People can only wonder why other females hang out with all guys. Some say for the attention and others have the stupid thought that the reason is because the girl is automatically a "whore" or "ripper". In my case, yes i do hang out with mostly guys. All throughout my life i have been friends with a lot of beautiful young ladies, but i noticed one thing, i couldnt go through one day without hearing gossip or rumors or how fooine this or that guy is. What sucks is that i really love my homegirls from highschool but i can't have a decent conversation with them without starting a whole other convo about someone else. its very irritating and tiring that i just stopped really hanging out with them. Call it mean, i just couldnt take it any longer. The guys i hang out with are all chill, and when i kick it with them they dont talk smack and have no time for little drama. That is my reason for hanging out and having most of my friends being males. Dont get me wrong, im not saying all girls are straight up shit talkers, its just whom i have came into contact with until now. Yes, true i must say their are a few occasions when i'd meet a chill chick just to talk about music or sports with but thats key word, rare. I really dont mean to offend any girls who read this particular blog but im just stating my opinion, my views. Honeslty, i wish some girls would just be cool with themselves. Go out all dressed up just because they want to feel good about theirself not because they want attention from guys. Find other interest to talk about and not others business. And to guys, some of you guys i cant understand. Some of you, not all, just some pass judgement on females all the time. Some say that she's "easy" or a "runner" just because she'd be kickin it with guys and you see her only with guys and maybe one female. Once again, im just stating things from what i've been through or experienced. What i dreamed about is really no one talking shit, and no one passing judgement on anyone. As for me, i learned to got give a damn about those other people who talk about you to just spread rumors or to hurt you. i know who i am, and i don't a damn. I do what i do best, and i do me.
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I know what you mean by this. I am the same way. It is wierd how guys are so different then girls and so much easier to hang out with because they just don't care about stupid drama and other crap or they just make jokes about it to blow of steam. I know how it is like to be call all those names cuz all your friends are guys then you get the guys girlfreind think that there are stuff between you and him cuz you hang out with him alot. It is just crazy. I think you did a well job writing this. :)
i never paid that close attention to who chilled with whom in highschool then again i was a social butterfly chillin with anyone from the hippie kids to the ROTC kids...i really never cared as long as it was non drama i was cool.
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