"Kids Are Our Future..."
Yeah, of course they are. So our future is a bunch of screaming, crying, pooping, messy, misbehaved brats.
That's what I gather, at least, every day at my store. A family walks in together, then disperses... mom looks at the Boutiques while eight year old Billy and four year old Sally bee-line for the Heely's. Billy tries out each style of these shoes with wheels individually, leaving rubber skid marks on the tile floor. Sally gets bored and entertains herself with the light-up Princess shoes, knocking each run into the next, throwing tissue and box lids around like it's confetti.
Just when they've made about all the mess they can make, Billy skates over to Salle and runs into her, knocking her down and into the corner of the bin, where she gets a minor bleeding scratch. That scratch is not minor to Sally. She sees blood and immediately starts screaming her head off.
Mom barely looks up. "Billy, be nice to your sister," she drones from across the store. She's trying on a pair of shoes that make no mother a good example.
Sally can't stand that no one is paying attention to her. She screams louder and runs to her mom, screaming for her until she finds her. Mom notices Sally's bloody scratch and directs her frustration towards me: "...get my kid a band-aid?"
I walk to the cash wrap, where my first aid kid is kept, and only Sally follow. Billy knocks down a stack of shoes waiting to be put away, toppling boxes all across the sales floor.
Mom is done shopping-- "come on, guys. This store never has anything that fits me." They leave, ignoring my polite goodbyes, Walking through the aisles, I notice that mom has left stacks of shoe boxes on the benches, many of them empty because she's put the shoes elsewhere.
I sigh a great sigh... this is our future.
These are the situations I encounter every day: at work, at school, shopping, or dining. How, then, could I have any sort of hope for our future generations? How could I have any faith in humanity?
Well, ProgressiveU-ers, my answer is Girl Scouts.
The other day, on a break from the job which causes me so much anguish, I went to the grocery store where there are often people outside selling things. That day, it was Girl Scout cookies.
The sweetest girl I've ever seen, probably about eight years old, asked me if I would like to buy a box of Girl Scout cookies to support their troop. She was wearing her adorable uniform and a great big genuine smile.
I was overwhelmed with happiness over how adorable and polite this girl was, so I turned toward the table to buy a box (or five). To my great dismay, the line was four-deep, and I had about seven minutes to get back to work.
I asked the Girl Scout what other days her troop would be selling cookies; unfortunately, that was the only day.
Expecting to see disappointment from the girl, I was surprised once again. Still smiling, she told me, "it's okay, maybe next time," and told me in the most genuine way to "have a nice day."
It doesn't happy very often, but that day, my faith in the future was restored. Not everyone is a mindless, screaming, messy little brat. Not all parents are bad ones.
Maybe if everyone was a Girl Scout, the world would be a better place.
Good luck, future.














This was a good read!
The Girls Scouts are also an incredibly inclusive group. They teach respect for all. I will definitely let my daughter be a Girl Scout, should I someday have one.
Now the Boy Scouts, on the other hand....Well, that's probably a blog topic in itself!
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You also have to realise that we were all screming pooping crying bratty little kids at one point. We changed. They're kids that's how they are suppose to act. I definatley didnt agree with how the mom acted. But it's bittersweet for me because yes sit horrible but those kind of things (even from that early of an age) define people and shape there lifes( meaning the kids' lifes).
I think you may have missed the point.
Yes, we were all "little brats" at one point... but there's a huge difference between acting like a kid and acting like a hellion.
If I was in any store with my parents, I had to stay right by them and behave myself, or there would be consequences. Kids nowadays have no consequences. These are the hellions.
The cute little Girl Scout probably isn't always that sweet and perfect. I'd bet a lifetime of salaries that she's not. But she's a kid.
Kids make mistakes. But if you run through a store screaming and shrieking and no one is doing anything about it, there is a problem.
It's not okay for kids to be throwing shoes around and it's not okay for kids to be going around stores by themselves. Yeah, they're kids. So someone should be controlling them.
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I remember seeing this exact post earlier last week and I commented on it.
That's odd?
Well, it is very well written none the less.

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The only way you could have seen this exact post a week ago is if you read the notebook I carry around with me in my purse... stalker much? @-)
anyway, thanks for the compliment
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Girl Scouts is a wonderful program along with many other programs. I have a 15 year old and a 9 year old who I am very proud of. I am not sure how old these children are that are crying, screaming or being brats but children do go through fazes. I think it has a lot to do with parenting, respect, manners and what children are taught. I have seen some children who really need more guidance but this has been going on for years. I have so many friends who have wonderful children. My children's friends are great respectful kids. There are some kids that I see at the school that I feel could use some manners and be a little more respectful but then I ask myself, I wonder what they deal with in there life???? All I can say, is I hope you have more wonderful encounters like the little girl scout because good kids really are out there. Thank you for sharing your happy experience.
you should see some of the kids i deal with everyday...
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So, perhaps you shouldn't lose your faith in people so easily.
Youth isn't bad, it must be molded and constructed.
Hmmm..... I'll tell you what could fix America's young generation, especially those kids in the grocery store: 4 years in the marines