What is feminism, and more importantly will it bite me?

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What is feminism?  (And, more importantly, will it bite me???)

fem·i·nism   (f m -n z m)
n. Belief in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes.

 

Feminism is a touchy subject with most people; it usually brings to mind a group of power hungry, heartless, emotionless drones in ladies’ business suits.  But, in reality, what is a feminist?  Are they sneaky business women with the private agenda of ridding the world of men?  Or, could it be possible that they are everyday people (yes, people…men can be feminists too!) who just have certain beliefs?

            The Women’s Rights movement had begun in America in the late 1800s’ to early 1900s’. Throughout history, women have generally had fewer liberties and opportunities as compared to men.  Mostly, women were to maintain the house hold and look after children.  Some people thought women were mentally incapable of doing much else other than child-bearing, while others thought they were evil.  Although in some early eastern countries women were given more freedoms, the general consensus that women were meant to stay at home and give birth.  Women in the early 20th century began banding together to fight for their natural born rights, beginning the concept currently known as Feminism. 

Feminism is a movement for the rights of women, but by no means is its membership limited to women.  A common myth believed by most people is that men can’t be feminist.  The true sense of the word feminism has long since forgotten; it is a belief of equality of the sexes, however it is not the belief that men are inferior to or incapable of backing women.  Chauvinistic women are just as bad as chauvinistic men; there is no reason a man is unfit to empower women and believe in pro-woman ideals. 

            There are many issues that feminists are concerned with.  Although many ideas are core ideas of the feminist movement, many of them get lost in the tidal wave of the “right to choose.”  Abortion is clambered about by nearly all of the suit-jacket feminists, and although the abortion issue is indeed an issue that should be dealt with, it is not the only issue.   Wages, civil rights, GLBT rights, child-care, and peace movements are also important issues to be dealt with; these so-called “women’s issues” are not just issues for women; they are everyone’s issues.  Unfortunately, most people hear o the word feminism and no longer think of any right accept the right to “choose”.  Perhaps someone should choose to debate something else, because while the suit-jacket feminists are preaching about choosing, many other political matters are passing by unsolved.  Many female politicians work only on child care reform, speaking nothing on other issues for fear that it is the only thing that they can get done.  It is a popular view in today’s society that women get involved in government to reform child care.  Although child care does need all the attention it can get, other big ticket issues need to be put on the table, and progress is being limited by the “modern feminist”. 

            In general, the Feminist movement was begun in hopes that the quality of life would be improved, and women would feel empowered. It was started to give women the choice of staying at home or working, of voting or not voting, and many other decisions that were being made for them.  It gave women a chance to step back, take a breath, and realize that they too were people, and although some see this movement as the downfall of the institution of family, it could also be viewed as the foundation of a strong womanhood, despite the scary, business suit feminists.  Feminism is not a mean, power hungry machine; it is a hope for women everywhere that equality is an applicable theory, and not just some notion to keep them quiet, and thus far, it has done wonders.  Although the movement has made much progress over the years, the situation is nowhere near ended.  Women are still paid around thirty cents less than men per dollar, America has not yet had a female president, and every time a woman who believes in equal rights shares her opinion, someone somewhere is smirking and hypothetically patting her on the head.  Feminism is something everyone can belong to, and add their ideas to.  And, yes, on occasion, feminism is for men too!

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Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

feminism is not a dirty word.

- Challenge yourself everyday, if you don't then it is a wasted day.
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KTM_chakra's picture

Actually, I identify myself in the feminist range...and I do try to challenge myself. Who are you, scoutbanana? you seem like an interesting person.

Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

You pose a very difficult and interesting question, because although I do not know, myself, exactly who I am, I don't think anyone else can tell me who I am either. Believe me people have tried and failed. There are many socially constructed names and such that can describe me and one of those is a feminist.

- Challenge yourself everyday, if you don't then it is a wasted day.
www.scoutbanana.org

Feminism, is a term that, actually makes women superior to their male counterparts. I like the way the Feminists talk about equality, they don't have a clue as to what equality is. they benefit from Affirmative Action, Divorce court, and Child Support.

I don't see many of them reaching over, to pick up the check. Till then shut up, you misguided, manhaters.

KTM_chakra's picture

Well, I don't hate men. I'm actually quite partial to them, as a matter of fact. I pay the bill just as much as my boyfriend does, if not more so. I think that you are much more misguided than I. If you read the missive above said comment, you would know that I believe women chauvinists are just as bad as their male counterparts. I do not hate men, but I also do not believe that men should run my life. I just don't...I think if I want to go out and work, and I work just as hard as a man...then I should get the pay I deserve. I don't believe in affirmative action, I believe it causes more problems than it should. I think that someone who is qualified should get a position, as opposed to an underqualified minority. If the minority, due to race or sex, is qualified, give them the job. If they aren't give who ever else was qualified the job. That's part of equality, to me. Equality is when the playing field is level, and everyone is on the same page. Everyone gets just as much as the next guy for the same job, and have an equal chance. I'm the feminist fighting the good fight for that equal chance.

Ugh...I hate it when people think feminism is all about hating men and being lesbians. Just because I believe that women should be equal to men in all effects, does not mean I hate men. Such a disheartening misconception. I believe that women should have equal treatment as men and that is why I am a feminist.

KTM_chakra's picture

Amen to that! :-D

So I'm not the only one who says "Amen" when in agreement with someone...good to know. =)

It's so annoying though! Last year in U.S. history, we were having a conversation about feminists and I stated I was one. The girl in front of me turned around and said, "You're a lesbian?" I really felt like throwing the history book at her, instead I slowly told her that I was a feminist. A person against the discrimination of women and for the equality of both sexes...which still hasn't been achieved today, but is advancing. So...there. :)

martins10's picture

KTM, I really enjoy reading your blogs!! Good for you, I'm a feminist as well and feel that sometimes this world is stuck in the 1900's..good post!!
Peace n Bike Grease~Sara

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