Ask "Abby"

If you ever needed advice but didn't know who to ask then this blog is perfect for you. Whatever your question is hopefully this advice blog can help you. Treat this like the "Dear Abby" columns in the newspapers.
Feel free to talk about relationships, school, work, life in general, or if you had an curosities or confusions. I can not answer everything correctly but I can try to give you some advice. Also feel open to leave your own advice or quotes and answer other people's questions on this blog.
There aren't a lot of chances for one to ask adivice because some people feel uncomfortable. Here you can ask it anonymously unless you have your picture on your account name or your screen name relates to your real name.
I will do my best to answer your questions and hopefully my advice or advice from others will help you. Sometimes we all need a little wisdom from others.
I leave this with a quote I made.
"Make friends not enemies, life is easier that way."

Lol yes I know this is my blog but I guess to get things rolling I will be the first one to ask a question. Ok, my friend isn't allowed to date but there is this guy who likes to flirt with her. She doesn't really want to date either because she is too busy and finds dating complicated. Should she be friends or ignore him so he will leave her alone?

It greatly depends upon how old she is. If she's 14-15, she should seriously tell him to buzz off; she has plenty of time for stuff like that. Over 17, then it depends more upon her feelings for the guy. Whether or not she's going to be friends with him should depend upon how high his level of flirting is, and how good of friends they are in the first place.

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Why am I involved in this? Because blogging rocks my socks and I need a way to go to college.
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Tell the truth. She should tell him she's not interested in dating him and leave it at that. Any ambiguity and a teenage boy will keep flirting.

-Tim
"It costs nothing to be honest, loyal, and true." -Avett Bros.

mvenus929's picture
Managing Director of Progressive U

If being just friends with him is too awkward, then she would probably do good to distance herself, but either way, she needs to be honest about how she feels to the guy.

~C
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hi everybody,

is there someone who can help me out.... with Romans chapter 3, i need an easie explanation on each verse for biblestudy, so i can have a better understanding, just some comments of each verse, how you brothers and sisters in christ understand...i am at the beginning with my christian walk and i would be happy to have some brothers and sisters in christ with more experience as me , to share with, thank you all for your help and God bless

debatechick's picture
Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

Maybe instead of calling it ask abby you should use your own name and be original, lol.

Francesca Chambers

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