In this age, sex before marriage is very, very common. But why is it everyone's business? I think those who do it shouldn't talk about it if they don't want to hear someone else's opinion on it. Everyone has different opinions but it is the people who choose to have sex who are affected. Yes, their families are if something happens but for the most part it is their own thing. I have no real opinion on it. If they are safe then go for it.. but those who aren't need to protect themself. The only thing I think sex should be based on is your feelings for the other person.. I know it is corny but that is what I believe.. Most girls and guys my age don't think that way though. It is all about the "feeling." And the reputation of course. So why not have sex right? If you think you're ready then you do. But don't if you have even the slightest doubt. That is my rule..
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It is a good blog but my question is. How do they know if they are ready to have sex before they are married? I mean the person could dump them and they know it wasn't the person they are ment to be with. In my opinion sex is something to do when you are married and those are my morals as well. You can never tell before you are married if you are ready for sex.
Just because you have sex before you are married doesn't mean you don't have morals. That just means that their morals are different from yours. And yes, some people do have sex before they are ready, and before they realize the consequences, but that has more to do with maturity factor than morals.
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Stephen Colbert: Enemy of the Democrat?
Well, if you aren't a Christian that I suppose that makes sense, why not just go around doing other immoral things like murder too? Try looking at it from a Godly viewpoint. God created sex for marriage and specifically says that you shouldn't do it at any other time. So yes, if you think you are alone in the world, then that would make sense... but if you know that God is right there next to you loving you and being hurt by your constant sins, think again.
If it makes you feel any better, I agree with you. And personally I'm sick of the predominantly Christian viewpoint appearing in your comments, because frankly it's like beating a dead horse. I've heard the same trite explainations over and over again, and what they are lacking unfortunately is real-world connections. Your viewpoint about sex before marriage, however, shows pretty much how it is. You've used your observations of the world and formulated your own opinion instead of accepting what is being fed to you by authority figures and the Christian right. Congradulations.
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Stephen Colbert: Enemy of the Democrat?
To my own point of view, i dont think sex before marriage is bad when the two partners have agreed to marry, and they know that nothing on earth can hinder them from getting married. So it will only be considered wrong when you do it without the purpose of getting married to each other. But that not withstanding, you need to be careful.