STOP SAYING UGLY THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE'S WEIGHT

I have seen TWO MySpace profiles today of women that made me want to jump into computer land and slap the living daylights them. The first one was a woman who is mad at large women for commenting on her thin frame. She was VERY hostile about it, and made disparaging remarks about large women. EXCUSE ME??? I am about 40 pounds over weight, so I could be considered a "large" woman. Sheesh! Then I saw the other profile, a gal about 18 years old who was morbidly obese. She was ragging on thin people. Oi vey! This made me not only NOT feel sorry for her, but I sent her a message saying basically that she should not be saying cruel things about thin gals just because some jerk has made fun of her in the past, present or future. She has yet to reply to me. Therefore, I have decided to yell at people for a moment, well, I will yell at the thin gals who make fun of the big gals, and the big gals who make fun of the thin gals. HERE GOES----

THIN GALS - Those who have the audacity to rag on women with weight issues while thinking that weighing 98 lbs is healthy. Well, yes it IS healthy...when you are five feet tall or 10 years old.

LARGE GALS - Those who have no sense of humor, think that just because they have weight issues that they should automatically be the center of attention, ones that complain because they can't get any respect.

New flash gals: It DOES NOT MATTER what your physical size is - if you have a horrible personality and self centered attitude, no one will respect you, think you are sexy fresh, or want to be around you. If you are Nicole Ritchie thin and think that you are superior - THINK AGAIN. If you look like the mom from WHAT'S EATING GILBERT GRAPE, and you think that the world owes you a living because you are a heavy gal - GET A GRIP.

When are people going to learn that body image is not the person you really are deep down? You may be thin, but you may also be a loathsome wench. You may be heavy, but you may be the biggest sweetheart that ever lived. Stop using your physical appearance to get what you want or stop you from getting what you want.

Above all else, PLEASE stop throwing your body issues in other peoples faces or ridiculing others because you are jealous. Large chicks - quit being mean to the thin gals and thin ones- stop degrading the bigger chicks - get a hamburger instead.

- AND P.S. ---- Next time you decide to make fun of someone's physical apperance, think first - DID YOU EVER THINK THAT THEY MAY HAVE A HEALTH ISSUE THAT THEY CAN NOT CONTROL? Think about it...... not everyone has the opportunity to be helped by Dr. Phil (thank GOD!).