Ok, you know what is driving me crazy right now. Its how guys talk to guys about other girls. I know that's just how they are, and I know not all guys do this but still. For example, there is this one guy on my bus right. Well he sits with these girls just to feel them up on the bus. Then when they get off he comes back to tell me and my boyfriend all about it. Like those girls are just pieces of meat. It makes me want to cry, but then again I'm really sensative. I hate hanging out with the guys and hearing all about who's hot and who isn't and how good this girl is at kissing or how many times they've had some chick. It just makes me think girls are simply here to please men. bleh. Again.. I know not all guys are like this. My boyfriend is totally not like this. He is very respectful and won't touch me anywhere that I don't want him too. It just bugs me that so many guys I've talked to are like this.
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Boys don't seem to understand how this could be disrespectful; it's just how they seem to be. And those hormones raging throughout them don't seem to help much at all.
Brittni
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Yeah, boys are boys. At this age, they are all hormones.
yeah honestly.. i've had this problem with guys at school and unfortunatley i've sort of just let it go at times
my solution? I don't let it go. I avoid and ignore them until they grow up to a mature age. You know, girls mature physically and mentally faster than boys.
It is disrespectful, and it teaches girls that they are nothing more than their appearance, and that leads to them disrespecting themselves. If that is all they are good at, then of course they are going to sleep around. It's sad that guys have the power to make some girls feel this way. It shouldn't be tolerated.
Well, if the girls are dressed in mini skirts and clingy tops then OBVIOUSLY they are dressing and treating themselves like a piece of meat. If a girl dressed modestly, guys would get the point. And I was talking to someone about this earlier. With guys, its like they have this sixth sense when it comes to girls and hormones, etc. Just mention making out and they are already there in the conversation. They detect these things very quickly. Its amazing how ADHD magically disappears when it comes to this stuff.
So if someone like mini skirts and wears them because they think they are cute, not to get attention necessarily from guys, they are still a piece of meat?
Brittni
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Yeah. Because my dad told me and guy cousins that what a girl thinks is cute, a guy thinks "more skin, yeah! SEX-y" So yeah I often pick some skirt that I think is adorable. Well, a guy doesn't think IT is adorable. He thinks you are MORE than adorable. More like stare-able. Do you get my point?
I don't know about the whole dressing thing. The people who seem to be treated like that at my school simply wear jeans and a t-shrit... so really they aren't asking for it.
Interesting. Well, I dress in skirts and dresses and cute tops with jeans, not just tshirts, so its not like I put a bag over head. And I have NEVER gotten that kind of attention or any kind really. I think I intimidate them. Hmm.
I dress modestly and I still get hit on by guys. The poster made no mention of how they were dressed. It's unfair to assume the girls getting hit on were dressed in a distasteful matter.
`lacey
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Well, I didn't say that what the girls were wearing is the problem, perse. its how much skin is showing. If you wear a minny skirt, yeah its cute. But guys love to see as much leg as possible. Sometimes, they can't control themselves and they go overboard. LEts not blow this over.
*~ANTWEEZY*~
That is so true. But then those girls that he was touching on shouldn't act like that, because some of the guys that I know they think that all girls are whores. And they try and nail every girl they talk to. And for the girls that get around allow that to happen puts a bad name on all of us. It's not to late for a change.
guys like boobs and sex..... women do to. alot of girls ive been with are just as atracted to women as they are men. but knowing when and where to "let yourself go" is very important. feeling someone up on the bus? lame. but thats just me and i like romance and all that jazz. and we all do stupid shit so dont feel bad. guys are just that way.~}chatiks si chatiks{~
Okay well, don;t girls all sit around a gossip about boys??
i knwo when i was in school all my friends and i did was sit and talk about who was hot, and who was with who, and who screwd over whos girl...blah blha blah...i know sometimes our convos were worse than guys convos,, girls are morecritical when it comes to that kind of thing. but then again that was just me and my friends, we were kinda bitchy ha ha
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