We've all heard the stories no matter how old you are about the guy who hookups with a chick and runs. Well, it's not just a story. High schoolers see this each and everyday, and many of them experience it. I would say we had atleast 10 pregnant girls at my high school this year, and I think only two of them had a good relationship with her babies daddy. "Boys like to hit it and quit it..." basicly sums up what I'm ranting about. Guys are all about the hookup as long as there are no stings attached to it. Yes, there are some guys out there that are great and loving. If you have one..HOLD ON TIGHT! I've watched relationship after relationship fail before my eyes. My friends parents are divorced, girls have their hearts broken by their boyfriends of more than 4 years. Yes, I know girls can pull the same stuff but for the most part it's the guy that does the unthinkable.
Two of my friends have had dad's that cheated on their moms. These women stood by the side of their husband, raised the children, and the man has an affair with another women. How sick nasty is that?!?!?! A girl I go to school with has been together with her boyfriend for more than four years, and he broke up with her becuase he decided he wanted to date other people. He infact even told another chick he loved her while he'd been with his girlfriend. A good friend of mine cheated on his girlfriend twice with the same person because his girlfriend didn't want to do anything more than make out. They've been together for not even 2 months! She's 16 years old, and she's protecting herself from getting hurt, while he's being a dick! Another friend of mine was talking to a guy, and they admitted they liked each other. Over the course of a couple of months they didn't really do anything about it. They went to a dance, a movie, and hung out one other time besides school. After the movie they made out, and the next time they hung out they did everything but have sex. And he then proceeded to ignore her from then on.
I've come to the conclusion that guys are dicks. Don't worry, I know girls are bitches! But who "hits and quits it" the most??
To be fair, girls hold their share of the responsibility in such situations as well. Hopping into bed with a guy without really getting to know him doesn't exactly make the situation any better for girls. Nor do one night stands, losing count of sexual partners before you're old enough to drink legally, or any number of other ridiculous things that girls all too often do.
Guys, contrary to your belief, are not all dicks and as a woman, I find it offensive that you rant about them and barely touch on the fact that women quite often do the selfsame things.. in equal number and for the very same reasons. It's not a guy thing, it's, often, an idiot thing.
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~Fallon~
An education isn't how much you have committed to memory, or even how much you know. It's being able to differentiate between what you do know and what you don't- A. France
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This is true. I hear quite a few brag stories about having sex with guys. It's sad, really, to hear so many people, male AND female talking about sex as a contest to see who gets the most lays.
Don't get me wrong I know girls cheat too! A girl I've known since we were in first grade, I don't think has ever been in a faithful relationship. I focused on the guys because I felt the need to rant! I also know not all guys are dicks... I even say that! But where I'm from the good ones are taken!
Not really. The good one's just aren't out making asses of themselves and therefore are not as often on the radar as the bad ones.
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~Fallon~
An education isn't how much you have committed to memory, or even how much you know. It's being able to differentiate between what you do know and what you don't- A. France
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I wish we could rate comments, you'd get 5 stars plus a few mentally given.
I'm not a prick, and kind of offended at the inclusion into such a group.
The good guys are there, but girls tend to make them 'good friends' rather than someone to date or marry.
That, by the way, sickens the single good guys. . . . to have, time and time again, a female friend go for the wrong kind of guy and get screwed over, to come to us to cry and need to be consoled, call us a 'good friend' and then go find another dink to be with.
If a person only dates bad people, perhaps they should reevaluate their standards by which they date.
so yeah posted a blog, contesting all of this stupid judgmental prose. look it up if you want to. you don't have to though, you can continue down this path of hate.
i know alot of guys who do that...but to be honest i would not take a girl serioously if she gave it up to me to easily...think if she was easy with me, chances are she is with every other guy. my husband said he fell in love with me wjhen i tild him off...he wanted to have sex abd i stood my ground and told him to forget it because i refused to be a one night stand. so if that was all he wanted then not to waste my time.
he left. and i did not hear from him for a week. but then he called me and later told me that i was the only girl he had ever dated who had self reslect, and that he found it really attractive. yes guy do want sex, but deep inside they want a GIRL who with STAND UP FOR HERSELF AND NOT GIVE IN TO EVERY TOME DICK AND HARRY.
The past is the past, you can not change it. So don't dwell in your mistakes, Pick up the pieces, and instead learn from your downfall.
it is very true that guys are horny ridiculously pathetic a-holes. and i just had a best friend who was very controlling and i had to help her parents get a restraining order against him. now 2 months later she sees everything he did and how step by step he made her weaken her beliefs in holding till marriage and giving in little bits and doing everything but sex. but she admits she'd have given it up to him at any moment bc of the mind f*** he put her through. guys are dicks. but there is the occasional that will stick around no matter what.
so yeah more and more i think that i am going to just be celibate. i am tired of hearing about how much guys want sex. look at it this way, it is in our genes, to want to be the best at whatever, to want to prolifer our seed into the world. the nancy reagan "just say no" campaign indirectly shot up the rates on underage sex, underage drug use, and also underage people thinking like adults.
realize this. you don't know everybody. if you do then you can make these stereotypes, and hold them to be true. otherwise, you women, are busy convincing me that maybe i should just be an overly infidilitous asshole, cheat on everysingle woman i am with, why you may ask? because you have come to expect it from us all. why try to fight stereotypes? especially when the ones you are trying to defend still do the things that you say they don't? when you cannot beat them, join them.
find good men. we are out there. just wait. oh yeah and the truly good men don't want to approach a women. i would rather have a women come to me. sadie hopkins, or what ever her name was, style.
Yours truly,
.demosthenes :-S
There is an oversexualization of young people, that much is for certain.
However, it cannot be blamed on men any more than it can be blamed on women.
It takes two people to hop into the sack and make like bunnies, and the ONLY two people responsible are the two involved.
Think of that when you're wanting, or asked for, sex. YOU are just as responsible as the other person.
reverse elitism by trashing men is not only unproductive, but it ignores the problem. That'll land you in a world of hurt if you ignore problems.
you have put into words what i have been trying to say this entire time! and you did it so efficiently also. sometimes i can be long winded, but i guess that is because i talk so little off of the web.
Yours truly,
.demosthenes
i think that it doesn't matter who hits and quits more but what matters is the early age in which this is happening.. i have friends that lost their virginity at 14 yrs old or like 12 or 13. and that is BAD!!!! horible i think. both guys and girls are responsable for their actions no matter what they are. but i think that sometimes, in todays world, the girls feels the obligation to loose their virginity at a young age because their friends did it or just because they never learned how to say no when they are in "the moment". i seriously think that also guys are responsable because if they know this about da gurl and they know why they acting that way then they should be gentlemans and say no...but unfortunately gentlemans exist no more!!!!!!
so their is no answer and no conclusion. at least to me!!
You can't pin sex on one gender. Why should one person be expected to know what the other person is thinking as well as the motives behind their thoughts?
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It’s more an issue about focus, most guys, regardless if they are young or not lean to put their focus upon boobs, ass and pussy.
Anyhow, the attraction most carry within is solely sexual!
Same applies to females although the chemistry which is brewed inside their brain is slightly different.
The main reason why girls hook up with the so called bad types is because it is exactly this aspect which is exiting them enough to open up.
It is extremely easy to figure out whether yes or no your partner (male or female) carry tendencies to cheat, the one’s which are very demanding between the cheats will eventually cheat when a partner does not comply with or fails to fulfill its partners needs.
This applies to both male and female.
When people mingle and meet someone with strong or same needs, this is mostly felt upon a level which doesn’t require any type of verbal communication.
It’s the lack of understanding sexuality which brings trouble inside relationships, one needs to understand, hornyness is the biggest relation killer around.
Whether one is a giver, taker or receiver between the sheets, the only thing which matters is to stay focused upon the fact we all carry a choice to say yes or no!
To stay in control of own personal sexuality is the best path to find a partner which feeds the needs one is in demand for.
The only way to achieve ay success in finding one, is to keep in mind of what is not desired having it lived in a previous experience.
Whatever passes one’s path (sheets), good or bad, it’s is always an experience which carries a value,
Rule number one:
One’s an ex, always an ex!
Rule number two:
One’s an ex, always an ex!!!!!!!
Rule number three:
When he/she hurts, get over it and get back on track when tears stop flowing!
Experience will create an understanding of who and what you are dealing with before it passes sheets…
Dicks and bitches will always be around, to recognize them is way easy! lol
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Two of my friends have had dad's that cheated on their moms. These women stood by the side of their husband, raised the children, and the man has an affair with another women. How sick nasty is that?
I had a friend whose mom had been cheating on her husband for years. When it all came out, only my friend was the husbands child, the other three were the other man's kids. How do you think that made him feel? He had thought all of the kids were his, and then he finds out that only the eldest is.