This was another subject I had heard on the radio a couple of weeks ago.Lets say you are with a new boyfirend or girlfriend and you love everythnig about them except one thing. The sex with your ex was better than the sex you have with your partner.Would you sleep with your ex then.
A lot of people said what you are supposed to do. "You are supposed to not sleep with the ex or have any contact with them at all.One woman was bold enough to call and say she has a new man but she is still sleeping with her ex husband.When they asked if she planned on stopping she said"Hell no."
Basically if you are one of those people that have a new person in your life , but you sleep with your ex, you have feelings for them. Just like I mentioned in I Love You Even Though Her Name is Imprinted On My Neck, talking to them on the phone is bad. Sleeping with them is even worse. Why would you put yourself out there like that?
The first person you are hurting is your self. Of course you will not be able to realize it at first . While you think you are getting the upper hand , you really are not. The ex is playing you and playing with your emotions. People say you can have no felings if you have sex with someone. Yeah right. You and this person used to be an item. For some reason you two split and hopefully moved on. Now you want to run back to them because of the sex?
You and that person have that intimate moment for some who knows how many hours.How can you not have any feelings for them after the ordeal? Then you are also hurting your new lover.
You are making them a rebound and no one likes to be a rebound. You are not considering their feelings and your relationship with them. But hey what ever makes you happy right
So what would you do in this situation?
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They'd need to figure out why they broke it off in the first place if they're still sleeping together. Makes no sense to me. Of course, there are some who like the idea of having multiple partners to satisfy all needs, sexual and emotional. See one of the old polls asking about polygamy.
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Let me think for a second... because I don't know where to start.
You're right. You're only hurting yourself when you do that kind of stuff. Having sex with your ex will OBVIOUSLY make the feelings come back. Regardless of it just being for the sex, you shouldn't be in the new relationship because your feelings for your ex are still there. (I'm sitting here feeling like a hypocrite because I still have feelings for my ex and I have a new boyfriend. But my ex and I were together for 16 months... it was one of those, first-true-love-that-never-end type of things.)
You need to let go of the ex. No matter what.
I was with my ex for 16 months, and I still had feeling for him for four months after - and I had been dating my current boyfriend for three of them. As for my boyfriend? He's the perfect example of a rebound gone right. We started going out a month after my ex broke up with me, and we've been together for a little over a year and a half now.
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I started dating my current boyfriend about 3 months after I broke up with my ex. I had been crushing and everything before that so I can't really say that my boyfriend was a rebound. But I agree... if he was, then he was a rebound gone right.
I'm happy for you and your new boyfriend. Best wishes.
I personally have not gone through this. Someone just mentioned it on the radio. My rebound so -called worked out perfectly. Thanks for your comment.