I used to think that judging is stupid and it causes you to miss out on knowing wonderful people. but as i thought about it more, i became to realize that i am hypocritical. we all judge. it's human nature. so i came up with the conclusion that its how you act upon those judgements that determine your character. When you let your judgements get in the way, that's when you miss out on knowing a great person. So, take the time to know each other, without any kind of judgements. Dont give someone a dirty look that you think is someone whom you wont seem to like. Dont talk crap about a person because of something some person said about them, and in reality you dont even know this person you're saying such horrible things about. Get to know each other on a deeper level. That is when the best relationships are formed. Smile a lot and make yourself pretty. Think that your pretty. Smile knowing that everyone is pretty. Dont let stupid stuff get you down. Dont let your judgements on someone get in the way of knowing who they are. So think good about everyone, even the people who are really mean to you. And be kind to others.



True.. all very true! I agree. I've judged many people wrongly. I just recently became really good friends with someone who I had judged as not nice. It's really made me think about judging people and to stop following my incorrect judgements.