It came to my attention that many here may not have much contact with conservatives.
I thought, as such, I'd let you in on the mind and perspective of a Conservative.
I am a single, white, conservative, christian male. To many, that automatically makes me evil. Add in that I am also a gun nut, and it is no wonder I haven't had people checking my hands for a '666' mark.
I wasn't always conservative. In my early days I was what one could now call a 'moderate'. Why would someone become a conservative?
Well, here's why:
I was born in Minnesota. A liberal stronghold. A state so liberal that even the Republicans were pro-choice and supported things like Affirmative Action (which is little more than government-mandated racism.)
I was raised up in public schools where I saw liberalism in action (though at the time I didn't notice it.). No one was wrong. There were always 'answers that are closer' to what the teacher was looking for, but no one gave a 'wrong' answer. Even in math.
Awards were handed out for participation which, if you got one, was sometimes nice and sometimes insulting. If you were someone who had won, your win had no meaning as you could have sat there and picked your nose and won an award.
Any reasons to strive were quickly removed as classes were slowed down to teach the slowest of students, and extra credit (which generally consisted of answering unrelated and unskilled questions such as "What color is the ceiling tile?") abounded.
I hated school. I was a smart kid who never had to study or do homework. The class was taught so slowly that I memorized the material from the presentation the first time and became bored during the next few times the material was repeated for the sake of the kids who needed constant and unending help.
I was eventually sent to a private school (Funny story, I had a teacher who openly told my parents that I was a failure and always would be and that I was a cheater. She said that because we lived in a mobile home, I wasn't smart and had to be cheating, though she could never 'find out how’. .. . The truth was I never cheated, I didn't need to. I was smart. The result was my parents pulling me out of that horrible school and sending me to a private one.) There I was challenged. I had poor discipline from years of public school, and they fixed that problem by actually calling it to attention and punishing me.
My grades stayed high and I started doing homework (turns out, fear of punishment IS a motivator, despite what the current 'hippie skippy' movement says). In high school I tested out of Pre-Algebra and Algebra, moving straight into Geometry. Apart from myself and one or two other students, the class was made up of all Juniors or Seniors, and I had some seniors asking me to tutor them from time to time during study hall.
Skipping Intro to Science and Natural Science, I took Chemistry and Physics (Out of boredom I later took biology as an elective)
I took an AP History course and a few literature courses as well (Odd quirk about me... If you give me a choice of books to read, I'll read. If you demand that I read 'book X' and write a report, I won't do it. I believe that classics should be read out of a desire to read them and if you force it, you destroy the desire to read the classics.)
I never gave politics much thought. As smart as I was (and without stroking my ego.... I was/am smart.), I was wholly ignorant when it came to politics. I, like most, didn't care. Oh, if asked a question, I'd give what I felt, but I wouldn't consider anything beyond what I was saying and I'd never have called for the individual to take on responsibility. I had no problem giving the government all the power it wanted, as long as I had an easy life.
I started college at age 17 (But, not to appear to be a genius, it was just a date trick. On the second day of college, I turned 18) and voted for the first time.
That's when I started to pay attention. My first governor vote was for Jesse Ventura (to show my ignorance, I couldn't even tell you what he stood for).
I began to pay attention. I started to see a relationship between people voting for Democrats and being people that seemed dishonest or shady. (To give an example, I once had an ATM spit out 20 bucks more than I requested. I called for 60 bucks, and was charged for 60 bucks, but 80 bucks came out. I went into the bank and gave it back to them. All of my friends who were democrats laughed at me for being so stupid. My republican friends nodded and acted as though such an act was the right thing to do.)
I started to think about why there would be such a pattern. Surely democrats are not shady and dishonest. They're the compassionate party who cares about people.
I looked into the history of the Democrats, and history in general, and compared it to what was being said. I started to see a LARGE difference between what the Democrats promised and what they delivered. . . not just in the standard politician way, but in a predictable pattern of "We're for the little guy" followed by policies that hurt the little guy.
Then I got turned on to the writings of people like Marx. I learned about Communism and read about the 100 million people that were killed over 70 years in soviet Russia. I saw their policies and what they did to the people.
I read the book 1984, and saw how socialism worked, from the mind of the main character.
Needless to say, I was horrified by the oppression of the common man. The way that those in power would seek to increase their power, for the sake of turning citizens into servants.
Then I read the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution (Not just the famous preamble, but all of it. Yeah, that's a dry read... but no one talks like that anymore. No one writes like that anymore. Sadly, no one thinks like that anymore.)
I saw the freedoms that our Founding Fathers sought to protect. I read and learned about the lies I had been taught in school. Southern people weren't racist. It was the liberal north that thought that black people shouldn't count as people. It was the southern Democrat that opposed integration in schools. I looked and read and read some more.
I learned about our freedoms and that each right carries a responsibility. You have a right to speak and hold your own religion and have free press, but you have a responsibility to be wise with all three.
You have a right to defend yourself and not be a victim, but you have a responsibility to use caution in so doing.
You have a right to vote, but a responsibility to vote for the good of the future, not just your petty desires for more 'free stuff'.
I looked for others who saw things the way I did, and found the answer not in the Democrat party, but in the Republican Party. As I found more of that ilk I found out what actual compassion is, and how the Republicans and Conservatives aren't evil people who want to see poor people suffer, but good people who want to see everyone be independent.
Dependence is slavery. It is only through being independent that we find freedom. However, to be independent, a person must be willing to sacrifice to take responsibility for themselves and their actions. To be free, a person must be willing to go without, if need be, to save for something better. To be free, a person must be willing to reach out and help others in the way that they need to be helped (as compared to just tossing around free money from the government)
I see some of our elected officials calling for things like universal healthcare, cap and trade, gun control.... they use pretty words to make these sounds like great ideals. They frame your rights in terms of their responsibility and then discuss them as though they are bad.... so that you support them when they promise to take care of your problems...
You don't need to budget your money so that you can get out of poverty, the government will pay you. All you have to do is play by their rules and be the person they want you to be.
You don't need to change your life to get a better job for better benefits, the government will give you free healthcare and charge those pesky 'rich people' (after all, they're holding you down by not giving you their money anyway). All you have to do is play by their rules and visit the doctors and get the procedures that they want you to.
You don't need to be responsible for yourself when it comes to pollution, the government will set the level by which we can pollute and tax anyone who pollutes more. All you have to do is buy the light bulbs they tell you to and drive the vehicles they tell you to and use the fuel they tell you to.
You don't need to defend yourself; the government will put police on the streets to be your protection. You just have to have the foresight to call them 10 minutes before your attacker breaks into your home or your car or kidnaps you so that the police can get there.
The government is not evil. Our government serves an important purpose of holding our wonderful nation together. However, there are forces in the government that seek power and are willing to turn you into a servant to get it. It is through the embracing of our Rights, granted by God, recognized by the Constitution and defended by you, that we can hope to find freedom that our Forefathers sought when they cast themselves away from England.
We must stand ever vigil, ever alert, ever ready. We must resist those who would take away our rights for the sake of an 'easier life.' We must think with our brains, not our hearts. True compassion is not giving free money to the poor, but helping the poor to become independent of the government.. independent of welfare.... independent.
Embrace freedom and cast off the yoke of socialism and communism and liberalism. Only then can we be free.
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...in hyperbole.
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That's really all you have to say?
You came here just to throw out an insult. Not even enough time passed for you to have read the whole post....
Admit it, you read the first paragraph or two, then scrolled through the rest and then posted your insult.
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I think it was more a joke than an insult, Lance...
At least I saw it that way.
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They've said that to me before on other threads, in a negative way.
I am not convinced.
Ah.
Then turn it around!
Take it as a compliment.
You're an expert in hyperbole... though you believe all you write, you emphasize in a dramatic tone which makes for an interesting read.
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Lance is VERY good at hyperbole. It is the thing that jumps out from every one of his posts. It is a quality that would serve him well if he were to write professionally. Everything he writes takes on a desperate urgency, to an almost but not quite comical level, but it is very dramatic.
For the record, I had intended to point out a few of my favorite exaggerations in my original comment, but the kid got home from school, and i just automatically it 'post' before shutting down. I agree with lance; it was an incomplete comment. The moment has sort of passed now, though.
P.S. I read every last word. I'm a fast reader.
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Than I will do what far too many who attack me refuse to do:
I apologize.
I'm also right of center. I say "right of center" and not flat out "conservative" because I have views that are clearly in opposition to Republican political and social values. Example: I hate guns. I live in a city with a murder rate of 1+ per a day, and last year a high school student was discovered with grenades, rifles, and handguns in his room; he admitted to planning a Columbine style attack on my school. My take on the tired old NRA slogan: “Guns don't kill people, and people don't kill people either. People use guns to kill people.” Plus, I oppose the death penalty, torture, and usually support environmental causes. My "liberal" views pretty much stop there (I am, by the way, a registered Republican).
My experience with public school was a lot better than yours... we have the option of taking honors classes, AP classes, independent study, and testing out of courses in order to take more advanced ones.
I wouldn't say that Democrats are "evil." They just have fundamentally different philosophies on the most effective and beneficial way to govern (philosophies which you and I oppose). You quote "southern Democrats" as being opposed to racial integration, which they were, but the parties weren't the same back then. Prior to the 20th century, the Democrats were the conservative party. Presidents FDR and Kennedy are usually credited with shifting the values of the Democratic party to their current ideas.
Socialism bad, government dependency bad, personal freedom good... I pretty much agree with everything else you have there.
PS, it is totally unfair that the Republicans have been labeled the “evil” party by mainstream liberal society. Hippies were once proud of their dissident status, but now they themselves are the ones in control of society; they've become the very same "man" they once so ardently opposed.
The southern Democrat that opposed integration was in the 1960's, long after both FDR and shortly after Kennedy.
Remember also, regarding FDR... one of his trusted aides was Hiss, outed by Chambers as a Communist and Soviet Spy. Chambers was ridiculed by the press and by the FDR Administration, as with the Truman Administration. Hiss had a big hand in the treaties that split up Germany, giving so much to the Soviets who had, for much of the war, been on the side of Hitler (In fact, it was in Communist Russia that Hitler's troops had been trained, so as to not violate the WWI treaty about a standing army in Germany)
Chambers provided testmony and outed himself as a soviet spy, as a defector to the united states. The media and the FDR/Truman administrations mocked him and demonized him.
He provided proof in what is now called the 'pumpkin letters'. . documents written by Hiss to the Soviets. Hiss' response was that he was amazed that Chambers found a way into his home and used his typewriter. The press echoed Hiss' words and despite this direct proof and horridly flimsy story (less credible than that of OJ Simpson), Chambers was blacklisted, whereas Hiss was held high as a hero.
The verona cables started to be decoded and it was discovered, decades later, that Chambers was right, Hiss was a soviet spy, and the Democrats supported him.
To this day, they still do. Even the New York Times sometimes runs a story with a comparison to how unfairly hiss was treated by chambers.
Okay, there was some ambiguity about exactly which southern Democrats you were originally referring to. In this case, I agree, they would appear very hypocritical. Though, on the other side of the coin, some Democrats formed a separatist party called the Mississippi Freedom Democratic Party in 1964 whose sole purpose was to advocate civil rights for blacks. On the third side of this coin (if it had a third), you could argue that the fact that a separatist party was necessary demonstrates the racism and hypocrisy of all the other southern Democrats.
Hiss may have been a spy, but did Roosevelt know this? Regardless, I disapprove of them both. FDR exhibited lack of judgment for hiring Hiss (sort of like a certain current Democratic presidential hopeful).
It hasn't ended. Some, myself included, see alot of racism in the Democrat's pushing of liberal social programs. Things like Affirmative Action are around to 'help' minorities, but instead it teaches one of two things: 1.) A minority is just not 'good enough' to get a job unless the government forces employers to hire them. or.. 2.) White people are just too racist to hire a minority unless the government makes them.
There is also the horrible condition of schools in urban areas. Education, with very few exceptions, is held by the liberal side of the coin. If they really cared about educating the minorities in the urban areas, they'd have sent money into those classrooms instead of storing it up at the administrative level. Of course, instead of blaming them, the left is content to point fingers at President Bush, as though he is responsible for the last 3 decades of public education.
Hiss' status was brought to the attention of both FDR and Truman's administrations. You'll note (if they still teach this) that FDR and Truman referred to Stalin as "Uncle Joe". . a loving family figure. Meanwhile 100 million soviets died under the watch of "Uncle Joe" and his successors.
I don't fault FDR for hiring Hiss, only for not investigating the charges and dropping him when it was discovered that it was true. The same applies to Truman. That the left defends and coddles communists and demonized their naysayers stands as evidence of where their heart lies.
For reference of demonization of those who condemn communism, research McCarthy and Nixon.
If they really cared about educating the minorities in the urban areas, they'd have sent money into those classrooms instead of storing it up at the administrative level.
Urban schools are a tough issue. Most education funding comes, not from the federal government, but from state budgets and local property taxes, even to help with the expansion of education. With a huge chunk of funding coming from local property taxes, its no wonder that poor urban areas have poor schools.
But as for the liberal hand in this, lets take California as an example. California is overall liberal and overall has shitty schools. A big part of why our schools are shitty isn't because our liberal government people are so cold-hearted, its because of Proposition 13, which in 1978 severely restricted the ability of the government to increase property taxes. The proposition was sposored by wealthy homes owners in prime real estate areas in Southern California that didn't want to pay higher taxes.
Back to the story. So, its not really liberals tying up funds that's the problem, its that we don't have any money to tie up, or a proper way to raise the money. But in the end, education is a bipartisan issue.
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Ah, but private schools (Most of which have a FRACTION of the money of public schools) put out students who are more educated.
What you have is a private entity doing a better job than education, with less money, than the results of decades of Democrat's spending policies regarding education.
Throwing money at a problem doesn't fix it. Unfortunately, when democrats and liberals get in power, they never find a shortage of things to through our (not their) money at.
It's highly debatable whether all private school provide a better education than all public schools. And I'm pretty sure that the best private schools are receiving huge amounts of money, its just that much of that money is donated.
I've been quite interested in the idea of school vouchers and/or school choice, which proposes using "free market" devices to improve school quality. I'm not totally against the idea. One of the biggest problem in my mind is the issue with governments not being able to make sure of the quality of education in private schools that they are essentially paying for. I'm already worried about the science education students are receiving in religious private schools.
And I'm not trying to say that the way public schools work right now is ideal or even good, but I think its fixable.
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just more word twisting to avoid the point. Private schools do much better than public schools, with far less in funding. Why? Well, private schools are expected to do well, or people won't enroll. If they don't enroll their kids, there is no funding.
Public schools... they get funding by nature of existance.
I've been in many public schools and have experience with many private schools. I have YET to see a public school that provided a better education than a private school. Yes, public schools in big cities in rich areas may have more toys to play with (planetarium, bigger gyms, pool, bigger track, etc) but toys and building size does not equal a good education. I WHOLLY support vouchers. It ought to be a crime that I send my (currently nonexistant) children to school A, but the government requires that my tax dollars go to school B. Not only am I funding a school I do not have a child in, but I am having to pay EXTRA to send my child to the school they ARE in.
Private schools get a rap for being 'where the rich send their kids' . . .. it is because of Democrat and liberal policy that this problem exists. Let parents choose where their tax dollars go and you'll have more people able to afford good schools. Will schools that don't do well or are horridly unsafe suffer? Yeah. But people shouldn't be required to fund that which is not working.
Well, Democrat and liberal policies have rules for around 40 years in schools. How about if you all move aside and let the Conservatives take the helm?
I've occassionally run across statistics that suggest some huge percentage of public school teachers send their own children to private schools. I seem to also remember Ediblewoman posting something to that effect at least regarding her own upbringing.
That is close to all I need to know about the state of public schools and the relative merits of private schools. I am sure though that not all private schools are equally good ( not all public schools are equally bad either) and a wise parent would do some research and find one that was a good fit for their child and their budget.
I suppose that your major objection to science education in public vs private schools has to do with the Theory of Evolution vs Creationism/Intelligent Design? That is really the only part of "science" that is controversial for most Christians. I think if you added it all up, that public schools might spend a week teaching evolution in a 4-yr highschool education. If some private school kids are deprived of that week, it is not much of a deficiency. This is particularly true because kids coming out of private schools almost universally know how to read which is apparently not the case for many public schools. If you can read, almost any educational deficiency can be remedied.
I was living in California at the time Prop 13 passed. It should be noted that it passed with broad popular support and was a backlash against irresponsible tax hikes and spending that had already occurred.
Proposition 13 severely restricted the ability of government because the government had shown an inability to act responsibly. And that irresponsibility continues to this day. California would have plenty of money if the politicians would quit cutting irresponsible deals with the various public service unions like prison guards.
Governments always overspend and they have a habit of cutting back spending on the very few services that the public cares about first so that the public will be more submissive when they raise taxes. California is a great example. Two of the public services that Californians care the most about are roads and education. California has a state budget that is larger than most of the countries in the world but what public services does the government chronically choose to underfund: roads and education.
Would you happen to refer to the guy that died just a few short years ago from South Carolina?
He was a pig. I can't believe they actually celebrated his life. Of course, he changed his party from Democrat to Republican, and so all the Southern Republicans I knew praised him. Which made me have a certain distaste for Southern Republicans. That and their absolute love of integrating the church and government.
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My post you are replying to referred to Alger Hiss, a known communist spy held in high position in the FDR and Truman administrations.
He died in 1996 I believe.
The other person I referred to was Whittaker Chambers, also a communist spy who turned on the Communists and began pointing out other communist spies he had been in contact with, including Hiss.
Chambers died in 1961.
I'm not sure who you are referring to.
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bad folks.
Before you started talking about Hiss, you were talking about a Southern Democrat opposed to integration.
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Heh, no... not A Southern Democrat.
It was the Democrat Party that opposed integration of schools in the south during the Civil Rights movement.
It was not Republicans, but southern Democrats that opposed such actions.
In fact, it is also Demcorats that, just a couple years ago, moved to segregate the school districts some city in Nebraska (Omaha I believe, but don't quote me on that part) into a school for whites, a school for blacks, a school for hispanics, etc.
Time and time again it is the Democrat that focuses on race.... then labels the conservatives to be racists.
Hmm... all the same, I know one in particular that just died a few years ago... you can tell my opinion of him based on my previous comment.
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Well, Racist people, regardless of Party, are stupid.
However, looking at trends, I see the conservative movement kicking out the racists and the Democrats holding them dear (Carter, Robert Byrd, Jackson, Sharpton, arguably Obama, etc etc etc)
You don't need to budget your money so that you can get out of poverty, the government will pay you.
Unfortunately, when you live below the poverty line, you really don't have money to budget, or money for health care, or money for gas, or money for education to get a better job.
Oddly enough, even though Ronald Reagan "the God of Republicanism" cut government welfare programs, he increased welfare spending by $200 billion. And since he cut taxes he had to borrow all that money. Democrats many be "tax and spend" (which seems logical), but Republicans are "spend and spend".
Now, I'm no expert, but it seems like conservative philosophy is "if bad stuff happens to you its because you brought it on yourself". I find that reflected in their (and your)philosophy on people living in poverty. It's also reflected in how conservatives deal with rape, violence against women, unplanned pregnancies, obesity, the high cost of college, and poorly performing schools.
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Eh, that becomes a crutch. My family has been bankrupt. I remember spending one christmas living in the basement of my grandparent's townhome, sleeping on a mattress on the floor, because we had no home.
We had nothing and owed the IRS tens of thousands of dollars.
We got out. Anyone can, just so long as they don't buy into the defeatest attitude of "I can't win, why bother trying, just stay on welfare..."
Eh, that is kind of inaccurate. While the numbers you quote are fairly accurate, you have to remember the state of the nation when President Reagan took over. Also, note that his economic plans, though they cost money in the beginning, ended up making the country less dependent. Also note that budget matters and spending is done by Congress, not the President. We have a national debt of over 9 trillion dollars, given to us by decades and decades of Democrat rule. The 'surplus' that President Clinton is credited with was earned by the hard work of Republicans who had taken back Congress. The Democrats and the media, of course, did not want credit to go to a Republican, so it was passed on to Clinton.
In the same way, our gas problems are the result of decades of liberal policy, by the Democrats. In the same way, the Democrats and media do not want the blame, so they rest it on President Bush.
Not at all. My, and conservative, philosophy is not concerned about who to blame for your current status, but what you can do to get out of the hole you're in. It isn't about pointing fingers and whining, but about making yourself independent so that you can achieve. Are you in debt up to your eyeballs? Stop getting credit cards and wasting money on eating out. Spend less so that you can pay more and get out of debt. HOW you got into debt isn't a concern to me, as I'm more concerned with helping you get out of debt.
That assertion is so disgusting that I am not even going to rebut it. You know far less about conservatives than you think you do. I recommend that you change your sources as to what a conservative is.
I'll deal with the Reagan stuff first.
We have a national debt of over 9 trillion dollars, given to us by decades and decades of Democrat rule.
Reagan's Cold War defense spending, much like President Bush's Iraq spending, put us in massive debt. We can argue about whether it was worth it, but the point is that it wasn't wholly due to Democratic presidents.
Our oil problems I wouldn't consider so much a partisan issue as an issue of Washington being at the feet of corporate lobbyists.
Quite true, Congress is in charge of budgets and spending, but if we take Iraq spending as an example, much of that is influenced by the President. Even when Congress had a Democratic majority, Reagan's popularity and the Southern Democratic "Boll Weavils" he created meant that Congress pretty meant when along with his desires and policies.
Now, as for my take on conservative philosophy, you kind of backed that up for me with your response. Not everyone had the support system that your family had to get out of debt. And many people living below the poverty line aren't there because of debt, or they're in debt because they're in poverty. You (and conservatives) tend to make gross oversimplications. Poverty is more complicated than "cut your credit cards".
That assertion is so disgusting that I am not even going to rebut it.
Please, please do refute it.
I've found that religious conservatives on this site usually believe that if you're a girl, have sex, and get pregnant, you should suck it up and deal with it (read have the baby). Regardless of the situation. Once again, their view is the result of a gross oversimplication. They don't care if the girl got raped or if she had a boyfriend that abused her and made sure they had sex without using protection.
Phyllis Schafly, noted conservative, believes that if you're a woman and agree to get married, you agree to sex whenever your husband wants it, aka there's no such thing as marital rape. That sounds like "you agreed to get married, you knew what you were getting into" and it sounds a lot like blaming people for the bad stuff that happens to them.
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you do know that the President isn't the one to write up the budget. The Congress does that.
Oh good, you do. You see, the President can only ask for things to be in the budget and has the ability to veto it. That doesn't change that Congress can make the budget as they wish. Also note that President Bush has always signed the budget, as is, from congress. You don't like what's going on, well... the Democrats are in control of Congress.
you don't even know me, but you can tell me what kind of support system we had to get out of debt?
Here's the support system. I rarely owned new things. I would get clothing and school supplies for my birthday. We lived in apartments and trailers. We sacrificed. Rather than buying stuff for me, we all worked on houses that we lived in, to sell them and buy another. Then fix that one up, sell it and buy another. I moved a plethora of times, I've been a student in MANY schools. We 'flipped' houses long before it was popular to do. Long before you found tv shows about it.
We couldn't increase our income by nature of just 'wanting' it. So we bought a cheap mobile home in a mobile home park and started from there. What support? We were on food stamps for a few months, and worked hard to get off of them.
And you're going to tell me that I had support that no one else has?
Total crap.
First, I am a political conservative, if you want to deal with religious issues I can, but there is a distinction.
I am pro life and belive that every human being has value, even if they haven't managed to get out of the womb yet.
I beileve that personal responsibility for actions includes sex and that if a girl gets pregnant, she ought not get an abortion to keep from having to take on that responsibility.
I believe that adoption programs (also too often taken over by liberal government and run into the ground) need to be MUCH better developed, hand in hand between the government (for paper trail) and the private sector (to handle the dealings and treatment).
The answer to teen pregnancy is not "Let's abort the baby." There are too many who would love to have a child to adopt.
Let's make a deal. Right here. Right now. You agree to make abortion illegal and I'll gladly sign on. Here is the stipulation: If the woman is raped, the child can be aborted.
That situation is so rare that it can't even be figured into the statistics for reasons for rape. The most common reason, taking up nearly the entire pie, is 'Inconvenience" . . . women who had sex one night and got pregnant, but don't want a kid.
No responsibility for actions. That's the problem with the left. Everyone else is responsible and the individual should never have consequences. That's what the left's policies teach.
You woefully, and hopefully not purposely, misquote Phyllis Schlafly.
Her stance was not that women who are married are there to diddle their husbands as mindless sexual slaves.
Here is a FULL QUOTE from what she has to say, bolding by me:
It isn't about men being allowed to rape women. That idea is silly and, frankly, would only be pushed by people who don't know what was said or by people who know what was said but want to demonize chrisitans, conservatives and men.
Here is more by Schlafly, again bolding by me, from an interview regarding the above paragraph:
Anything in there say "Yes, men can rape women, it's ok along as their married. Women have no say in sex!" ? No. Not at all. But that won't stop people from using her as an example of how mean and evil conservatives are... and yet she was talking about justice for men from accusations by women who want to get even or get more alimoney or get custody. And yes, that OFTEN happens.
Far from it, which is what makes your comparisons disgusting, insulting and radically gross.
you don't even know me, but you can tell me what kind of support system we had to get out of debt?
I believe he was referring to your extended family with whom you stayed when you didn't have anywhere else to go. Not everyone has family like that. The government isn't the only support system around.
Also, there are different kinds of poverty. There's the type your family went through, in which you became impoverished because of debt of some sort (hence the bankruptcy).
There's also the kind where people are not quite poor enough to receive government aid (yes, I know, you don't like government aid, it's just to show you where these people sit), but still can barely pay the bills, much less start a savings. The meager savings they may have is a couple hundred dollars that they've managed to scrape together over the course of about 5 years, and that's with good budgeting. This can happen in areas where the cost of living (not just rent/mortgage, but also taxes, commodity [food, gas, etc] prices, and so on) is nearly equal to or higher than the average wage, even for people with a college degree.
And yes, there are situations where it is impossible for people to get out. It's not always as simple as "budget your money, save up, and move out," especially considering we're in a recession right now.
I am treated as evil by people who claim that they are being oppressed because they are not allowed to force me to practice what they do. ~D. Dale Gulledge
We've been in both groups. For a LONG while, we didn't make enough to get by, but also made 'too much' to get any help from the government. We cut out more and more, until we were able to BARELY scrape buy.
I currently have around 1000 dollars padding in my savings. It has taken me around 7 years to get that. Now that I am in college again, that pad does not grow, in fact it shrinks slightly. Do not think that I am somehow affluent. I have been in homes of friends who are on welfare to see a brand new ps2 (back when it was brand new) and dvd players and a big tv.
now, they didn't have enough food to eat and they lived in a bug infested apartment subsidized by the government....
Yes, that is a proirity issue. and it is not uncommon.
Errt. No, we're not. A recession is when our economy shrinks instead of grows, for at least a quarter. We were never in a recession. We did not grow as quickly as we generally do, but at no point did our economy shrink. In fact, it went up. It wasn't by much, but it was still growth.
The calls for a recession are by a media that wants to blame the President for everything. (IF we were in a recession, you'd definately see me ranting about it, as the Democrats have had power since January of 2007 and it would be squarely in their court... but we just are not in a recession.)
now, they didn't have enough food to eat and they lived in a bug infested apartment subsidized by the government....
Yes, that is a proirity issue. and it is not uncommon.
And for those people, I have no pity. They got themselves into that situation and show no initiative for getting themselves out.
I think that there should be systems in place to help people in times of need (such as a person getting laid off). However, I believe that that help should have a time limit. Basically, we'll help you so that you can keep your house and won't starve for X amount of time (say, a year, or something like that), we may also provide job placement assistance for that length of time. If you don't find a job in that time, it's your own fault.
I also believe in the systems that help those that are physically unable to help themselves (those with disabilities that prevent them from working), especially since I've seen how much those people actually get (it's basically enough for them to keep a roof over their own head and live off Ramen Noodles), so it's not like claiming disability will allow you to live a life of luxury.
No, we're not. A recession is when our economy shrinks instead of grows, for at least a quarter.
Okay, let me rephrase that, we're on the verge of one. Interest rates on houses are rock bottom right now. The federal government put out the Economic Stimulus checks in an attempt to deter a full recession. It's there, it just hasn't happened quite yet, and people are doing what they can to either mitigate it or prepare for it.
The upcoming election and uncertainty about what, exactly, will be done when the next President takes office isn't helping matters.
I am treated as evil by people who claim that they are being oppressed because they are not allowed to force me to practice what they do. ~D. Dale Gulledge
Oh, most states have that in place. What people do is work for someone for 3 months (some states 6) so they can qualify again, then stop showing up and when fired claim unemployment.
You will never have a successful welfare system in the government. Policies are made by people who have no clue and are administered by people who don't care.
here is my example:
I was laid off in January of this year. I filed for unemployment online and had to register for the state job bank.
I followed the directions to the letter for completing a resume (even though personal experience says that the way they make their resumes is horrible) and then had to go in person to sign some papers and find out what non-monitary help I needed (basically to see if I qualified for government paid training.... by the way, I don't. Funny, eh? No college degree, no home, no income, but I don't qualify for paid training.)
I show up and the, rather rude, person who calls me up looks over what I've done online and sees my resume. She says it is 'horrible' and 'will not suffice.' She is very rude. I explain that I copy and pasted the example, then changed the relevant words to fit me, and she says that I did not (yes, she called me a liar) and that I need serious help in learning how to write a resume. (that's rich.)
She reworks my resume into what she finds suitable (which I still say is substandard, but that's another story), then I have to wait for another person to see me to talk about what help I might need. (that person that ended up seeing me was very nice.)
I ended up finding a job on my own (using my original resume, not any of the ones the state made me make) and never collected a dime of unemployment.
The solution is clear: Private entities need to replace the horridly inefficient Government Welfare program. Money spent on welfare can be kept in the pockets of business owners so that they can expand their businesses and gain jobs (as compared to now, in which each employer pays multiple taxes to unemployment and payroll taxes just because you work there)
Boy, I go back and forth on that one. On one hand, I do believe that those who can not provide for themselves due to physical/mental limits (and who do not have family who can help) do have a place to be helped out by others. On the other hand, such government assistance makes them dependent on the government. As I often say, Dependence is Slavery.
That is, indeed, a tough one. I always believe it should be Individual first, then Family, then Church (and yes, even atheists can gather together and take joy in their athesistness and even make atheist charities for their atheist groups, which would function like a church-run charity), then society.
I think we skip over Family and Church far too quickly. Perhaps it is an issue where a very slow and graduated program of removing government assistance and increasing private assistance can be best.
Nope, not really.
What a GREAT time to invest in a new house! You can get a MUCH bigger house, better house, for MUCH less money than you likely paid for your own. Oddly enough, states like Oklahoma weren't affected all that much by the housing market issue, and our home sales have actually gone up a few percent, just as they've slowly done for the last decade. We didn't have the HUGE rise in home prices that other states did, but those same states are the same ones with the huge crash.
Tortoise and the Hare.
That did it because it is an election year and both sides are pandering for your vote. It came at a good time for me to toss into a new american-made pistol and my college savings for the next semister, but 600 bucks is not going to provide for anything that was promised with the stimulus. The BEST way to turn around the economy is to stop saying and acting as though the sky is falling.
Unfortunately, the media won't do that until we have a Democrat in the White House.
The ONLY way I see an ACTUAL recession happening is if Congress continues to drag its feet on the drilling expansion, oil shale and coal-to-oil programs.
One big thing that is going to hurt is, bigtime, is the bill that passed regulating the light bulbs in our home and how much mileage our cars are required to get, by federal mandate. That is going to radically drive up car prices without actually lowering gas prices or demand.
The other big thing that would crush (yes, crush) any hope of avoiding a recession in the future would be the cap and trade program.
Do you really think that companies are going to just 'eat the cost' of such insane taxes? No, you and I will pay for it.
not only will gas prices continue to rise (greatly), but all of our products from staples to paper to food to clothing to computer equipment to the amount of rum it'd take to dull the pain of drifting into socialim.
Oh, there we agree, but perhaps for different reasons.
The most conservative person running for President, of the two major parties, supports cap and trade.
That spells doom for any conservative hopes for our future.
Oh, most states have that in place. What people do is work for someone for 3 months (some states 6) so they can qualify again, then stop showing up and when fired claim unemployment.
Should be easy enough to fix. Have a time span between qualifying for a number of years and you can't just quit or find a way to get yourself fired. A check with the former employee would solve that. Getting laid off is something that is beyond the employee's control. Getting fired is entirely the fault of the employee.
Also, I specifically left out "government" and "private" when I talked about "welfare" systems because obviously, the current government run system isn't working. It either needs overhauled or privatized. Frankly, I don't really care as long as the system works and is run the same either way. However, a welfare system, regardless of who it's run by, is flawed in that it's "free money," which is something that is, in and of itself, addicting.
From what I've seen, the current welfare system encourages dependency and needs to be overhauled or abolished completely.
Boy, I go back and forth on that one. On one hand, I do believe that those who can not provide for themselves due to physical/mental limits (and who do not have family who can help) do have a place to be helped out by others. On the other hand, such government assistance makes them dependent on the government. As I often say, Dependence is Slavery.
Dependence is slavery, you're very right. Though I do have a question -- how is dependence (in the sense that we're talking here -- total financial dependence) on family members/friends any better than dependence on the government, except for the fact that the money is coming from one specific group of people instead of the general populace (which is both good and bad when looking at it on an individual level).
Since you've shared a story, I'll share mine (and actually elaborate on the example I had given for the disability thing).
My stepdad has a bad back. I'm not sure what exactly is wrong, I think it's a deteriorated disk (basically, the cartilage between at least one pair of vertebrae have broken down). Now, he can do things. In fact, he does a lot of things around the house. He actually rebuilt the porches and put new walls in one of the rooms. However, doing so usually put him in bed the next day because it aggravated that disk, which also happens to sometimes come in contact with what's called the sciatic nerve, which ends up shooting pain down one leg. He's also got something going on with his feet (I'm not sure what it is, it occurred after I moved out). He also has about 20-40% hearing in each ear (one's different from the other) and requires hearing aids (which I don't think their insurance covered, saying it was a "cosmetic" thing, which he didn't get until after he married my mom).
Primarily because of his back, he's unable to work (because if he over exerts, he's in bed for the next two or three days). Therefore, he has to rely on Social Security and lived solely off it until he married my mom. Social Security gave him just enough money to keep the house he was living in, eat Ramen Noodles, and pay child support.
Unfortunately for him, he would never be able to work because he can't sit or stand for any length of time. But believe me, he would if he could. He's like you and would work his tail off for everything he had.
What a GREAT time to invest in a new house! You can get a MUCH bigger house, better house, for MUCH less money than you likely paid for your own.
Except for the fact that they're variable rate loans most of the time. So, when you get that house that's way out of your price range, when the interest rates go back up, you'll be stuck paying ungodly amounts more on your mortgage. If you can get a fixed rate loan, then yes, it's a very good time to buy.
It came at a good time for me to toss into a new american-made pistol and my college savings for the next semister, but 600 bucks is not going to provide for anything that was promised with the stimulus.
Yeah, I never really understood the whole, "let's give $600 to the poorer people and $1200 to the richer ones!" thing, especially since the supposed intent was for people to spend it on things. Our $600, like many people's probably, went to paying off a credit card.
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Good luck getting that through. When you even suggest a change, the Left and the Media team up and rant about how you hate poor people and how it is just 'further proof' that Conservatives are the 'party of the rich' and want to keep poor people held in place. (Total lies, of course, but that doesn't stop them)
I agree, especially since dependence is slavery. Any government official who supports dependence upon the government ought to have their reasons examined.
The idea being that Family is family, and the family's authority does not extend beyond that family unit. Part of the purpose of family is to help one another. The government, on the other hand, has incredible authority and influence. Part of what ensures our freedoms is that government's influence and authority is kept in check by personal liberty. To be dependent upon the government removes some of that liberty. Unfortunately, we are starting to see (in the last 40 years) a movement to voluntarily give our personal responsibilities over to the government (Such as security, personal responsibility for healthcare, personal responsibility for getting loans, etc). . . one of my prime teachings is that each right comes with a responsibility and whoever takes that responsibility owns that right.
Heh... are we related? You just described my dad. lol.
He (and I) also has fibromalgya, which causes constant pain.
What a perfect reason to support the wrestling of Social Security and Welfare away from the government. People who NEED help (like your father) are put on the same level as those who are just too lazy to want to work. (I'm always amazed at the great lengths people go through, even to the point of having multiple children just to get free money from the government so they don't have to work. If only they harnessed that energy into doing something productive.)
This 'mortgage mess' was created by variable rate loans (which are a horrible idea, crafted by banks when mortgage rates were at all-time lows, so that as rates rose they could increase their profit) and that possibility of continued mess creates a good reason to stick with a fixed rate.
Now, you may pay more for a fixed rate than the variable rate's starting point, but we're at INCREDIBLY low interest rates.
NEVER get a variable rate loan. If a bank only deals in variable rate loans or refuses to discuss fixed rate, fing another place to get a loan, stat.
That's not what happened. 600 bucks per person, up to (I think) 1800 bucks.
If you made over around 100k, you didn't get anything at all. (Rush Limbaugh even had a funny bit where callers were calling in and thanking him for their rebate check as Rush didn't get one, nor did any of his staff.)
The 'rich' (who, by the way, pay around 95% of income tax) REALLY got shafted on this deal.
Here's the IRS information sheet, this particular one happens to be married without children. Perhaps I'm reading it wrong, but from what I can understand of it, if you go through all of it, pretty much everyone is supposed to get at least a couple hundred dollars (the top number that I saw that qualified was $160k). It's a combination of income and tax amount from what I can tell, but I'm no tax agent. $60k income seems to have the best deal here.
I am treated as evil by people who claim that they are being oppressed because they are not allowed to force me to practice what they do. ~D. Dale Gulledge
That is a touch misleading as it deals with MARRIED couples.
160 grand for a married couple is 80k apiece (average, of course)
If you make more than 80k, be you single or married, you don't qualify for this.
Now, you pay the VAST Majority of taxes (again, the top 50% of wage earners pay something like 94-96% of income tax, with the top 10% or so paying nearly half of all income taxes)
But when it comes time for a 'rebate' you got the shaft.
This sheet you link to shows it even worse than I suggested as I thought the cap was 100,000. . .. it ended up being 80k.
Edit:
Now that I"m thinking about it... I believe that 100k is still the cap on GETTING a refund, but that 80k is the highest bracket.
Oddly enough, states like Oklahoma weren't affected all that much by the housing market issue, and our home sales have actually gone up a few percent,
I also observe that Oklahoma has one of the lowest unemployment rates in the nation. I suspect that both the good housing market and the low unemployment rate have a lot to do with Oklahoma's crackdown on illegal immigration.
Quite Possibly, though that crackdown is under attack.
There are too many liberal people here in Oklahoma who buy into the stupid idea that cracking down on ILLEGAL immigration is racist.
I didn't know that legal status was a race, but they get pretty snippy about it when you bring that up. Which I do. Whenever possible.
Oh good, you do. You see, the President can only ask for things to be in the budget and has the ability to veto it. That doesn't change that Congress can make the budget as they wish. Also note that President Bush has always signed the budget, as is, from congress. You don't like what's going on, well... the Democrats are in control of Congress.
Lance, I think you know I am a conservative.
I think your defense of President Bush with respect to fiscal conservatism is unmerited and is also beneath you in that it is lacking in your usual meticulous accuracy.
First the inaccuracy. The largest percentage of the massive expansion of government since Lyndon Johnson's Great Society occurred early in the Bush Administration when the REPUBLICANS controlled both houses of Congress. (Actually the Senate was 50-50 for the first two years after Jumpin' Jim Jeffords went independent). Congress gets a lot of the blame but it was not Democrats who were in control. I will note that the Democrats objected to a lot of what the Republicans passed during those years and in almost every case their objection was that the spending was too low. But at the end of the day, Republicans were running the show and they get the blame for the runaway spending and particularly the massive increase in pork.
Republican should not be confused with conservative. They are two different animals. That distinction has become glaringly clear in the last 7 years.
Second, the fact that President Bush "always signed the budget" bills was a very large part of the problem. You have repeatedly asserted that Congress controls the budget but you understate the fact that the Constitution gives the President a very potent amount of power in this respect. It is called the Veto and apparently President Bush spent the first several years of his Administration almost completely unaware that he had this potent Constitutional power. He deserves a LOT of the blame.
President Bush has done a lot of harm to the conservative movement because he claimed that he was a conservative but in fact he governed, particularly from a fiscal perspective, like a liberal. He tarred conservatives with behavior that we don't approve of. He does not deserve any defense with respect to fiscal matters and when you try to defend the indefensible you tarnish yourself and the entire conservative movement in the process. Better to just disown Bush because he in no way behaved like the conservative he promised us he was going to be.
Oh, I don't think of President Bush as a fiscal conservative. I never really have.
I do not blame him for our growing debt as it is the Congress (currently under Democrat Control) that draws up the budget. The President could veto it demanding a budget that provides a surplus. But he does not draw up the budget, as those who blame him suggest.
I do not discuss it as much here as elsewhere, but one of my chief complaints regarding the RNC is that they are, indeed, moving to the left and becoming more akin to the Democrat party. One of the chief issues is that they engage in the same 'spend a bunch of money because we can' mentality.
However, it should be noted that the 'largest amount of spending ever since LBJ' figures whirled around include the cleanup/response to 9/11/2001 and also the War on Terror. If Former President Bill Clinton had decided to fight the terrorists after one of the plethora of US embassy bombing attacks, or that of the USS Cole, his spending would have been much higher than it was as well.
The comparison is kind of misleading as Clinton, Bush Sr., Reagan, Carter, Ford, etc.... they didn't fight a war like the War on Terror. The closest we came was Vietnam (which was started by the Democrats, as was the Draft), but even then, it wasn't as technologically advanced as the War on Terror. The cost of reduced human loss is often large amounts of cash.
We are in 100% agreement.
Regarding the budget veto, the only blame I give the President is that he believed that if he passed the budget, he'd get his bills and judicial nominees pushed through. A conservative president (Which President Bush is not) needs to take a hard stance against liberalism.
Eh, I kind of disagree here. This is akin to saying "Even though McCarthy was 100% right, we need to join the left in demonizing him because he was loud and liked alcohol."
I won't disown President Bush because he is not as conservative as I would have hoped, I just see him as a representation of what the RNC is becomming. This same applies to McCain.
This is a VERY good election for the liberals.
If you are a radical liberal, you have the marxist-and-Hamas-favorite Obama. If you are a moderate liberal, you have McCain.
If you are a conservative..... well, go through the door on stage right, there should be some lovely parting gifts for you, including "Republican Party: The Home Game". Just be sure to vote McCain or else we'll hate you.
I can play the bold game too.
I think that when you get married you have consented to sex. That's what marriage is all about, I don't know if maybe these girls missed sex ed. That doesn't mean the husband can beat you up, we have plenty of laws against assault and battery. If there is any violence or mistreatment that can be dealt with by criminal prosecution, by divorce or in various ways. When it gets down to calling it rape though, it isn't rape, it's a he said-she said where it's just too easy to lie about it.
That sounds a lot like saying that women who claim that their husbands raped them are liars, especially if they can't show that it was done by violence. Coercion, like threatening to beat your kids unless you have sex with them, only leaves psychological scars. She discounts many cases of marital rape, almost acting like they don't exist.
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More dishonesty.
She says no such thing and you know it.
She was, clearly, speaking about the ease by which women can abuse rape laws to 'get at' a man, especially if there is a divorce and the wife wants to strike deep.
That is what she was talking about, as she said in her own words. That you're twisting them to demonize her (and by extension, me) is a typical but cheap liberal trick.
Just so you know, I support the death penalty for repeat child molesters and think that ACTUAL cases of rape are far too underreported out of fear of being seen as 'dirty' by women.
I also believe that there are many man raped by women who never come forward. I refuse to discuss why I believe that.
I also believe that there are many man raped by women who never come forward.
I believe that as well. A lot of men don't come forward because society tells them they should enjoy it and feel lucky... try telling a woman that and see what happens. I'd probably punch you in the face.
It's terrible that it's so hard to find any sources or statistics regarding men getting raped by women; most google hits seem to be nothing more than fanfiction and/or fetish sites--which just helps the theory that men don't come forward because they'll just be laughed at.
There are a few serious articles regarding this, however.
Jamaica recently changed their laws regarding rape.
Page 4 of this newsletter briefly addresses the issue, but mainly just to acknowledge its existance--the purpose of the organization is to fight violence against females.
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There are some crimes in which our courts are very sexist.
If a man is charged with rape or abuse, he is guilty. Even if he is found innocent, he is guilty.
His character is, forever, damaged.
Case in point: The Duke Lacrosse players. A stripper charged them with rape, but her story changed multiple times and she was found to be a total liar.
However, for the rest of their lives, those guys will be known as 'the guys that raped that stripper."
Doesn't matter that it was all a lie.
There is very little protection of men from false accusations. They will (hopefully) be found not guilty, but the damage is already done. Women don't have that same problem.
Here's another good example.
A teacher has been teaching for a while and finds themselves attracted to a student. They court this student and manage to convince them to come to their home, where they start having sex.
If the teacher is a man, he is a predator t