess.

You can work out the problems without all the stress of arguing, you feel satisfied because you've just had quality conversation and your sexual energy wasn't wasted because you still got to exercise sexuality. It's heaven.

The exercise also teaches couples not to loose their sex drive in the midst of family conflict. A lot of couples begin to loose their sex drive when they start to harbor inconvenient thoughts and feelings towards one another. Whether it be based around their quality time, level of extra curricular activity, getting used to living together, etc., the stress and the work involved with solving those little issues, or just harboring them, tends to draw down the sexual drive between couples that wee once madly in love with each other. If a couple can learn to harvest that energy and use it while working out those conflicts, it could have the potential to actually save the relationship.

Just don't waste it ALL that way, it could get frustrating if you don't get to actually have sex every once in awhile, especially once your married.

Lotsa Love,
-Wildrose