Love is the most crazy thing ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What is it really? I mean you have your family love, you love everyone in your family, you have your close friends love,you know you always have them so you them, but what about the other kind. The one where it makes you sooooo sick u cant stand it but you cant help to smile when you hear his ( or her) name. Or like one minute your fighting the next kissing and cuddling.lol.Truthfully, I dont really know what love is.But with him, my boyfriend Mark, i think i found it and i know I'm willing to find out what love truly is with him.
Sometimes i just cant help to think i dont deserve to be loved by him so much. I'm rude, loud, i can be so selfish at times, and when its that time of the month, i cant stand to be around no damn body!!!! (pms 4real.lol).But he just loves me non-stop.Its crazy!!!!! I just love him so much.But alot of people,adults mainly, tell me I'm too young to know what love is.So what is it then? The dictionary just says an intense feeling or affection for someone either sexual desire or fondness.But that cant be just it, can it? Love has to be more than a sexual attraction or a fondness.I mean, I am very sexually attracted to him and quite fond too.lol.But theres so much more there than just that.I've never cared for someone as much as I care for him.So who can really say what love is.And how can someone tell me if I can love or not.The only discription of love comes from the Bible in 1 Corinthians 13:1-8,13.So can God only know if your in love? Its said that God has a ready made plan of what our lives are supposed to be like.So is love just another part of our life.
I dont know what the answer but I'm sure I'm not the only one that feels this way or something kinda like it.I just love him so much and whatever this love thing is. . .I guess were going to figure it out together.
Love is not logical, so the biggest mistake is to assign logical thought processes to your lover. (If he/she loves me he'll/she'll do this/that when I act this/that way, or send this/that signal)
Love is the miracle and the mystery, the greatest one of all. Attempting to explain it only makes it go away (You're in love. leave it at that and live your life.)
Love is caring enough about another person so that their wellbeing comes before your own.
Love is the willingness to make the ultimate sacrifice for another person. (I gave mine a kidney. Why? She needed one and I had two.)
Hope this clears it up for you.
CHuckhoek
O Ok.Thanks 4 your thoughts on it.Idk i mean i guess i get what your saying your right.So thanks 4 the comment. . .
Peace, Love N Sneaks
Danieedouglas09
A lot of love has to do with chemical reactions in the brain. There is a decent amount of scientific research on the topic.
Some would say that turning this into a scientific thing takes the wonder out of it. Quite the contrary, it's amazing and fascinating how our bodies and brains work.
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -F.N.
Perhaps two people of similar declarations can be in love. Imagine yourself a large black kettle. Now toss in a little of all the little declarations--values, virtues, what have you--and stir. Once you toss everything in, it's difficult to remember what's in there already. It may even seem a mess at first, but when it's done cooking and given the right amount of spices to each ingredient, you both will nod and agree to the scrumptious meal you've prepared together.
I, too, am young (mearly 21 years of age), so I dare not say i know what love is. This is but my idea of it, you decide what you do and do not like.
On the side note: Remember to have the heat to where it love can simmer, sometimes you have to let it do that in the pot for a while before the flavor settles in. And having enough heat is, well, enough! Make sure you don't turn on the heat too high and burn the whole thing!
I like your kettle idea!!! lol.Thanks 4 the comment and what you had to say about it!!
Peace, Love N Sneaks
Danieedouglas09
Love is self-realization that you want receive love unless you love yourself truly in the First place.
To cling desperately to someone else but yourself is the best path to get hurt, because like many other things in live this is exactly where it will lead to, deception!
Need yourself only and love will always venture itself around your life.
Get over it! Good luck, lol
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