I started dating this guy named, Jake on March 21st, 2005. We just recently broke up. He said he would love me forever, and that the loved we had for one another would never die. Unfortunately, his love for me has just recently ended. You see my family didn't like him, but I didn't really care what they thought because I wanted to be with him. Well then after a year and a half together, my mom got fed up so she wrote his mom a note saying that she wanted our relationship to be over and done with because my mom thought that Jake was using me for sex, she also thought he was a jerk to me too. Well being the rebellious teenager I am, I went back out with him, then he broke up with me, then we went back out, and then we broke up. Well then Jake started saying that he didn't want to be in a relationship, so I told him to give me a week to change his mind about being in a relationship with me. So we went back out for three days, and he was so sweet and nice to me, I actually thought he wanted me back. Well the next day he broke up with me, and treated me like shit all day long. When I tried talking to him, he would just walk away from me and tell me to shut-up. All day in school I cried, and he didn't even seem to care about me, when I looked at him he would give me the dirtiest look. At this point I was convinced that my mom was actually right about him. He was a jerk, and since I wouldn't have sex with him, he treated me like shit. After school, he was all over this girl named, Amber and she's like the biggest slut, so this also convinced me that all Jake wanted was sex, and more sex. The saddest part about this whole thing is that I still love him, and he could care a less about me. So when someone tells you their going to love you forever, don't be a sucker and fall for it because nothing is forever.
Love Isn't Forever
By ShatterdHeart2007 - Posted on November 4th, 2006
Sometimes love is forever. It doesn't always end that way, even though you don't feel that way now. Sorry you are so down about the break-up and you probably could care less about advice or words of wisdom or whatnot right now. But it will get better and you will find someone that deserves you.
Hang in there.
"We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us." -Marcel Proust
I'm 27 and except for the sex and highschool part, my story is pretty much the same. Its true a lot of people will lie to you and tell you they love you to get what they want.
and once you love them its hard to take that back, even when you find out they've lied.
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Love is never forever. Nothing is forever. Nothing lasts. You can claim it does, like Romeo and Juliet and how they are forever in love, because they sealed it with death, but face it, won't it just be better if they both stayed alive and went their separate ways? Love can last long enough to get married and have children, but it is true, that things change. You may not have been the girl he fell in love with and maybe he changed and he no longer finds fun in doing the same things. I used to love apple sauce as a 5 year old, but not a teenager, I can't stand the stuff. Like gatsby, we can't keep the past. things change, including love.
If you believe, you can achieve.
I totally understand where you're coming from. I was recently dating this guy, and we made some wrong decision while together. This led to my mom saying I couldn't see him anymore. I tried to be the rebellious teen, but it didn't work out at all. Eventually, I wised up and decided that it wasn't smart to continue this relationship. I'd lost everything trying to be with this guy. I was stupid thinking that I was in love. I should have dumped him a long time ago when he was treating me wrong. Now im older, stronger, wiser, and a tad bit skeptical about guys. Never let anyone get the best of you, and have you crying your eyes out. You were a woman about the sex situation. Though you dont know me and I dont know you...Its females like you that make me proud of my gender.