For as long as i remember, it has always been that "good girls like bad boys" and "nice guys finish last". But i don't think it's as set-in-stone as that. Also "pretty boys" and the "well-he's-not-ugly guys" go against the "I look at personality over looks" attitude toward men. If a guy was ugly and had a great personality and there was this average guy who treated you slightly worse, to me i think the better looking one would get the proze, and that's cuz the girl said she looks at personality FIRST but never said she disregarded looks. I am just asking for input from men and women alike on this issue: What are your views on the attraction to certian men/women?
And i'm going to say this now, if someone says i'm "looking for ______,______,and ___" don't try and talk to them, just support me and i'm not making love connections in here.
Plz show support because i really want to see what you people have to say.
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LOL, well, sorry to say to those people who say that looks aren't important; looks do account for something. It might not be the most important thing to some people, but it is among the first things - at least for initial attraction.
I have never looked at a guy and said to myself "check out the integrity on that one.
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It goes both ways...I'm not attracted to someone who has an amazing personality but looks ugly, but likewise I'm not attracted to someone with amazing looks but an ugly personality. But one thing's for sure--Nice guys don't finish last. I have several good-looking friends that are a little on the...bad...side, but I would never ever date them. I'm definitely way more attracted to guys who have character qualities that I'm looking for in a future spouse.
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In my opinion personality always wins out... There was this one guy that I thought was really ugly before I met him... But as I got to know him I became more attracted to him... And for some reason he became cute.. It doesn't make much sense but I think peraonality makes the man more than the looks... because a guy to me can be really hott but then after I get to know him I become so disgusted with who he is that I am no longer attracted to him... So therefore I believe the man with the better personality that treats the woman better will win over the average looking guy that treats her a little worse... Personality makes the man not looks... <3
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all of my past boyfriends have not been the best looking. i dated them because of their personalities. many people asked me why i "dated under" as in looks. but hey..they were nice. the sad this was that one was too nice- wanted to be by me so much i actually spent some time avoiding him... and another was too rebelious..he didnt like to follow rules AT ALL!
where is the medium!?!?!?!
My boyfriend is extremely nice and also extremely PRETTY. <3
I'm what most people would consider a "good girl" and I ONLY go for nice guys. From what I've seen "bad boys" never treat the girl the way she should be treated. Every single guy I have liked I have noticed things about their personality first and then the more I notice the more physiclly attractive I find them. The problem is there arn't enough TRUE gentleman out there anymore. My boyfriend is an absolutly amazing gentleman. He will walk me to my car, open doors for me, he loves to just sit and talk most of all he RESPECTS ME, but it was only after I noticed these things that I found him attractive. If you find a truely good man who will treat you right, and who you have a good connection with, someone you are truely compatable with you'll find yourself physiclly attracted to them too.
(and just a shout out to the guys I know SO many girls who are just looking for a nice guy who cares about them and will treat them right.. DON'T LET CHIVALRY DIE!)