Are the fathers supposed to teach their sons to make their girlfriends submissive and mistreat them by telling them that, "It's different" Well I think not, I have being involved in a relationship where he wears the pants and it sucks for me. I have being in one for four years and everyday he takes a piece of me. Why? His insults and his talking down to me. Why does he do this his father taught him that that's the way women are supposed to be treat, he also taught him that cheating is ok, to what i respond with a slap on the face every time he gives me that response. But yet he continues why because he is like a puppy who grew up was taught to pee outside. His dad told him that men need to explore new things and that is the way they have to be. He should not tellthe women and make sure she doesn't know. Just have a relationship outside of you regular relationship. Sure just give your partner AIDS, HIV, HERPES, just because you want to try some thing new. Not only that but make that person who loves you hate you day by day, and kill her self steem. I bet his father never told him all this did he, he just said go ahead be a MAN. (NOT)Be a Macho... which is the word for the man who mistreats women verbali and physically. The term is known as MACHISMO.
Well to all women who read this and men to, the most important thing is to value your self over all, this never had and ended up a relationship which I will regret all my life. When you see that a man tries to make you do the things he want and keeps trying and trying you will definitely know trust me that’s how he started. Now I have gotten slapped, insulted and mistreated in all the senses of the word. Listen to me it’s not worth it if you are still in high school please continue and put the boys away in closet for a while. Remember this I started with my boyfriend when I was 13 going on 14 and I regret, repeat regret having met him, now am not saying that all men are bad just the ones that since the 2nd month start to push you to do the things you want.
Well any advice on love i will tell you to the best of my knowledge.... but i can realy say is that am never going to forgive this person for what he has do to me and realy you don't need another enemy in life, just look closely
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I like this blog alot and you had some good points. I'm glad you realise that you deserve better. Women are "supposed" to be submissive and all that crap but I don't think so. No guy should think or be taught that they should talk how ever they want to a women. I don't understand why father's are teaching this bullsht. what is the world coming to...
I completely agree with you. Men also need to realize that sexism and the whole machismo culture is not only hurting women, it's hurting men, too.
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Agree 100%, and am not like that even though i know parent who have done this my friends!
Well you shouldn't have taken any of this from him sweety, but am glad you realized what life is about and i totaly agree even though all i have are girls, i know parent who do this to their sons, mostly Cuban, parents, becasue am from there and i know how it is
Well great .... thumps UP for YOU