Adolescent Depression: Not a Laughing Matter

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"Each year as many as 8.3 percent of the adolescent population will begin exhibiting signs of depression. "
"More teenagers die each year from suicide than from all other illnesses—from cancer to AIDS—combined. "
"According to the CDC, each year, 1 in 5 high school students in the United States has thoughts of suicide. "
"Each year, over 2 million high school students in the United States make specific suicide plans."
"Each year, some 400,000 high school students in the United States make suicide attempts requiring medical attention, coming to an average of 1,000 attempts a day nationwide, every day of the year. "
-Dr. Harold S. Koplewicz

These facts and numbers are disturbing, aren't they?

Yet still I see millions of kids throw harsh words like "go kill yourself", or "go cut you wrists emo kid" like a funny joke. Whether they mean what they say or not it can still deeply impact someone's decision to live or die. This kind of prosecution can make a person ashamed of their depression, making them less likely to admit their problem and seek treatment.
There are a lot of theories about why more and more teens are getting depressed. Some say it is the society we live in that protrays an image of perfection that is immpossible to achieve. Some say the origin of your sexuality plays a part too. Bisexuals and Homosexuals are more likely to become depressed than others, because of the ridcule they recieve. Another explanation is that during adolescence, there is a burst of rapid brain maturation during a period that roughly correlates with the ages at which rates of depression increase markedly, this maturation may explain why adolescents are more susceptable to depression than other age groups.

"Girls are twice as likely as boys to attempt suicide, but boys are ten times more likely to die "
"Overall, only 1 in 5 depressed teens gets psychiatric treatment, and those who are untreated are likely to experience a recurrence of their depression. "
-Dr. Harold S. Koplewicz

Some do not know the horror and pain of someone who is depressed, but as for my self I do, from personal expirence.
I was depressed for several years of my adolscence, and to tell the truth, I just broke out of it within the last year. With the ridcule I had seen others go through, I denied my depression, and bottled it all inside for years. When I finally expressed my depression it was in harmful self-inflicted ways. As far as stereotypes go I was considered a "Cutter". For a year I kept it a secret, but one day in gym class a girl saw and went to the Nurse about what she had seen, but the Nurse wasn't all who she decided to tell. It was my most ashamed moment in my life. I endured rude comments from most everybody. Some such as " Go get a scapel and cut yourself", "Just kill yourself already", and "Down the road not across the street". I can honestly say I cried most everyday for years. I was in and out the guidance counciler's office, hospitals, and went through Therapists like pencils. No one ever tried to understand, most treated me like I was diseased. My family was ashamed of me, I expirenced rooms going silent when I entered more than I can count on my fingers and toes. I tried all sorts of medications, but none semed to work. In 2006, I got sent to another hospital where they diagnosed me with Manic-Depression (Bi-Polar disorder). The doctor put me on the highest dosage of Effexor XR when I was 15 years old, but months later I made the decision to take myself off the medication. I can successfully say I did it, I haven't cut in almost a year, but not without hours upon hours of therapy. My past still haunts me, such as the scars that line my forearms. I also cannot donate blood for another three months. I am no longer ashamed of what I was, or what I still am. I taught myself a lot during those years.

It is sad how cruel people can be to those with mental illnesses. Sometimes one friend can make all the difference.
You could save their life.

HRH's picture

"Yet still I see millions of kids throw harsh words like "go kill yourself", or "go cut you wrists emo kid" like a funny joke." Kids, well, we're stupid. But we're trying to forsake our stupid comments and turn to love instead, one person at a time. Are you involved with TWLOHA?

It's cool, even in spite of the hurtful things people say, it's an obstacle that once faced makes you that much stronger.

britz-smile's picture

TWLOHA?
No, I'm not. I've never even heard of it.
What is it?
Brit-z Smile

Kiota's picture

To Write Love on Her Arms. From what I understand it's to raise awareness of SI and depression and to provide support. Try googling it.

Selena Hammel's picture

I to have suffered from depression. I understand. It's a difficult thing. Congrats on surviving it.

bunnysquirrel's picture

I agree that depression is a very serious thing. I have known many depressed people at least three of whom have attempted suicide, and one who succeeded. I myself have been brought to the brink of suicide. That was when I was in seventh grade. I once read the journal that I kept during that time and it read "I know that everyone wants me to die. They all just hate me. It would just make them happy if I died. I would LOVE to die. But you know what, those F****** B******* will just have to suffer with me because I won't give them the satisfaction of killing myself." It was a little less well written, but you get the point. I really wanted to die. No one knew that I was that depressed, they all saw me as the one who got perfect grades and was always smiling. But I wasn't. And I wasn't teased or made fun of, or anything. In fact, I was friends with my entire seventh grade class (I went to a small school, only about 50 kinds in an entire grade level). And yet... something was wrong. My family life was fine, I was usually sort of ignored, but I didn't mind. I liked it that was. The point is, there was no explainable reason I could have for being depressed. But I know why I'm still alive. Because I had hope. I blame it on Sailor Moon and Teen Titans and all the other superhero cartoons I watched. Do you know why? Because they inspired hope in me. They let me believe that tomorrow would be alright, because I'd fight bad guys and then the sun would rise in the morning and everything would be alright. And it was. So, I never really told anyone about my depression. I deal with it with hope. Because I know that my hopes aren't false because even when I feel trapped and unable to do anything but cry, I cry. And then the sun rises. And I'm okay again.

But to make a long comment short: Teen depression is very serious. It drives people with nothing to be sad about to be on the brink of death. And often, it can't be seen, unless you've experienced it yourself. All I can say is.... hope works.

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weezyf's picture

That situation happened to me to the person above me and continues to happen to day.

But it's all good, I'm not angry, it happens.

Depression is a serious thing kids don't take seriously, which is a pity.

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Selena Hammel's picture

Wow I've felt exactly as you have and have been in similar situtatins,(good grades smiles etc). Depression is serious! It's good to hear about yet another surviver. I think it will give other hope.

edie111's picture

Depression in adolescents really does need more attention. My son is a High School student and there are so many of his friends that he grew up with, dealing with depression. Our world gets so fast paced and there is more married and single parents working so many hours, just to make financial ends meet. Just like our jobs, we need to set time aside for our children to talk, laugh, share stories and let them know you are there for them. Today kids have so many more pressures and have to grow up so much more faster. I am so happy for the kids that survive the depression mode and just wish they could see that even though things seem like they are so bad, they will get better. It is a bump in the road that is a struggle to get over but with hard work and support, it can be done. We have lost some of my son's friends and it just breaks my heart as a parent.

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