Throughout my life i would say i've definately had my share of friendships. But i must say that when i moved to my current town, i would have never guess people could be so back stabbing. I live in a pretty small town right on the jersey shore. My town refers to us as the "bubble" because everyone knows everyone elses business and there is hardly anything to do.
One day before starting high school, my friends just decided to not be friends with me anymore, and i was devestated. I had been friends with these girls for 3 years now and we couldnt be closer. I couldnt understand why they just ended our friendship, and i still haven't figured it out.
Two years later, going into my juinor year, things started to fall apart again. This time i had just recently broken up with boyfriend of nine months and my best friend was happy that we finally broke up. I figured this was a little strange but i knew that my best friend wouldnt be trying to get with my ex. My ex boyfriend and I had been talking and were trying to work things out where we could maybe try and get back together, until my best friend kiss him one night. I felt like she had taken a knife and jabbed me right through the heart. I knew that me and my ex were still in love and wanted to try again but now she was in the way. When my ex had told her that he didnt like her, she got mad at me saying it was my fault that she wasn't with him, and she refused to talk to me for 3 months. During that time of us not talking my ex and i got back together. On new years eve, i was having a party and decided to invite her because it had just gotten out of hand how we weren't friends anymore. She finally decided to be friends with me after i had hooked her up with one of my good guy friends.
After me and her where back to being buddies, one of our other close friends decided to just randomly hate us. She completely changed and she was having some family issues. She also recently lost a ton of weight and i became concerned. I tried talking to her and she was acting very fake. Then she turns and starts saying really hurtful things about me.
Going through all this friendship drama i'm praying that college will be a better experience for me. I've always known that girls are complete drama queens and bitches, but i never thought my close friends would ever treat me the way they do. With this drama i have a hard time trusting new friends until i've been around them for a while.
it gets better in college as long as you don't associate with highschool people anymore
its hard when best friends hurt you, trust me i understand just know that you can't trust your heart with people just the same as boyfriends until they EARN IT because you never know who has your best interest in mind.
what worked for me was stopping being friends with people who did not show love and support for all of my decisions and that has payed off
when some one really loves you they hold your hand while you make the biggest mistake of your life and they listen to you cry when you finally realize it
college will be better with the increase in other students and all the classes you'll have you'll meet new people and develop new relationships. i hope to meet new people because i've hung out with the same friends for 4 years and its annoying. they depend on me to help them and i keep telling them i can't always help them. we hardly even fight we basically get mad and are quiet around each other for like 20 minutes.