girls like to be touched too.

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I am a 19 year old girl, and I love sex. I am not a whore, a slut, or even a tease. I just enjoy sex and the feeling of a guys touch. Now this may get me in trouble sometimes, but im not afraid to admit it. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke or abuse any drugs. I get a 3.0 GPA. and I love sex. I have done the act over 20 times in my short life. However, I have not ‘made love’. This idea is something I am waiting for, till the perfect man comes along, sweeps me off my feet, and asks me the one question I should say yes to. I believe people put to much pressure on sex and making it an object that we shouldn’t discuss and should be pushed away into the back corners of our minds till we are ready to have kids. I also would like to say my hatred of the ‘double standard’ between guys and girls on the fact of sex. I won’t go into it but we all know what im talking about. Girls now a days are more ‘trash’ and ‘sluttly’ and ‘promiscuous’, but I think girls now just want to have fun! Play in the boys league, have as much fun as they have been having for years. I am a girl, and I love sex.

miss_stoic's picture

"I have done the act over 20 times in my short life."
Do you mean with 20 different people?

"However, I have not ‘made love’."

So does that mean you've never had sex with a man whom you've been in a loving and committed relationship with?

Just trying to understand...

esl90's picture

ha.. no not 20 people, 3 people to be exact. and i don't believe i was inlove with any of them.. i don't think i've been inlove yet in my life........ i have had deep feelings for some, yes

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20 times isn't that bad, anyways. I'm glad I'm not the only one that sees the difference between sex and love. It's all good as long as you and the other person both have the same thing in mind.

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miss_stoic's picture

Well thank you for the clarification :).

miss.south.korea's picture

I used to think the same way, but i later foudn out,t hat i did not "love sex" i loved the idea of someone else loving me. While it made me feel good for a short time, after wards i just cried myself to sleep, ashamed of how i let myself be taken advantage of by my guy friends. Looking back on how i used to be, i just needed a good hug and a "i love you"

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miss_stoic's picture

Before I ever had sex I enjoyed the idea of it, but I never came across anyone who I felt was worth my time and my body to bother trying it out with. I didn't want to wind up being a person with sexual regret. Now I enjoy sex quite a bit, but only the sex with the person I love :).

Sometimes I often wonder what the underlying sexual reasons actually are for people (not just women) who engage in sexual activity with seemingly little or not emotional attachment. I think a lot of people are just like how you describe yourself as you used to be, and then there are other reasons I'm sure... Sex is indeed a very interesting topic for discussion...

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I think there's many reasons- wanting attention, needing to feel loved, and just plain lust. I have a friend that simply likes to have sex. She doesn't really have one night stands, but she doesn't have any emotional attachment to her partner whatsoever- not even friendship. It's kinda weird, but I guess it's just different than my feelings about sex.

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