to volleygal, because i think she made a folley.

it is my assumption that girls like domineering, territorial boys. true men aren't either of those things. true men, do not cheat on their wives. just because a few BOYS do not see the repercussions of their actions doesn't mean the rest of us fellow men don't. i say screw your opinion and what you think you know about us. you know nothing but stupid, petty, injudicious things about boys. you know nothing of manhood. stop being so judgmental. if you girls, look past all of the stupid macho shit these days, and realize that all of those nerdy boys, the ones who get picked on, sneered and laughed at, they are the true men. they are the ones that can deal with their, pardon my french, shit, and all of the other kids' shit also. you probably know one, or at least one of them.

stop being so damn vindictive. get a clue and take a hike. sit on a nice sun warmed rock. and think about what you just posted as your own words. sit there and think, what does this statement portray to the world about me?

if you choose to use stereotypes, especially to define a good halve of the human race, then you also choose to let us do so also, it is the golden rule, TREAT OTHER'S HOW you WANT TO BE TREATED.

honestly, if i chose to say what i thought about women, based on their actions, what they do, what they chose to say or not, why they did whatever, and what they have shown me; it would go something like this:(& by the by, i do not believe it to be true)

women. women, women, what do we need them for? anything? anything at all? do we need them to wash our clothes? do we need them to cook for us? do we need them to do anything for us? after all we could just all decide to go gay, have all the sex we wanted, have an understanding partner in life, and not have to worry one bit. women. who do they rightly think they are? they lie, cheat(not just sexually) steal, talk crap about themselves and the other sex, they conspire, they connive, they convince us of fallacious things. to quote chris rock: women lie all the time about everything. highheels? you aren't that tall. make-up? what are you making up for anyway? your faces don't look like that. plastic surgery? not even yourselves anymore. wonderbra? your boobies aren't that big. fucking liars.

now, here is why i don't believe that. women have a sense of empathy and compassion that, we, the men do not have. sometimes we care more for the what how, when and where, that we don't bother with the why.

why most guys cheat on their female partners. most times women give us the reigns without even telling us they have done so. most times guys don't even realize the full scope of their partners actions. most times, guys get bored of always being the leader. of always having to be right, of always being to one to initiate things. most times it gets weary, being the motivator, being the rock, and not the roll. we, men, are creatures of will also, we know what we want. we know what we need. we do not, however, feel the need to let you women know this, why you may ask? because we think that you know us. so if your man cheats on you, it might just be because the pressure has been building for months and months, and we want it. and you know what it is. and what do you do? claim to have an orgasm, you talk behind our backs, you lie to us about how good we are, and then you go run to the gossip mill and you tell your 'girlfriends' how much of a fool we are. so who really does feel unappreciated here? the gossip monger? the female rights activists? the females, who think that they are running the shows from behind the scenes? the ones who wish that they could actually do something openly without fear of retribution? no. at least not all the time. i am not claiming that what i have portrayed to be true. i just think that everyone is too concerned with sex and violence, that we look past all of the things that made the human race what it is. unity.

Yours truly,
.demosthenes Look Closer

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I may forward this to my brother, who is, IMHO, the best man out there. His wife just cheated on him, left him, and is making his life hell. He has never been anything but sweet, loyal, and hopelessly in love with her. He might relate to some of what you wrote here.

And for the record, I read volleygal's post, and I don't think it's quite as egregious as you make it out to be. A fair number of broad generalizations, yes, but she does acknowledge that there are good guys out there.

http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/ediblewoman

it is my belief that the good guys never get credit where credit is due until they are dead.

Yours truly,
.demosthenes

I can see that what I put frustrated you! I'm sorry... but then I'm not really. Like you said yourself "screw your opinion". It's just my opinion!!! I don't think all guys are jerks! I also acknoledge that girls are just as bad! You can stereotype me too! Which I kinda think you do in this! I'm not saying everyman out there is an evil person. Just the majority of the ones I've incountered in my life as of yet!

my only mention of you is in the title. the rest was addressed to the side of the female half of things that hold true to those opinions, which there are a lot of, and do not ever meet a good guy.

Yours truly,
.demosthenes

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