In life, porn offers extremes which surpass many people’s comprehension, meantime it is being the best measurement of what each and every society is dealing with. All struggles societies are suffering are being presented straight in all faces, while most dare not to look, OOoh nooo!
This is way funny because it represents and “shows” how deeply ignorant at the exact same time.
Societies reflection of porn clearly shows what pleases while in the same projection of the frame or image taken, it shows all doubt, hurt, fear, weakness and abuse which displays the attachment or need “paid” to it.
Graphical displays of what opposite gender can submit, endure or evoke, can make one to become shocked so deeply he/she forgets about time!
Not track of time, but time of a last reflection with reality! It freaks people out whenever they don’t grasp (believe) what they see with their own eyes, especially in a situation where other don’t show or bring up any emotion in regard to the same displayed image.
What is being displayed can turn someone into a state of disbelief so strong, like if a prison starts growing around making no difference of who they are, any longer.
To witness extremes is when looking at peoples thoughts, thoughts wanting more or less real.
To experience this,” is” understand the “EGO” which one caries inside, amazing that is in effect!
Ego flows like a river straight true one’s heart.
Now this might sound strange but!
In order to create a change which will allow balance to get in place, it is important to embrace porn and all of the facets that it represents, to make it more beautiful, to make it more acceptable and desire full should be a priority.
If one would understand how much could be achieved by simply putting effort in the creation of balance, simply by portraying sex in a beautiful graphical way, one wouldn’t carry a need to turn it’s face away any longer.
The image of porn and what it represents would slowly mould itself to become a socially accepted reality which would become morally supported by all.
It would affect the actual extremes in which we now easily notice the abuse it brings forward, it are social demands which are pushing limits and boundaries to areas that involve the abuse of our own offspring, an offspring which will never recover again, while also remain in a clouded spiral during the rest of their lives.
To bring affection inside the graphics of pornography can trigger minds and thoughts to feel it arise within themselves. It’s the lack of affection which pushes extremes to grow apart and pursued by one’s that in the end, will never have enough to satisfy their emotional (rush) attachment to it.
To add some love and affection inside the pictures frame will make some to remember, the true meaning and purpose of sexuality.
Regardless if we look, or look the other way, porn will never go away, therefore it is important to create out of it a more affection-us reflection of sexuality.
There is a need to awaken a responsible approach in order to create new scenarios of sexuality!
Scenarios of sexuality which are acceptable for all to meet the eye!
Older generations should put some effort in trying to see it the other way around!
From a kids perspective one can only acknowledge and accept the fact that all of our darkest secrets are spread all over the net and pushed right in the faces of youngsters.
The way they absorb this information is clearly to be seen in the way they behave and expose themselves.
They are not to be blamed for this, neither are older generations!
All of our hornyness and perversions are being seen and copied, making them to become standard procedure amongst many youngsters who don’t know any better, they don’t know any better because it is the reality of their everyday life!
The parental confusion which arises from it is huge and only a start from what is yet to come.
No need to add, that one can become an instant millionaire, just by creating porn to become something enjoyable to watch for women.
To shift the male dominant and abusive accent porn holds now, to turn into a proper balance, will bring all the necessary education youngsters need to be provided with, it offers and brings up platforms of choices to arise of which they can visualize and make their own individual choice, a choice in accordance with their own personal sexual preference which they might secretly carry within as a truth they can enjoy and cherish with likeminded partners.
To change the accent in and around porn, will eventually change the views we hold upon our offspring!
Pimp your porn.....
Could make it in a way that was less violent and geared towards women then I believe I and many others who opose it could accept it. I believe that was what you were saying right?
In most I have seen women are treated like objects, and it conveys a message that is a women's purpose to have sex and made to be put into any position the male choses. I feel disgusted to watch such things because like you said there is no balance. But this is just my opinion. I am sure many males will not agree and even females but this is just the way I look at it. You have a good point though.
http://www.progressiveu.org/032913-lupus-uncureable-wait-what
Love comments? I do too!
I understand and follow your views upon what you brought up, you are right!
And yes, this is exactly what I was referring too, thanks for the comment, It made me write a new blog, check out
Pussy Power
http://www.progressiveu.org/201147-pussy-power
I am not disgusted by seeing genitals or sex acts. I am disgusted by seeing women volunteering themselves to be empty holes that men use to deposit their waste on.
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
WOW...
"my first name must be, "He aint sh@t", cause everytime I come through, yall be like "He aint sh@t"!....I'll be dat" --Redman
"Anything that can go wrong, Will go wrong"----Murphy's Law
Pimp your Porn....LOL
Interesting. XD
Some interesting questions, lol
Why do males need porn?
What is the males motivation to go online and search for porn?
The female opposite of porn, is shopping, lol, women which are depressed need to go do some shopping, why is that?
Is it not an indication many amongst are missing something big?
The essence of these drives is to fill something, to fill in the “gap”
http://www.loveearth.com/uk/film/
I wonder why guys need porn? i honestly don't think they do, but this is my opinion.
I don't know why I am not into shopping like most women. When i am depressed I listen to depressing music or watch stand up comedy I don't shop. I would rather not shop. I guess I have more manly traits..besides liking porn..
http://www.progressiveu.org/032913-lupus-uncureable-wait-what
Love comments? I do too!
Guys don’t need porn, but most males, although many will deny it, THEY LOVE PORN, lol.
The main reason for this is the “imagery” because of it being graphical it causes instant arousal to occur.
Another reason is the female behavior which is to be seen in porn, they simply open up in doing things the average girl(friend) is not fancying or willing to perform between the sheets. Porn stars take sexuality upon a higher level which of course fuels the hornyness of males.
The reality which hides behind it all is even more strange! Lol
Most males fear horny women, if one would pick out 10 random guys out of the street, ask them if they would fancy to jump between the sheets with a porn star, 8 out of 10 would say yes!
Out of this 8 males, half of them will most probably have a problem to get an erection once they are finding themselves between the sheets with a porn star.
Because they would instantly feel and fear the strength of this female.
Might sound strange but same is to be found in relationships too!
Most males fear when coming across a female which carries a high amount of sexual energy, the more wild and horny a woman projects herself inside a relationship, the more difficulty she will have in finding a good partner which will treat her right or equal.
Sexuality is the biggest weakness of males, because it can drive them sick of jealousy whenever they are in a relationship with a female which is sexually strong, dominant and exigent.
It is the male sexual frustration and lack of emotional communication which causes all the misery to arise whenever a girl breaks up, even if reasons for breaking up are not even related to sexuality, most guys will still not be able to cope with this attack upon their male pride, lol.
Most guys think they love, while in fact the love they feel is nothing more than a sexual addiction they carry inside a relationship, once this attraction is over they will open up to sheet over and over again until they become mature enough to open up communication.
The main problem females are dealing with is the fact that most guys are emotionally disconnected when it boils down to making love, most are self-centered and carry no clue on what girls like and how to ignite the animal which lingers inside a female!
There are many more reasons, I might bring them up another time,
We still have a long way to go…
It’s a tricky subject, people all love sex, but they don’t fancy to talk about it, lol
Hope you are doing fine, I had a great trip!
http://www.loveearth.com/uk/film/
You have a way with words...I thought that this was correct but wanted a males propective on it. I would never have sex if I wasn't in love with the person. This sounds strange but I believe it is for people who are in love...Thanks for your comment!!!
I'm glad you had a good trip I am doing ok.
http://www.progressiveu.org/032913-lupus-uncureable-wait-what
Love comments? I do too!
I love your sensibility. Things I have experienced and not understood being posted with such simple fluidity, making what felt like smoke and mirrors, and an endless maze so clear.
You remind me of a song, "Little Girl With Blue Eyes," by Pulp.
"Little girl with blue eyes, there's a hole in your heart, and one between your legs. You never have to wonder which one he's going to fill, in spite of what he says."
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
I likes my brown eyes
p.s. it is not even funny that after I hang out with my best friends plus my sister/younger cousin, I talk and write differently for a short while.
They bring my sleeping ghetto fab-ness to life...laugh all you want but you know everyone wish they were too, only if you all knew what I meant by it, lol.
"He who awaits much can expect little."
- Gabriel Garcia Marquez, No One Writes to the Colonel
(me thinks...I will meet GM in another life)
I asked one of my buddies this question and to his defense he said" you know some of us are naive and need to learn some tactics before we go to the class" ; / well am sure not every male is a newbie to sex? and once they watch these porn, they go ahead and treat their women exactly as whatever they saw? that was disgusting and a lame excuse and porn does not only show how hurting and abusive it is to women but it also shows how fun and enjoyable it is to males(not all) and that's what keep them motivated and feel the need of porn.
*shiko*
"Societies reflection of porn clearly shows what pleases"
These guys totally please me. jeebus. http://www.commondreams.org/headlines05/0910-01.htm
Earth First: we'll destroy the other planets later.
lol..... funny it is......
http://www.loveearth.com/uk/film/
Rest in peace
yourfuneralguy
http://www.lowercostfuneral.com/rbrianblog
of morality society etc is not the issue. Eventuality it becomes boring so it turns to violence which is wrong!
that is beyond awesome!
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
when I see porn, no matter how much it disgusts me, which happens when it is debasing to anyone in the picture, be they male or female, I feel an instantaneous physical response. The images are so powerful, that my body responds in the opposite way that my head does.
I suspect this happens to males too, the difference that they are men, and they are supposed to like it, and they do.
My husband told me about being a kid and his friends showing him their dad's Hustler magazines. He was actually frightened. The first time he saw something disturbing and debasing, it changed his perceptions of women. Not surprising.
I remember being about 8 or 9 and playing hide and seek. I was hiding behind some bushes, and between the bushes and the wall I saw a high heeled shoe, and a pair of ladies underwear. Then I saw some pages from a magazine that had pictures of a woman bound and gagged and a man standing over her, his penis in her face.
I did not understand that this was "porn." As a child I thought it was real. I thought I was seeing a woman who had been kidnapped and was being tortured. I can tell you, I had some crazy nightmares after that. I do think that that first exposure to deviant sexuality left its mark on my psyche. It didn't help that my mother always warned be about sexual predators, who love blonde little girls and would kidnap me and make me their sex slave.
The images are so powerful that they can over ride everything we know to be true about ourselves and others.
I remember my brother watching porn in the hotel, covering his face, peeking a little, and hiding from it again. This kind of thing is what makes people all screwed up.
I think you are right, wombels. Porn is very powerful and is responsible for many social constructs that define sexuality. If it reflected the completeness of sexuality for males and females, people might begin to understand how sexuality should be embraced instead of feared.
This is why I do not think that our culture has had a true sexual revolution yet.
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
This is why I do not think that our culture has had a true sexual revolution yet.
The whole world has plunged into a sexual revolution, the internet is responsible for this occurrence to speed up faster than ever before.
Sexuality cannot be embraced in an environment in which structures dictate how to go about sexuality.
These indoctrinating structures still today push their thumb upon females, but lucky enough the tipping point has been passed!
Sad thing which flows out of it, frustration amongst those who cling will show its ugly face! Youngsters will handle it just fine to bring that needed balance between sexes.
Females need to pimp their porn, that’s all it takes to tackle the humiliating sickness of abuse out there!
http://www.wowzone.com/monkey.htm
I was just wondering what it would be like, female porn I mean. There was a great documentary a few weeks back on IFC about teen sexuality in film. I found it very interesting, and it made me realize what a bad teacher our media is.
What is sad is that sex education only discusses biology. I wish kids were taught more about the psychology of sex. When I took Human Sexuality as a class, I was like, "Wow, I so could have used this information in high school."
I think that we need to be less afraid of talking about sexuality, especially in the media.
Okay, not to tangent too much, back to feminine porn. Personally I do not like films that are all about sex. I mean, a film can be about sex and not show any sex at all. I don't mind that. I just mean that the only thing that happens in porn is sex.
I like to see sex as it is, which is multifaceted, engaging on an emotional, psychological and spiritual level. Now that might seem like I am asking for too much, but I think that to ignore these factors, we are letting biology rule. Those other factors are still at play, we are just not paying attention, and our bodies become our masters. So people become zombies controlled by their hormones.
To awaken the whole person, and allow for the other aspects of our humanity have a place in our dealings with sexuality, is what I would like to see. I just don't know if it would still be called "porn." I mean, I have seen a lot of films that show sexual acts, including genitals that I would not consider Porn, simply because there is a context that gives information about the relationship between the people in the story. It seems like porn ceases to be porn when the people on camera seem to be connected in any way besides physically.
Another thing I have wondered about, why is that "hot sex" in film, not porn, just film in general, is usually reserved for people who either not married, or are cheating on a spouse? How many times have you seen a movie depicting "hot sex" between a married couple?
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
"I was just wondering what it would be like, female porn I mean. There was a great documentary a few weeks back on IFC about teen sexuality in film. I found it very interesting, and it made me realize what a bad teacher our media is".
Female Porn would be at its best when it would openly decipher what triggers the (fe)male brain, lol!
Males can be categorized in two main segment watchers in regard to porn. There are more segments but these two are by far the most important to understand.
Some males are drawn or triggered with a rush when they can witness females who are being humiliated in movies, the more the better, because it enforces the image they carry inside there thinking, which of course is a very negative aspect about porn in general.
It freaks people out! While some love it in sickening ways....
This segment of guys are the walking frustrations we have lingering inside our societies, they lack emotional engagement and have never learned other than to be self-centered. Because of those males, females end up with hangovers which might take them years to overcome never to open up again. Those males do not acknowledge or are not aware they carry within, a female side, whenever they feel it coming up they need to fight it in order keep their ego in balance, the fact they cannot function well socially when walking around with an ego like that, they get rejected emotionally over and over again by females, making them to become the jealous and more worse, on the long run the more vicious males around.
Other males become triggered by a combination of beauty and inaccessibility, meaning: pussy, boobs, ass, shoulders, face, legs and a zillion of others aspects of females they can witness in porn but never in daily life, lol. They are not drawn to humiliation, they reject it, they might watch it in order to understand it’s out there but will not approve it.
Most males are triggered by the display of the act itself, therefore they carry no interest in story lines or whatever outside aspect which might bring some additional value to it. Male never get to see the end titles of a porn movie, lol... Once the rush has been obtained they immediately tune back into their other doings.
Same actually happens between the sheets of most relationships, most males rather back away after the act, lol. They are not to be blamed, it’s more a thing of inner peace which most rather make a moment of their own. Most females don’t read this aspect and on many occasions misinterpret this need of separation right after the act.
If they wouldn’t mind or point in that direction, most males would simply remain around and actually enjoy the peace in unity.
Media is a real bastard when it boils down to creating problems around females and their sexuality, because it constantly creates ideal standards which need to be filled in order to be or become that so called FEMALE everyone wants to have or be! They push out large segments of women which them have to deal with gross reality and negative vibes coming from men who regard them as lesser beings, just because they don’t fit that ideal profile which is being grossly pushed forward by Media.
Females need to (better) understand the difference between lovemaking and sex!
If they can explain and show this difference inside a movie of their own making, they beat two flies at the same time!
There is a need for females to bring out the sexual ID they are (hiding) inside in their own making and reflection, this only will help to break down all misconceptions males carry about females. Females need to understand some amongst females are actual nymphomaniac women who love to get it!
These females would care less for love, to point them out as a disturbance within is not an intelligent approach, because they are who they are.
The best female porn is created by female fantasies brought to life by female intelligence.
Meaning: production of movies in which males and females are being sorted out to fit the script and fantasies which need to be projected, while focusing on aspects which trigger female arousal will surely be one big step in the right direction. Setting, proper camera angles, storylines are only few of the things which can change the whole concept around porn.
This will make such that the segment of those who are walking in frustration will die out over time, most males carry no clue upon how to approach, address or treat a women, while they handle even worse between the sheets!
To focus upon bringing some fresh air in porn land might easily change more than most are willing to believe.
Good representation affects each and every one of us, therefore it’s important to get a grip upon the educational aspects which is to be found in porn, females need to start and put a stamp and kick some ass around this aspect.
Pimp your porn, lol
I will answer your other questions soon,
I don't think I could participate, but I can appreciate.
I nominate Meke for the overseer of the project.
And if carrot is in the cast, I'm staying for the whole film, credits and all. :please:
Ooh, I had to come back again. Lets have greenunderbelly in there too. greenunderbelly and carrot fucking for the forest! (I hope I didn't offend either of them, feel free to edit if feelings get hurt.)
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
I’m not encouraging anyone into participation, I guess those females already involved should or could organize themselves better if they would work together instead of remaining geared in male direction they follow now.
I believe there must some female Spielberg out there in the business who could make this a reality, lol
http://www.wowzone.com/monkey.htm
I have seen porn that was supposed to be made for women. i wanted to throw up, even more than when I see regular porn.
It was supposed to like a real life fairytale that gets naughty when the prince saves her. Gross.
I am not sure it was made by women, but it missed the mark, for me anyway.
I do like Meke's idea though. i would love to see porn made *for* lesbians, not porn with lesbians for male pleasure. That would be hot.
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
Anyhow, it will sooner or later become a reality, one needs to understand, there is big box to be made when shifting this market to focus upon women desire!
Females with balls could easily become millionaires, lol
I didn't even read the damn good blog because the comments section got so intense, lol
females with balls... I am sure these words have got some peoples interest, like mine :)
more onto why I couldn't resist but commenting on the females who actually give a fuck...
personally, it is a can of worms for some, like a Pandora's box even though it might not have any negative/evil connotations or side effects in reality but to some (talking mainly about me here, and then generalizing)...It means you have to be ready for any and all consequences if you let yourself take this path of empowerment.
we say sky is the limit, but often we might already be that sky but haven't realized that.
I know that after reading some of this, and watching certain movies and shows, there are ideas in my head...thoughts that want to be actions and if acted upon, they might turn out great but the problem is me. I am the one holding me back because....I have placed importance on things that hold most people back. I want to be part of the social constructions, some might call religion one, another is race, gender, sexuality and what not.
I understand this yet I am letting it happen. This is why I need to be me, or find out who exactly I am and what I know I am capable of...if it was black and white in my head, things would have been different. I let people, places, ideas and things get to me, because they matter to me, I think more of the consequences of my actions in reference to my world and I think...this is my Achilles Heel
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I really hope I made sense, I don't think I even used the word porn and pimping female porn but the ideas were in my head...I am trying to figure out what I would consider female porn
truthfully...I think Jane Austen's Mr. Darcy, Pride and Prejudice, was a total turn on.
It had a lot to do with the fact that he didn't scare too easily of a woman with brains and an attitude ( plus beauty...but I consider that irrelevant and inconsequential, although...even I know when a woman or man are the shit, I mean awesome).
"He who awaits much can expect little."
- Gabriel Garcia Marquez, No One Writes to the Colonel
(me thinks...I will meet GM in another life)
I think girls are more into plot and the lead up and everything. That's why we have romantic or errotic novels and romantic movies that happen to have sex scenes in them as opposed to pictures and stuff. So female porn would have to be indepth and involve a fair amount of plot. Plus, we like the mushy and romantic stuff sot that couldn't be cut out. Plus, in general, girls want to have feelings with the guy they're with so there wouldn't be much sex with strangers in female porn.
Like what you've read? Well, then here's more:
http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/tricia0711
but I really hate romantic plots. I boycott most "chick flicks." I have never seen "Sleepless in Seattle," or "Titanic." I do like "Moll Flanders," though, and I thought "Juno" was romantic.
As far as "sexy" movies go, Hmm, I like foreign films for that better than American ones. I like "Bladerunner," actually, I like "X Men Last Stand," and "The Matrix."
I guess I do like some "romantic" movies, I loved "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon," and also "Hero." "Hero" is one of the best films ever made, in my opinion.
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
Yeah, I'm not a big fan of romantic comedy either, except for romantic comedy, but I do think that for girls to like a movie the main focus needs to be on plot and development while guys prefer effects and such.
Like what you've read? Well, then here's more:
http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/tricia0711
Exactly what I was thinking as I read that.
"Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it."
--Andre Gide
Indeed it is very sad, it amazing how deeply ignorant people remain when it boils down to youngsters and sexuality!
Children find out about the truths anyhow, regardless if a parent has a internet (porn) lock installed upon their PC, it doesn’t change anything.
Regardless if youngsters have home (granted) access to internet or not, they know more about porn than most are willing to believe or better say accept, some know (when and where) dad is surfing porn, others know mum is having explicit chat sessions with strangers.
The reason why I know, is because I asked them straight out, I did not question them, I only asked one question: Did you guys and girls ever watched porn?
Do understand I asked this question to 10 year olds kids in a group in presence of other adults!
They ALL looked at me giggling, after which they started to explain about Youporn! Apparently it’s their (friends) most favorite hangout in order to discover what they are not supposed to know.
The funny thing, they ALL know they are not supposed to know!
It took exactly 10 sec for this conversation to become very explicit amongst themselves brining up every single detail of what they had come across.
Porn is actually nothing of a big deal to kids, regardless if they are boys or girls!
Don’t get me wrong, I’m just saying they carry more questions upon why some are making such a big issue out of it!
So to pop any illusion one might carry, most kids know what’s cooking in the kitchen, wheter its their own parental of someone else’s, whether they like it or enjoy it not, is something else which will reflect upon our societies when they grow older.
To break down the doctrine which tries to dictate and romanticize sexuality in order to control IT! I guess and strongly believe, would be a step in the right direction in order to bring up and present some deeper realities which are involved with sex.
People need to understand sex and love are two different aspects, one needs to understand both in order to receive and give both in a joyful fashion, all this without guild spoiling any of both to begin with, out of ignorance or fear.
We are not there yet! Only few years ago masturbation was still a mental crime, some mental disease and dirty act!?
Today, females are held responsible for global “fresh water pollution” because of their use of contraception’s! Apparently it turns males into gay’s too,,,lol, how convenient!
This ridicule only confuses youngsters, simply because they cannot relate to the nonsense coming from those who they need and are supposed to trust!
Sex education is extremely important to be given before puberty kicks inn!
To make it a no nonsense one would avoid a lot of suffering….
I will answer your other questions soon, one by one, lol
quiet funny that you say this, I remember I was taught the reproductive system or reproduction in Mammals in 5th grade in Pakistan...yet they leave the rest to you to figure out.
Of course, middle school in America doesn't leave any subject uncovered and that is where I learned most of this. I clearly remember telling my parents about learning about the actual act that makes it all possible...it was one of the few times he, my father, got really angry, and flew off the handle, at me. I was in 6th or 7th grade then. I think he mentioned, if this is what they teach in school, I'm taking you back...after which, asma kept her mouth shut.
I had sex ed EVERY year in high school (gotta love philly public schools). And one year it was taught by a male, my dad's age, it was awkward for the class but He didn't think of it as any big deal. Looking back it seems awful yet awesome that I know all this shit even though I have never had to put it to use.
"He who awaits much can expect little."
- Gabriel Garcia Marquez, No One Writes to the Colonel
(me thinks...I will meet GM in another life)
doesn't teach anything beyond anatomy, and sometimes proper use of contraceptives. i wish there were classes in American junior high and high schools that would teach kids about the differences between "love" and "lust," that would explain the science behind all the conflicting things that are going on in their brains and bodies.
I wish it would teach about the history of sexual revolution on the planet, and how far we've come, yet how far we need to go.
I wish it would teach kids self respect. I wish kids were taught in way that they made the equation in their head, "If I couldn't see this person parenting a child with me, I probably don't need to be having sex with them." I am not saying I am all about only marital and monogamous sex, but for teens, it is dangerous, in my opinion. They don't yet understand all the things they feel, they get emotions confused with physical impulses. Girls think their boyfriend will go away if she doesn't put out, etc. etc. etc.
There is way too much confusion inherent in being an adolescent. Why can't we educate them? Why can't we allow them to have informed consent if they do decide to have sex? In the current state of things no teen is having consensual sex, because they don't understand all of the repercussions and responsibilities that go along with sex.
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
It does :)
"He who awaits much can expect little."
- Gabriel Garcia Marquez, No One Writes to the Colonel
(me thinks...I will meet GM in another life)
to be honest, it has been 12 years since I was in high school, so I can't really back myself. I have no idea what sex ed teaches these days. I know it is different from state to state too. The teens I know today, like my CASA kid for example, have soooo many questions, and I see them getting answers and misinformation from their friends.
I actually spend a lot of time talking to my CASA kid (she isn't my CASA kid anymore, because she emancipated, but I still see her) about sex. She was shocked when I explained circumcision. I had to draw pictures so she could see the difference between a circumcised and uncircumcised penis.
Many could say I was a bad influence. I bought her condoms. I took her to get birth control. I educated her about STDs, when she wasn't sure what kinds of growths she was having on her body, I examined her. She had ingrown hairs and was scared because she thought it was herpes.
I bought her a vibrator and explained how to use it. I did that because she never learned how to masturbate and didn't like touching herself. I thought if she could learn to pleasure herself she wouldn't need to sleep around.
For all my efforts she still got 3 different STDs and miscarried once. I was able to help her through that stuff when she didn't know what was going on, and she was too scared to ask for medical attention on her own.
This is a girl who told me when I met her at 15 that she saw herself as having at least 2 kids by her 18th birthday,. and a gangster boyfriend. Well, she isn't either of those things. My efforts didn't lead to a total success, but still I am proud of her. She never cared about passing high school, yet I saw her graduate last year. She is going to school, and working. She wants to be a probation officer for juvenile hall.
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
You did it all and were there think and thin, for that...you're you and you know what you are...priceless jewel or something...want to say angel but I am not too sure on the topic of angels and demons.
"He who awaits much can expect little."
- Gabriel Garcia Marquez, No One Writes to the Colonel
(me thinks...I will meet GM in another life)
what I am is a human who has seen a lot, done a lot, and learned a lot. I know a lot about humans and their nature. I know what happens to people when they are rejected abused and abandoned by their own parents. I know what it is to live in fear and be alone. That is all.
Because I know these things, i look for ways to help as much as i can, in my immediate environment. Hopefully one day I can expand my influence beyond my immediate environment. That is yet to be seen. But I will not sit back idly or close my eyes and ears to the suffering that children are living in.
"Consistency is not a human trait" - Maude, from Harold and Maude
The problem with graphic displays which are involved around porn is the rush it brings forward!
This rush is the main reason why sex is the number one selling item upon this globe, we are actually living upon a sex planet, lol.
Those amongst who don’t get any rush inside a sexual relationship become frustrated and therefore seek ways to fill the “Gap”!
Those who don’t get any rush are actually group responsible for porn to become more and more extreme, while this phenomena will continue to lean more and more to the extreme in time to come.
Porn is as addictive as drugs, just like drugs, some (seek) use soft or hard drugs in order to satisfy their emotional needs.
Same pattern is to be found with porn, some like or better say use soft core, while others use hard core porn to satisfy their needs.
The danger lies into the rush itself, depending on what stimuli triggers the rush in one’s mind is something which is highly ignored and underestimated, meaning, stimuli needs to grow or be fueled up in order to get that same rush, whenever this is not obtained within the minds of some who linger around and amongst in our social lives, those individuals become a liability to ALL.
Because when they don’t get their stimuli, they become sick and obsessed! This is when the mind takes over the thought process while pushing it, the individual mind to focus only into obtaining this stimuli.
Depending on what the mind focuses upon anything is possible and hardly understood by those who don’t walk around with an addiction.
The problem these addictions bring along are huge because they can easily affect whomever is being exposed to this stimuli which is way beyond what they can take.
Very disturbing in regard to youngsters these days is the fact that they can easily receive like an instant overdose when surfing the net! Of course they will not die but they all get affected mentally of what is to be found upon the net.
It takes less than 5 min of surfing the net, to come across graphical material which display’s sexual acts that are of such disturbing nature, it should already for long been addressed upon political levels in order to deal with this material which is accessible for ALL who’s surfing.
Most people are simply not aware of what is to be found and accessible upon the digital highway!
It’s all out there and messing up the minds of those who cannot relate to IT, while little is done in order to eradicate IT in the first place.
So people become zombies controlled by their hormones.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRP4B0Or_k8
“You cannot wean away an addict from the drug. It is not possible for me to walk away from Ranjha. If it is our destiny to be together then who, other than God, can change it?”
http://pakistaniat.com/2008/01/01/heer-ranjha-the-story-of-punjabs-first...
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Learning to Breathe - Switchfoot
“You cannot wean away an addict from the drug. It is not possible for me to walk away from Ranjha. If it is our destiny to be together then who, other than God, can change it?”
http://pakistaniat.com/2008/01/01/heer-ranjha-the-story-of-punjabs-first...
Wow this is awesome. I like porn movies. Hey man whts wrong with porn. I think its very good to have. It's a nature and any one can't change it or blame for it.I always like Blu-ray Porn with Sex Toys because I like to watch them very much.:) I really like porn movies and videos.
It’s important not to feel guilty when carrying a “like” towards porn, other than that, don’t let it rule your live, cause it might mess up your life while worse, the life of others!
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