When I say "The Game" I'm mean the one us women play with our boyfriend's, fiance's and husband's mothers. Yes I'm talking about the mother in-law Game. When she calls and says well you should make it this way you know that IS how he likes it, or when she says oooh you have a back ache, I'll rub it for you it's a shame you can't get this treatment at home.
It seems like every time we turn around there is something new that his mother just slips in with to get that much further than you in The Game. Everytime you move your piece hers goes just that much further. Then she gets these super power moments in The Game where she uses every once of devil in her to win a particular section of The Game. I'm wondering when it will stop. Chances are never. When we get married it will be on her terms because she has that underlying rule of if it doesn't make me happy you won't do it if you know what's best for you. She knows just where to hit her son where it hurts to get what she wants. I thought I was good.
I have realized that she will have her own way of raising our children, how to spend our money, and so on. Well I have decided that woman should no longer take this. Mama let go of your son he is a man, we can take care of him, and he gets sex from us so we ultimately win no matter you have to say. And men your mama will love you no matter what so when you tell her how you feel she should be happy for you but if she isn't, she'll get over her self.
My fiance aND i are living together and his mother is throwing a fit. I feel bad but I've done some pretty bad things to just see her get pissed. I leave my underwear on his bed, KY on the bed, my panties and bra in the kitchen, you know kind of marking my territory. I will always cook dinner, and lately I have an inside source hat tells me what she's going to get him and I will go out and get it first, I know it sounds bad but you hear some of the shit this woman has pulled.
she has called up my parents, hello I'm an adult. She threatens him by saying when we do get married I'm not allowed in her house. She tells him everything she thinks can be done better whether it's aroung the house or pretty much anything. It's terrible and thing is she is a really nice woman. She just has to learn to let go.
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Well, it seems that people like that are just not open. As I said before, people who are not open won't get as much out of life. Just let her be that way. You can't change her is all I can really say... I don't know too much about the situation exactly (especially since I am only 17...), so I can only say what I said.
You are right. I know I can't do anything about her and she will be the way she is. It's just so hard to deal with at times because it's hard to make people happy and stay happy yourself. You know what I mean?
I know what you mean I think. I guess maybe some alone time without her would be good possibly. Maybe that will help.
I don't know what to do any more I feel like she is ruining our relationship and I can't do anything else but cry. I cried all morning and I cried through my Economics class today. I'm moving out of my fiance's house and I'm letting God take care of the rest. I just want to make him happy but know I am miserable and it is getting to me. I feel so challenged. ???