I don't understand whats wrong with me. Im smarter than that. I know whats wrong and whats right. To understand what im saying we have to look back a little.
My best friend, lets call her Lauren, liked this guy named, um lets call him Pooh. Lauren liked Pooh but Pooh thought she was annoying and really didn't like her. And back then I didn't like Pooh either, he was kind of an ass, and back then i liked pooh's friend Buddy.
But when i got in a motorcycle acident, Buddy came to visit me but he came with Pooh. Pooh drove hime over there. And ever since then Pooh has been really nice to me. I stopped liking Buddy a while ago, and Laura says shes moved on from liking Pooh.
And then suddently i start liking, more like gettin a crush on pooh. I like him, but I don't know if pooh likes me back. So im a little confused. Plus im the type of person who doesnt like to hurt my friends, so even if pooh did like me i would probably hur Buddy and Lauras feelings in the process.
Usually im really good at reading guys expression and the way the act. I can usually tell if they like me. But pooh has me stumped, i dont know whats wrong with me. Im so confused, i know better to fall for someone who might not like me back. And so stupid to fall for pooh, knowing i could hurt buddy and lauras feelings.
What should I do? I really like pooh. But i always do things to make others happy. And im starting to get sick and tired of that. I finally want to do something for myself. But by doing that will it hurt me in the end? I dont know..
What should I do? I really like pooh. But i always do things to make others happy. And im starting to get sick and tired of that. I finally want to do something for myself. But by doing that will it hurt me in the end? I dont know..
Tell me about i. I'm the same way, I like to make everyone happy. But sometimes I guess there comes a time where you take care of yourself first. If you like 'Pooh' then pursue him. It seems like you changed your feelings for him dramatically, could the reason why you like him all the sudden is because he visited you?
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I really dont know why my feelings for him changed. I mean I really never liked the guy, but then slowly he started to grow on me. Its not just only because he came to visit me after my accident. But because ever since then his attitude towards me has changed. He's been treating me diffrent. And i guess i just began to fall for him. But i dont know the exact reason why :(
I understand that you liek that guy, but what kind of friend would you be if you went after a guy that your friend has feelings for. Do you really think some guy is worth screwing up a friendship? then go ahead loose a friend. "Chicks before dicks" i believe in that. Trust me guys come and go but true friends stay forever. And put yourself in your friends shoe, how would you feel if she went out with your ex-bf? i know i wouldnt be happy. Plus do you really wanna screw up your friendship fpr a guy that might no even like u? think about it
I get what your saying. I am always the type of person who doesnt do things because it would make others unhappy. But the thing is that pooh was never lauras boyfriend. he was just her crush, and he never returned her feelings. now i know thats not an excuse to make a move on the guy but for once in my life i want to do something for me, not for anyone else. But probably in the end I will end up doing whats best for everyone else, and be unhappy by myself. Thanks for the comment.
i get that your friend nevr went out with him but it will still hurt her It will look like yu dont hae respect for her. But dowhatever you think is rght! i cant tell you wha to do.