why is it that we are all so focused on finding "the one"
everywhere i turn i seem to hear someone say
"i think this is the one God has for me"
why is it so important?
are we really that lonely?
we meet someone new and automatically the question pops in our head
"could this be..."
(i know, i too am guilty of it)
we're all so young!!!
we pile our relationships back to back
heartache and new love run together with no boundries
we look for someone new to try and alleviate the old pain
but in the end they just cause more hurt
i used to think thats what i wanted
that sense of security, knowing someone (anyone) loved me
i now see that that want was nothing more than insecurity
why is everyone so intent on finding their "other half"
are we not already whole?!
what makes us think that God is not enough?!
we say we're going to "focus on God completely" and "let Him be in control"
but then someone shows the least bit of interest in us and all of a sudden we say
"this must be of God!!!"
and the cycle begins once again
we're so lost, so in need of direction
we need to stop torturing ourselves with these "relationships" we feel we "need"
give your emotions and heart a break!
all the hurt and pain- thats not what God intended for us
take time and focus on Him- real time
before you dive into something new just stop and think for a minute
not with your mind, but with His
i say this for not only the good of me but for the good everyone who reads this
save yourself unnessary heartache
