So i was sitting in the mall the other day and a i notice a pregnant girl walk by me, she couldnt have been more than 16.... i didnt think much about it because well i see that all the time...then i started walking around and i saw another pregnant girl about the same age... i started thinking to myself whats with all the pregnant teens. i know that teen mothers isnt something new but i never notice how many there were. i see at least 3 everyday. Before i use to think that a lot of them where sluts and couldnt keep there legs closed.....but i learned that its not like that at all.....a lot of teen mothers wanted to have a baby and are really happy about being pregnant. a lot of girls were put in situations that they couldnt get out of. this past year almost half the girls i knew from school are or will be mothers very soon and must of them arent even 20 yet. i just dont undertsand i've never wanted to have a baby before i was out of college.. i know that people say when u find that certain person u'll change ur mind, but i did find that certain person i found him in high school and we're still together, and i still dont want kids until after college. its weird girls use to have goals like becoming doctors or at least going to college and now it seems like everyone's goals are to have babies... i'm not talking about those who didnt plan on having a baby thats another subject... i'm talking about those girls who want a baby no matter what... maybe i was just raised different i was raised to have a baby after u get married not before and not before ur 20....
whats with all the teen mothers now days
By tatianampatterson - Posted on April 15th, 2008
I was a teen mom. The first very unplanned but I took her as a blessing. Then my husband and I got together and we talked about having more children and in my stupidity said ok lets go for it. I was 18 at the time. It only took a couple of months and I changed my mind. I seen I was not ready however it was too late I was already pregnant. She was born a month after my 19th birthday. By the time I was 20 life was looking up and I knew school was going to be on the back burner for a while as I was staying home with my older 2 children. So we decided one last try for a boy. Needless to say 3 girls and he got snipped *Evil Grin*. I however know people who got pregnant on purpose in high school. I just rolled my eyes at them because they rationalize it for themself. "Oh your baby is so cute". Yes tell me that when you have been up for 3 days in a row you are on the verge of halutinations and just want to sleep and you have to finish the day out at school. The one I loved was "I want someone to love me". HA I have a seven year old who hates mee every other day because I make her do her homework and eat her veggies. So even as a young Mom myself I am baffled by some girls and their drive to be mothers.
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