Girls should wear clothes that properly cover herself. They should not bother with short skirts that people can easily see their underwears. A girl should conceal her body as much as possible. She shall not let a man touch her inappropriately. This is crap!
Why do the girls always get stuck with these rules? If one of us breaks it, adults are the first ones to criticize us. Do you seriously think that girls like to get that kind of attention? I am sorry that I have two mountains popping out of my body and that I cannot cover them properly for other people not to notice. Some of us are forced to dress out our ways to impress the opposite sex. Can't the guys be attracted to me when I wear baggy jeans and a large over coat?
What about the boys? How come I see many of them play soccer or basketball half naked most of the times and no one says anything about it? I asked them before why they did it. They simply responded, "Because it's hot" or something along that line. Bullshit. Girls who play sports sweat too you know. We play soccer, basketball and every other sports guys play. We dehydrate and often feel the urge to take off our t-shirts all the time. But we do not do it. Do I even have to elaborate why?
Guys can show off their skins and girls cannot. Don't guys have nipples and chest like women do? It is okay for guys to reveal themselves but not the girls. People go crazy when they see a girl wearing skirts with little length showing her thong or underwear. But they act perfectly normal when they see a man wearing his jeans too low to show off his boxers.
And you tell me there is no sexism left in 21st century.
What's up with people's myspace or facebook pictures? I see some people pose pictures of themselves half naked. All of them are males by the way. I bet if females do that, people will be calling her all sort of names. Guys should conceal themselves too. They should not take off their shirts whenever and wherever they feel like. If they are truly strong, they should be able to endure it.
Give us some respect before you look up our skirts or down our shirts. Think about yourselves before you call us "Sluts".
As an enlightened guy, I have no problem with girls playing sports half naked or even completely naked.
I've occasionally daydreamed about being a girl and I'm sure that I would be beyond slutty. From my guy's perspective, I guess being slutty would be the only advantage I can see to being a girl.
For the record I've seen plenty of girls staring at guys and heard them make sexist comments about tight butts and whatnot. Life would be pretty boring without this kind of stuff. I have no desire to have it change. Thank God, if he exists, for making two sexes!
Of course you would like seeing a girl half naked...lol
Now see, if everyone thinks like you then why are there people criticizing the girls about being a "slut". Do you view that word to be something positive? To us, it's like a slap in the face. It's just as offensive as "bitch" and everything else in between. When it comes to making sexual comments, guys will definitely take it as compliments. But girls (the majority)...we think it's really disrespectful.
If God truly exists, I'd like to ask him why there are two sexes and why are people claiming that he said people of the two sexes cannot be together.
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i love jackbenimble's reply. it made me laugh. i reminds me so much of something my boyfriend would say. thank for cheerin me up ;-)
well said
I can't stand sexist double standards that make it okay for men to do some things that women can't (and vice versa). Equal my arse.
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Double standards suck!
Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth!~JFK
Do you think we can do something about that? It bothers me too. I wonder if anyone will listen to a 17 years old girl like me. This is just as bad as racism. But no one speaks it out loud because it's supposed to be one of those things that we should know and keep quiet.
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I dont care if people listen. I am content with the fact that I just say what i need to say. In school I made sire everything was fair for me. I took no prisoners. I have the same thing here at college.
Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth!~JFK
I have a couple different opinions about this blog
Youre right. There is a double standard. But despite the fact that there is one, I still think that women should cover themselves, just so they are respectable.
I think it is disrespectful to yourself (as a female) to wear clothing that leaves nothing to the male imagination. You're are just asking to be objectified and if a guy sees you naked, he's not getting to see too much more than what the whole world already got to see.
But as far as guys wearing less clothing...I think that it is kind of opposite. Girls wear a lot less on a regular basis. Yes, guys exercise topless...but as far as everyday clothing...girls wear far less. Spagetti straps aren't seen as "slutty" but are definitely made of very little material. Although we can wear those around (to school and to the stores) you normally dont see a whole bunch of guys walking around in just wife-beaters. Dont even get me started on shorts and skirts...because clearly...there isnt much material, even in shorts with a respectable length.
About myspace/facebook pics: Ur absolutely right. What I think is funny though, is the fact that nothing is wrong with a girl taking a picture in a bathing suit. But the moment someone puts a picture of themselves in thier UNDERWEAR...there is a problem. I don't get it! what is the difference between a bathing suit and a bra-panty set?
Well...my point isn't exactly to say that girls should wear less clothing. I too think it is disrespectful to your own body to do so. I do not think guys are wearing less clothing at all. It is what I noticed when they are out doing something physically active with a group of friends. My point is that why don't people criticize though guys as well if they're going to do it to girls? Can you really blame women for wearing what is being offered at regular clothing stores? If anything, the stylists or anyone who came out with this sense of fashion for females should be blamed. I think most of them are males by the way for obvious reasons.
I say guys should keep their clothes on. If they don't, they should be criticized as well as the girls. If they TRULY do not want the girls to dress up like this, then why are there mini skirts and shorts all over the place? If it is not available to the public, no one is going to touch it.
You're right about bra and the bikini...I never got why it is the way it is either. I wish someone would explain to me...
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The difference is that males are perverts, this is a present from religion that rules our thoughts and controls our emotions, but not our instinct!
EXAMPLE:
There was a girl at my school who got kicked out of the football game for wearing a bikini top and shorts. She had painted her body just like the guys did. The guys had no shirts on and were allowed into the game! Makes no sense to me at all!
Arghh
My point exactly! Those guys should be kicked out too if the girl was taken out of the football game. If they truly want girls to wear less clothes, then they should eliminate the source instead of criticizing the girls wearing them.
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I completely agree! I'm not saying girls should start running around topless ... unless they really want to - more power to them =); but have the rules be the same! Especially when their are guys who really shouldn't take their shirts off; the guys who do have a chest that no one wants to see!
My high school had a rule that said a female who wasn't wearing the "proper undergarments" would be sent home. Well what about the guys with boobs? Should they wear a braw too? Personally, I don't want to see anyone's chest through their shirt, male or female.
Society generally requires that both men and woment cover the parts of their body that are associated with sex. For lack of a better word I will call these sex organs. Both men and women generally respect these societal norms and both sexes are held to similar norms.
Women just happen to have sex organs located on their chests. Men don't. It is simple as that. If men had sex organs growing out of the top of our skull, society would probably require us to wear hats.
Yes, men have nipples that can be sexually stimulated to a very minor degree but when was the last time you saw or heard a woman oggling a man's nipples? A man's chest can be associated with an overall buff physique but it is not something that most girls are craving to see naked.
This stuff varies by society. In many parts of Europe for example it is common for women to sun bathe by the pool or on the beach topless. Nobody thinks the worst of them for this behavior. I doubt anybody would care much if a girl played soccer topless. But for the same reason that most guys think it is advisable to wear a jock strap when engaging in sports, most women probably think that they are best served by having some support for their breasts even if it makes them sweat. Again, this is a physiological difference between men and women. I don't understand the problem.
One needs to understand some differences in regard to brain sexuality in order to understand some negative situations that occur in today’s societies.
Girls carry different reasons on why they dress the way they do because some live in countries or areas were they have the freedom in doing so!
One thing is for sure, they all know that wearing questionable outfits or showing of their body lines will trigger the minds of males in various ways!
Attention, is the sole reason why girls behave (dress) this way regardless of what they may say or pretend, they just love it to receive attention!
What girls mostly don’t like is the rudeness that sometimes comes along with it when encountering the segments of males that only use the lower brain. One can refer to these males as being pigs in society.
Apart from the “pigs”, “dirty old man” are also around together with the “sexually frustrated” individuals that all in their different way respond to attention seeking girls.
Depending of the naivety degree of girls they sometimes might find themselves in unpleasant situations.
Many people seem to forget humans are in fact still animals and depending of environment or situation many males act accordingly to their instinct that is being triggered pushing away all rules or common sense out of their minds.
When a male introduces himself socially to a girl opening up discussion or offering something to drink while sitting six tables away, has nothing to do with romance but instinct with no other meaning than to get this girl between sheets by all means possible!
There is actually nothing wrong with that, considering the fact that girls regardless of what they may pretend, love to get (wild) between the sheets. Unless they suffer from a pig hangover that sticks like a nail in their brain making them to hate all girls they come across that are dressed sexy and draw all of the male/female attention wherever they venture.
Misinterpretation of signals involving dress codes, body language, verbal outings make that unpleasant situations arise and create conflicts of hurt!
Whenever a girl dresses up sexy, she becomes an eye catcher and to men a synonym to hornyness while she’d much rather like’s to be seen as a princess left untouched.
Some males can not handle to behave in proper ways in regard to sexy dressed up woman and ruin this females freedom by acting like retarded animals. Most men hate those disrespectful pigs that box up potential females up in their home’s, spending every weekend on their couch with a big bag of chips or 1 liter ice cream bucket on their knees while watching their favourite soap together with their new and best trusted four legged friend, while having lost all interest and faith in men. Preferring to use plastic or resort to lesbian behaviour in order to fur fill their sexual needs, if they still carry any.
So, one way to keep this “pig” instinct concealed whiting acceptable boundaries is to socially focus on proper parental and schooling education, where there should be paid more attention to all sexual segments that surround our societies.
Meaning, that young boys need to be made clear in order to understand that girls can and are allowed the same sexual rights and freedom and are not to be called names or to be tossed around!
This will allow wo/man to deal with sexual frustrations that are much alive in both sexes in order to get some balance in regard to sexuality that involves us all.
Woman hold the key because their vagina is “bliss”….
Our mothers rule regardless whether they are whores or future presidents, every single female born on this globe is gift to humanity! If they are no chance given to make and mould us the men we need, we will be lost before time by creating a hell even a free mind fears.
Boys education in “bliss” engagement is a mother, woman and girls responsibility in order to keep walking the streets in freedom and gracefully sexy ways!
Woman rule the planet, sexy girls make the planet go round!...lol
Why mind to be called a slut by a pig bitch?
Eppur si muove
I think that whether we like it or not we live in a society where woman are often times seen as sex objects. And when a guy sees an object of desire with less than nothing on, of coarse he is going to be stimulated and thus ensues the comments and remarks and looks. It is a shame that life is like this but its true. I personally do not want to see anybody with their private parts hanging out in public male or female and i think everyone should cover up. But there definately is that double standard where woman have more "goodies" so they should have to cover up more.
I think we should all just wear clothes and respect each other..unfortunately these days that is too much to ask for.
Cover up! what’s next? Locking them up in their houses? Female circumcision?
There is no shame in admiring a sexy woman!
To witness an object of desire does not make it yours! Does it?
The ones (pigs) that break the rules like common thief’s are the ones that think they carry the right to engage sexy females because they consider themselves to be wordy or male enough to do so.
While in fact they are nothing more than frustrated minds that have no clue of the real meaning of sexuality!
The reason why some stupid pigs and religions have created this behavior is because they think and strongly believe females are inferior to men.
That’s why they can only engage into sexual acts by enforcing emotional pain and humiliation upon females.
The truth is that most men fear woman, they fear woman because woman are capable of much more than men. Females are far stronger on every aspect of life with the exception of physical strength that is their weakness that is abused by the cowards amongst males.
Those individuals actually hate woman, and will resort to any means in order to push them down or humiliate them.
The biggest problem today is that most guys are losers because they carry a lack of emotion and are not capable of showing any either, making it one of reasons why so many girls go on the lesbian tour in order to receive some proper affection!
Men are to consumed with their private parts that they consider to be their pride…lol.
When a woman walks down the street naked does not mean she is in heat or asking to engage her!
Men often make themselves to become a joke!
Did “you” come?
Was “I” good?
Do “you” love me?
Do “I” have a big one?
Are some examples on how they focus upon themselves in ridiculous ways!
We don’t only live in a society, we share a society with other people that value their personal freedom. If some morons amongst us can not contribute or try to undermine this freedom which includes the right of being and behave sexy they have to be reeducated, period!
Woman rule!!! Man Drool….
Girls are considered sluts and whores for doing what guys GAIN status for.
Sickening.
i think its stupid how guys can not be considered sluts but girls can. mainly because girls need to be more assertive, they should be like that guy is a slut lets not hang out with him. the main problem about being slutty for genders is that fellow females talk trash about a girl being a slut. but guys believe that a fellow male that is a man whore is "cool". some of you are saying that guys are perverts, but i there are plenty of girls that are perverts also.
Girls are the gatekeepers.
The truth is, guys always want action. It might not be directly on their mind, and it is entirely possible to be friends and nothing more. Trust me, I am a guy and I have friends that are girls.
But realistically, most guys won't turn down action if it is available. If it will have no serious drawbacks for them, they'll go for it. You can show some skin and not be slutty. You can dress down for sports without being called a whore. The key word is taste. If you're running around with a dress that barely covers your ass, thong straps sticking out and major cleavage, you are sending some messages to guys. Not all guys, since many of us are more refined these days, but the ones who do see it as a message aren't the good ones anyway.
It does suck, but historically we've been a male dominated society, and it does place different standards on men and women. I don't go running around in a banana hammock, so don't go around with your thong out. We cover our goodies, so you should do the same. Dress how you want to be treated.
P.S. Lighten up on the man hate. We aren't all bad.
I totally agree with everything you said. I think its really stupid how girls are criticized for wearing revealing clothing and boys can wear whatever they want.
So much for equality, huh?