Everymorning she would say I love you and mean it. Everyday she would tell me how awesome I was. We would talk for hours on the phone everynight. Everytime we saw each other we would ditch others and have a blast. God it was so amazing, it was the bst year and 3 months of my life.
But it changed, I lost her in a sense she is just a memory. Everytime we talk in person it gets awkward and she walks away. I call like once a week and its for like 30mins if im lucky. I say I love you but she cant say it back. Tonight she said it was over and it felt like she was talking about my life.
Jesus can I have her back, I'll do a much better job of watching over her. I just want to talk to her like we use to, joke for hours or even just have a serious conversation with her. But now we just end up fighting all the time, our kisses have faded away and now its hey can I get a hug, can I be near you? Why I know what ive done but this is to great of a punishment. Life doesnt seem like its worth living for so much now, but dont worry I wont do anything stupid because I know where I'd go. I love her, she just doesnt know how I feel. If I dont get her back ever I'll probably remain incomplete.
She was so much to me...more than just a pretty face, she is still my inspiration, and my bestfriend. Hey, thats not what kept us as friends, what kept us was our relationship and sinceritiy to each other. I want to be your best friend but I sure as heck would love that old relationship someday.
Now would be to soon I have to agree, I cant follow you to your new destination. I cant move out of state but I sure would pray that God would allow what once was. Ive cried out an ocean, ive poured my heart back *btw you can keep my heart, I dont want it*...I love you, your the best you are amazing and once again I love you. I bless you and if im not yours you need to let me give him trouble.
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I am thinking about leaving the love of my life, but I can't make him love me more than the little he does...Someone out there was made perfect for you, and you were talking to the right person (God), but maybe she was there to show you the mold, not to be the final product.
Good luck, and if she doesn't want you, leave her alone and realize that someday you will find someone to love you like you love her.
Maybe if you leave her alone, she may realize what she is missing and come back.
You'd be non-conforming too if you looked just like... you.
So, you feel like the love of your life is leaving you? Well, allow me to make a few assumptions about you my friend, and please take no offense because I bear no evil against you. Far from it.
You are a male, a little nerdy and needy, and kinda young. You're crying over some chick who doesn't really respond to you anymore.
Now, let me tell you this - and *I dare you to prove me wrong*. Human beings are biological machines that perform actions that they perceive as benefiting themselves. I dare you to show me an instance where you've done something that has not been of benefit to you... Your current situation? You benefit in that you are a victim. You are powerless. You don't have to stand up and fight. You can just lay back, and post on the Internet your stories of heartbreak and pain. That is your benefit.
Your apparent ex-girlfriend's benefit is that she gets to find a real man who can make her feel like a female. Most likely she'll wind up with a piece of shit like me who will screw her brains out and mistreat her, get her into a psychological lock and screw her up even more once that "relationship" is over.
Relationships... Love... All that BS. If you are under the age of 30, you have no right to even begin trying to talk about love. Love is, as I have explained to other newbies, nothing more than a biological process to further the human race; having sexual intercourse and leaving the girl does not serve in the best interests of humanity. Much better that the gal and guy stay together to rear the child and give him or her a stable and well rounded upbringing.
What is a teenager doing playing with these kinds of emotions? Instead of being caught up with things you don't know how to handle, how about you become a real man and learn female psychology. Realize that girls treat relationships and love as a game. Stop being a heartbroken emo kid and start being a man; show the female that you are one. At your age, you are building experience, not some type of magical fairy love.
Get over her and get laid.
Even if you and others disagree with this post, in the end, you know it's only because you lie to yourself really really well.
BAR 7 PM
Because young people never end up together forever. No one ever meets the love of their life in high school or college before they are 30 years old.
Don't be so ignorant in your statements.
Brittni
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actually my best friends parents met in high school decided to go to the same college and hten got married.
People of any age can feel hearbreak, not just over the age of 30. And getting over someone is not going to be any easier by just having sex with someone. He isn't emo, he's hurt and dealing with a lot of emotions right now.
BAR7pm you are messed up and completely confused about who you are and who women are. I personally in no way shape or fashion treat any sort of love as some sort of sick "game" as you word it.. and if your definition of "getting over" it is getting laid you are seriousely disturbed and need to see a councelor and understand relationships for how they are suppost to be. You call him emo, and yet you seem to be the one thats more insecure
Understandably, teens still have a lot to learn about love. That doesn't, however, mean they know nothing about it. Amazingly (shock), not all girls treat love as a game BAR7pm. Some, like me, hate the game of love, want to find the one person they're meant to be with, and not ever go back to the dating game again.
stimpy424, I'm sorry for your loss. Amy Rice was probably right: there is someone else out there for you. Don't screw love over and say it's just some biological 'furtherment of humanity'. Take time, move on, unless she gives off a different impression. Even then, be careful about what returning to the relationship would be like.
Good luck. One thing BAM7pm did point out that I agree with: you've got time. You're still young. Sometimes true, eternal love's gotta wait.
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I don't think you post it here to have us feel pity for you. Instead you're asking the question if it's true love or an imitation of what society expect us to feel on the subject of love right? Were you meant to ask if your ex-girlfriend truly loved you or went out with you so she can just have someone to call a boyfriend? I think everyone is like that. They don't want to be lonely and want to have someone they can always fall on. You can either have a nasty breakup by not talking to her ever again. Or stay being friends with her. Of course ask her first which one she would prefer. I'm positive it wasn't easy for her to break up with you either. It's only 3 months...you'll find a better girl. Trying falling in love with someone for 5 years who share no feelings for you, who is a great friend...and you never confess it to her. Try it and tell me how you feel because I bet you it's much more painful.
Thanks everyone for all of your thoughts Ha Bar7PM you got me all figured out dont you? Well your way off in no means am I nerdy or needy. Oh and by the way she does respnd to me...we talk everday no matter if we were pissed off the night before etc. Even if im not with her I will still love her and always be there for her. If it wasnt for her I'd be so messed up. Oh and yea we've never had sex...I would not take her virginity from her for anything she is to precious and beautiful to me to strip somethins so precious from her. She is one of the best people I've ever known despite our rough relationship so please dont talk like she is a piece of crap and worthless because she is not. Wow getting laid will not solve any problem but make more...you need some help if you believe that to be true...
Truelife90 it was a year and three months so you know. And no I was her first boyfriend and we were dead serious about each other. She would never go out with someone just to call them her boyfriend. No I just wrote this as a rant and left it open for everyone to talk about. And yea it hurt alot but you know what Im still going to talk to her and be best friends with.
Haha. Sorry, I misread it for 3 months. You use a number for the month but letters for the year!! Be consistent man. Anyway, perhaps you should have included what kind of person she is and the kind of person you are so people won't have to assume too much. Careful being friends with her, jealousy is the biggest devil you'll face. Been there. Done it. I'm sure you're different from me though. So, good luck and keep your chin up.
Ha thanks I'll definately do that...but no matter what happens I'll always be her friend.