I really don't know what's going on...my best friend is freaking out because i can't hang out with her for a while. i'm super busy with school and work and choir and i already have plans with my boyfriend on thursday and plans with my family all weekend. im free in a week, but she completely flipped at me. telling me im only her friend when its convenient, like when i dont have a boyfriend, and that all i do is hang out with my boyfriend. but its not true. i have seen him all weekend because of homecoming and a family get together i was invited to. but i dont see him often because he lives half an hour away. she thinks that all i do is spend time with him. but even if i did, why is it so bad. he;s my boyfriend. i like him, i like being with him. he's wonderful. i mean, the best thing that's happened to me. even though im young and probably know nothing about love, i am falling in love with him, and cant wait to see where we go together. he's so nice to me and makes me feel good about myself. i like his outlook on life and his lack of interest in sex and the ultimate commitment. i just enjoy his presence and it brightens my day when i see him. she however, thinks that im spending all my time with him and forgetting about her. its annoying. shes always trying to control my life. and im tired of feeling like i have to please my best friend all the time. shes supposed to understand and be happy for me, not get jealous that im spending time with my boyfriend and not al my spare time with her. i dont know...i just dont know if i am being irrational and if im the one being a jerk, or if shes the one who needs to calm down and give me my space, because its not like we're in a relationship, but we are best friends...i dont know. i need help.
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If your really best friends, she will get over it, yes you do need to make time for her but she should understand that your busy. My best friend and I have been though everything together, and she is a true friend we have been this way for the last 20 years or so, though children, exhusbands, me in the navy traveling around the world god children and all I missed my god daughter growing up and my exhusband wasnt there the day I left for bootcamp how ever she put me on that plan and she has always made time for me it may have been ten min when I came home but still she was always been a phone call away. And now that we live 8 houses apart again I havent seen her for all of an hour in the last two months but I know if I called or stopped by today she would welcome me with open arms just as we always do each other. Maybe she is going though a change and need to talk but really she could email you and I am sure you would find the time to reply. Best of luck.
thanks. that's awesome that you and your best friend have been through so much. even though i've only been friends with my best friend for a little over a year, i think we've been with eachother in some of the hardest times in our lives and we've helped eachother through it. i love her, she's one of the best friends anyone could have, i just dont understand why she does some of the things she does a lot of the time. but thank you.
MY BEST ADVICE TO YOU IS TO JUST DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO BECAUSE AT THE END OF THAT DAY ITS YOU THAT WILL SUFFER WITH SCHOOL. I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION WITH MY FRIENDS I WAS WAITING FOR THEM AT THR TRAIN STATION EVERY MORNING AND THEY WOULD TAKE TO LONG AND MAKE ME LATE I DIDNT LEARN MY LESSON TILL I FAILED MY FIRST PERIOD MATH CLASS. I KNOW YOU LOVE HER BUT ITS JUST SOMETHINGS YOU HAVE TO DO FOR YOU
See now why cant readers give me that kind of feedback ? Instead of being rude and pointing out my bad punctuation and not even helping... I like your readers better lol
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ok so lt me think. I uderstand that you liek your bf and want to hang out with him as much as possible, but guy come and go and real friends stay forever. i realy think u need to find some time for her, you dont hqave to see her everyday or anything but at least some time.
Yea right now she is getting mad tht you dont hang out with her, but do you think it would be better if she didnt care? Her getting mad shows that she cares about you and your friendship and you need to be good friend back.
All ican say is "Chicks before dicks"