Ok my cousin brittany has no respect for anyone. She lives with my grandma and her dad, her dad doesnt give a shit what she does because when she turns 18 there kicking her out. My grandma takes care of her more than the father does. Every day brittany goes out and has sex with random guys and does drugs no joke this is the truth. Yesturday i couldn't take it anymore, brittany ditched school for the whole day and so i snitched on her and told my grandma. My grandma got really upset and yelled at her. Brittany didn;t come home till 9 at night and the father didn't do anything still. The reason why im writing this blog is because my grandma has cancer and also when she gets stressed out about things she shakes so bad she cant walk. Brittany cause her to do that almost everyday. I told the father he needs to be a dad and punish her but he wont listen to me he says i dont know what im talking about. So what should i do to brittany? what can i say or do?



her mom? Is there anyone you know that is close to her? Someone that can help her out? Try to have a talk with her. Maybe she feels like she doesn't get the love and attention that she needs.
Why the hell would you do something to casue your grandmother more pain? Whats in your head to say that your grandma, shakes so bad when she gets stressed out, but then you tell her your cousing goes and ditches school, and you upset her even more? Think of the people who mean the most to you. If you dont care about brittany then dont stress over her, live your life and help the others around you live theirs to. Brittany is only causing her own pain and disapointment to herself, this is her problem and you should let her deal with it all on her own. Dont get your family involved more than they already is. My mother had breast cancer, I never talked to her becasue she left meand my family for 6 months, she wanted NO STRESS.... but it casued more becasue she wasn't there, other people have ways of handling things, You should step back and deside whats more important, Your cousing brittany, or your grandma, Brittanys going to have sex and do what she wants b/c noone is telling her no, let her make some mistake and maybe she get her life and attitude back on track.
WOW! I can see why you posted this! Honestly I would just sit Bittney down and talk to her and say what the fuck are you doing. Tell her that if she wans to ruin her own life thats what to her thats fie, but by doing all this she is slowing killer her grandma and if she dies in the near fture from stress that SHE will be that cause of it and that she will have to live with that for the REST OF HER LIFE! Explain to her who does she think she is and that if she keeps up with this she will ruin her life and when she HAS reached rock bottom no one will be there to help her out because of the fact that she was the reason of your gandma's death. I know it's harsh and mean, but whatever it's the truth!
I had friend like that kinda, she didn't do drugs though. Maybe she has no respect for anyone because she feels no one respects her. Also I read somewhere that sex is a good way to relieve stress. I guess all I can say is to have a talk with her, but don't point out the obvious, that's really hurtful to people in those situations. Then again she will listen to you, or she won't. *sigh* I've had so many friends like that and it's really hard seeing someone you care about do that. More than anything though, she's probably feeling left out, unpretty, and unloved. Just needs someone to talk to, and more than anything, someone to related with so they can teach her to overcome it.