Did you ever notice, guys are a complete pain in the ***. Some are super sweet, some are jerks, some are shy, and others are just plain cocky. They always have to make things so difficult. Wheather there in a relationship or not they always have to stare at another girls but or chest. And for the majority of them all they think about is sex. I love guys to death but they drive me nuts. This one guy i liked is super shy, and so am i. But i had to be the one with all the balls. I gave him so many hints that i liked him and he would ask me out because he was to shy and nerves what i would say. Its like we both liked eachother but niether one of us had the guts to ask the other one out because we were afraid of what the other person would say. Plus neither one of us had asked somebody out before so that made it even harder. Needless to say we never went out. And gifts, Oh My God. it is like impossible to know what to get a guy as a present. For girls its super easy. We all like purses, money, makeup, clothes, shoes, shopping, and chick flicks. Guys however are super hard to shop for. You cant buy them clothes because you dont know there size and what size they actually wear. Because all guys have to wear clothes like 10 sizes to big. You cants buy them calone because you dont know if they will like the smell not to mention its so expensive. Socks are out of the question. And boxers are what they get from thier other friends that are girls. We know they love sports but withch ones. and if you do know witch ones they like and watch you never know what team they are cheering for. All guys want posters and calendars of girls, but when your dating them you dont want them starting at other girls butts and chests. And we all know guys love video games but no one knows what kind there guy likes. There just so complicated. And you cant even buy them a gift card because guys dont shop like girls do, and more than likely it will be for a store they dont like. So what do you get them? i guess we will all just have to keep experimenting. They always keep you in suspense and guessing. withch is why guys suck.
MISS JESS*
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I'm a guy and don't mind gift cards. They basically say what everbody doesn't want to say "I have no idea what to get you, but I have a general idea of the the store you like, so here you go." Too often are people afraid to admit they don't know what they want to buy, or too afraid to tell someone to get something b/c they are afraid what somone might think of you.
Or, here is another really good idea. Go shopping with him and you two can just buy each others presents. Guys say they hate shopping, but add one or more girls to the equation, and they will be there faster than a Jack Rabbit on hot pavement. Then when we get there we pretend to hate shopping, but really enjoy it because they are with girls or their significant other. I have to say I will come out and admit all of that.
Or instead of buying the items right then and there, give them ideas of what you want by going shoppingtogether.
Or just be blunt, and write each other a possible wishlist and give it to each other. Or just ask each other when there is nobody around, or you are talking on the phone. That basically is how my girlfriend and I get each others presents. And trust me, we may seem like we're not enjoying something, but as long as we are with our girlfriends, we are enjoying ourselves.
hey thanks. Thats a really good idea. what about the shy things though. how do you ask a guy out, if your supper shy, and he is to shy to ask you out?
MISS JESS*
OMG, I'm pretty sure guys will have the same opinion of girls. And no, not all of us like purses, money, makeup, etc.
Guys like electronic stuff. Just take your guy to Best Buy. He'll be happy there.
yeah i know guys feel the same. and i definatly know not all girls like makeup and purses, because im one of them who hates purses. however the majority of girls will be just happy with a gift card.
Not all guys love electronics, they dont have everything electronic, and electronics espically in Best Buy are expensive.
He was probably just turned off by the sheer fact that you can't spell.
"Only two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity--and I'm not so sure about the universe"
-Albert Einstein
lmfao...i believe that is quite possible.
By the way, girls suck just as much as you seem to think that guys do.
yes girls can be bi otches to but more guys are jerks becuase they are more sexual than girls. for the majority of girls they want alot more than sex, but for the majority of guys sex is on there brain over 70% of the time. im really good friends with over 15 guys all different, jerks, sweet, shy, and everything else but one thing they all have in common is they talk about sex almost all the time, wheather im around them or not.
MISS JESS*
omg i made a mistake. so i make mistakes when i type fast and for a long time. everbody makes mistakes. get over it.
MISS JESS*
Give her a break. Spelling has little to do with wisdom.
Yeah, one of the reasons I'm not a lesbian. (lol)
"Only two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity--and I'm not so sure about the universe"
-Albert Einstein
This just applies to all people.
>"Wheather there in a relationship or not they always have to stare at another girls but or chest. And for the majority of them all they think about is sex."This isn't as voluntary as you think, I swear.
>"I gave him so many hints that i liked him"I often find that whenever any of my female friends think they're giving "hints" to guys, they're really doing very little. Many girls are flirts in general, and it has nothing to do with liking someone, so just a bit of flirting here and there is not a hint. If you're willing to give him hints, why don't YOU ask him out? It is 2007 after all. With equal rights comes equal responsibility. ;)
>"And gifts, Oh My God. it is like impossible to know what to get a guy as a present. For girls its super easy. We all like purses, money, makeup, clothes, shoes, shopping, and chick flicks. Guys however are super hard to shop for. You cant buy them clothes because you dont know there size and what size they actually wear. Because all guys have to wear clothes like 10 sizes to big. You cants buy them calone because you dont know if they will like the smell not to mention its so expensive. Socks are out of the question. And boxers are what they get from thier other friends that are girls. We know they love sports but withch ones. and if you do know witch ones they like and watch you never know what team they are cheering for. All guys want posters and calendars of girls, but when your dating them you dont want them starting at other girls butts and chests."This part is why I responded to this. What world are you living in? For guys you can't buy clothes because you don't know their size, but clothes and shoes are a good gift for girls? You don't know what cologne a guy will like, but a guy should know what type of make up a girl likes? I think if you actually took some time to get to know whomever it is you were dating you'd find it's VERY easy to shop for them because you'll know exactly what they're interested in. There aren't any gifts that would be good for all guys, and the same would be said for girls. My best gift advice for you is: PAY ATTENTION.
>"And we all know guys love video games but no one knows what kind there guy likes. There just so complicated. And you cant even buy them a gift card because guys dont shop like girls do, and more than likely it will be for a store they dont like. So what do you get them? i guess we will all just have to keep experimenting. They always keep you in suspense and guessing. withch is why guys suck."Again...you would know what games a guy likes, what stores he shops at, what sports and teams he likes, etc if you just paid a bit of attention. After reading this I wonder what you do on a date? Just talk about yourself all night so the guy knows what to buy you? Because obviously you don't get to know your guy.
Also, all guys do not just want posters and calenders of girls. WTF.
-Tim
"It costs nothing to be honest, loyal, and true." -Avett Bros.
u are totally right. but the hole flirting thing, when i flirt i do drop suttle hints but for this guy. i left poems in his locker and did other things that i wouldnt do for everybody, so i was kinda evident i liked him. and i would ask him out but im to shy and scarred, thats why i wanted him to ask me out, but then i found out i have a tad bit more guts than he does.
MISS JESS*
Oh to add; I wouldn't be celebrating something a holiday/birthday/"anniversary" (although 1-11 months is hardly an anniversary) with your guy/girl if you know that little about them.
For my exboyfriend for Valentines day, I bought him a box of Cocoa Pebbles (military school has a bad cafeteria, and that cereal is almost priceless in value), a bunch of handwritten notes in random places of his room, and a picture of us together. Not that hard.
"Only two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity--and I'm not so sure about the universe"
-Albert Einstein
haha....and you think he actually liked that? cocoa pebbles....nasty
im not dumb, and stop with the fuckin albert einstein dumb quote. its fuckin annoying.
MISS JESS*
Its real easy to say all those things about girls, they are either really sweet, jerks or stuck up, its impossible to shop for them, if you buy them clothes too small they get mad and ask if you want them to be skinnier, if they are too big they its do i look fat, plus girls fight not only with guys but constantly with other girls, guys argue but they tend to forget fights between other guys alot faster.
im not saying girls arent a pain in the ass to, but im just pointing out that guys suck. and if a girl thinks u want her to be skinny because u got her a shirt or something thats to small, than there is something wrong with that girl. not every girl is like that.
MISS JESS*
Guys are at their sexual peak in their teens. Our time will come...apparently in our 30's.
And I've had the same problem with a shy guy...but I don't really wait on people to decide whether or not I'm worth the risk. So I moved on.