Mom, if I had known that I would have to leave my house I would have not been born.
Mom, if I had known that I would have to take on anohter family's name I would have not been born.
Mom, I do not want to leave you!
I do not want to go pardes.
Why should a daughter be brought into this world if she is to go through the night of tears of leaving her world behind.
Mom, I want to lay in your lap and listen to a lori.
I want you to brush you fingers through my hair until I fall sleep.
Why should a daughter have to bear this pain? Why show so much emoitions towards me? Why does the guy not go through this? Mommy, why is the bride crying? Is she not coming home with us? Mommy, why is she going in that car is she not coming home with us. As I run after the car I see my best friend in tears with her hand reaching for me. Mommy, why are they taking her away from me! Mommy, stop them!
Mommy: she is married-she is their daughter now.
NO! She is my best friend. She needs to be with me!
Mommy, do all girls have to get married?
Mommy: Yes....
No! I want to stay with you Mommy! Mommy I do not want to get married. I am too scared to grow up! I do not want to grow up! I love you and Daddy.
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Question that goes thru my head why is it that its hard to love another when you have so much love where you are now. Females have to go through a lot when changing lives. Even, now I am scared to get married. Just think about the things you leave behind and how it would feel you not being there...When you have so much love and warmth at your home-its hard to let go.
Sowie, but family weddings get me all emoitional espeically, if your on the female side....
I hope you enjoyed the read...
God Bless,
-luv
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You know you really made some goood points there. It is true, guys have it so much easier thatn females do. Why should we have to carry the weight of the world while men have not a care in the world.
http://www.progressiveu.org/090204-dont-miss-this-chance
You wrote it beautifully. I am sure that there is more cultural aspects to it?
DISCLAIMER: I am not being rude. I'm stating my opinion. No personal attacks are meant. Please give some leniency on how you take my words. imagine me saying them with a smile. ^__^
Weddings make me cry, too. Women give up so much going into a marriage - which is evident in the fact that they take on the man's last name. After my trainwreck of a marriage, I guess it's just hard to look at the ceremony as something to be happy about.