Sometimes I'm absolutely sick and tired of overprotective girlfriends. Really. Who needs them?
I'm friends with your boyfriend. I don't like him. I love him, but in a "you actually get me, you're intellectual, and you're hilarious," type of way. Not a "I want you to read my soul and run your hands through my hair," type of way.
When she wasn't around we hung out almost every day. I would buy him Snickers, he would laugh at my jokes, I would purposefully lose in a round of Super Smash Brothers against him, and life would be fine and dandy.
And then she comes trouncing into his life, my best guy friends life, and wants to put a sticker on him so he belongs to her. She complains when we hang out. She complains when we talk. She complains if I mention his name and she happens to hear it.
It's ridiculous. It's absolutely ridiculous. Where is the trust in this relationship?? Where is it?? She won't even let us hang out anymore!
I really have no idea what to do. I miss my best friend more than anything. All I'm receiving from this predicament is a headache and a fueled up girlfriend who probably want to kick my ass.
Good thing I know a few kung-fu moves.
Take A Look At My Girlfriend, She's The Only One I Got.
By FlirtsWithDisaster - Posted on March 18th, 2008
Women get protective over their boyfriends because other women are seen as a threat. The girlfriend belives in her mind that you will try to steal him away. This has either happened to her before or she is just paranoid. I know you are not this way, but alot of women see it as a game trying to steal someone's boyfriend. I am a women but I have realized alot of women are evil. I hate to say this but it is true. If you can even get a chance to try to talk to your guy friend tell him you miss him as a friend and you want to keep your friendship, then try to have him explain to her that you are only friends and will never be more than that. His girlfriend seems a little bit selfish to try and not let you talk and hang out. That seems kind of controlling to me. I used to not care that my ex best friend hung out with my boyfriend until she tried to break us up. Try to talk to your guy friend that's really the only thing I know to do. If he is willing to sacrifice you as a friend over his girlfriend than he is not such a good friend after all.
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It's typical really, for some reason almost every single female this green globe of ours HAS to have a man to call her own. I'm thinking in the near future, the sales of custom cattle branding will dramatically increase due to the sudden surge in way too freaking over-possevie women who wrangled themselves a girlfriend. Maybe it's human nature (crosses fingers it's not), or it could be something in the media/society/books that is telling young women out there that they need to hold on to their boyfriend. Think of that Carrie Underwood song, "Before He Cheats", it may be about a cheating lout of a man, but still, the message is clear, you need to own that guy more than his mother does when she's doing his dishes...kind of. In that sense, it is the media telling us that men cheat and do horrible things to women, kinda like we're rag dolls, but on the other side of the coin, women do the same thing with cheating and what not...and guys sadly have the whole over-posessive roll down pat.
All I can say is, brush up on the Kung Fu and get some ice packs! Cheers.
You. Are. Amazing.
Seriously.
Thank you (:
i can see his gf's point lol i nderstand that its your best friend but try to ee it from her perspective. WOuld u liek some girl hanging around your bf all the time? I think maybe you shoudl try to beome her friend too in a way, so she would understnd that youreally re NOT in terested in the guy. Because in her mind you are a threat and the fact that you are good looking doesnt elp it. I believe that she is jelousof what you 2 have and she thinks that she has to compete with you.
But you are right she is a bit too overprotective, she needs to ahve faith in her man lol.
All i can say make sure se knows that you really ARE NOT intereste in him, maybe then she'll loosen up.
this is duuummbb...
I'll tell ya. I've been on your other end. You know. being the stupid butt-hole girlfriend.
but, my boyfriend really didnt have a "best friend" he just had a LOT of close female friends.
my problem was all out of insecurity. i NEEDED love SO BAD i would do almost anything to get it.
including being a jealous butthole turd.
the thing is with my situation. is that my boyfriend encouraged it, and tried to make me jealous.
he's was more of a jerk than i was.
o.0
thank heaven i changed, but just keep in mind...she might be having problems..and she could be a very fragile girl. its still wrong. but just keep that in mind.