How Some of my frienships go...can you relate

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Like every now and then i lose and gain friends. Gaining them is great but losing them is the part i just cant understand! I am not the gossiping type so it isn't that, i am not deliberatley mean to anybody so it ism't that, Ill Neva know...Growing up i have never had a lot of friends especially of the female gender...but recently i have lost friend boyz and gurls.Most of your fake friends (males) go away because of your status or the actions you do dont fit their quota of "cool".Example, With me at the moment not playing basketball, and bein the fact that this was not my most spectacular performing year anyway (lol) most of the "homies" you have sort of fade away. Then me choosin to not be all disrespectful or what not that tends to lose interest from people. But enough about males lets move on the next gender. Ahhh the female mind can be so confusing,so thats why you let it stay confusing.I recently lost two friends girls (the only two i had) over hmmm more than confusing reasons lol. First, one just out right started at ignoring me . was wondering a little bit why but as it happened more i just said oh well and laughed about it.But the day before we were joking and throwing up fake gang signs .No previous relationship or anything.Hmmm, but on to the second. Now,her reason for not talking to me is even more confusing. If i figure this out i will be sure to ket you know. But I think she just puts more on herself than she really has to. But yea, a friend loss is a friend gained for sumbody else...but those are just a few i wanted to get off my chest...*sigh*

Could you please use full words and not slang? I didn't feel like reading the whole thing, because of it. If you want to talk like that, talk to your friends on AIM.

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I agree, I had a hard time with it as well. Please, don't fuel the stereotype that every young American is like this. Use full words!
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sonja's picture
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And could you please think about what you're going to write before doing so? You can edit, by the way.

-Sonja :)
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burningexample's picture
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I was going to say seconded, but I believe this is fourthed.

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GregK's picture

"Greg K." Im sorry for that i edited and made several corrections.Im new at this bloogin thing so excuse. But thank you for bringing that to my attention. ^_^

kinkatia's picture
Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

I know exactly how you feel. I'm in the middle of losing the friendship of someone I've looked up to because she's decided to be petty and immature over a little misunderstanding. I am absolutely against bullying, and in class today she decided to play the bully...throwing stuff and kicking the desk in front of her into my friend who was sitting in the next desk up.

And why was she doing this? Because my friend moved up a seat to talk to the girl sitting one row up.

Gah! I'm frustrated. I had thought she was more mature, and now she's creating a rift between us because of her sudden bout of immaturity. It's completely unbecoming of a high school senior, really.

I suppose that's just the way people are. The only thing you can really do is stick it out and you'll learn who your true friends are.

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