I get up this morning and after finding out that my boyfriends internet is working again, I decide to just get online instead of sit around for a while. So I get online, and see the most outrageous story on comcast. Tag has been banned in some Massachusetts schools.
What. On. Earth.
I click on the headline, and read the article. The first paragraph: "ATTLEBORO, Mass. - Tag, you're out! Officials at an elementary school south of Boston have banned kids from playing tag, touch football and any other unsupervised chase game during recess for fear they'll get hurt and hold the school liable." <!--break-->
Your kidding right? What are we coming to? Kids cannot do anything, AT ALL anymore. With all of these crazy parents trying to be 'politically correct' instead of doing what is right and natural, this country is going to quickly become a robot with no good to come from it. We are already claiming almost every kid has ADD or ADHD. And if you are older than the little kids you are bi-polar and suffer from depression. Talk about excuses. For one-I do not believe ADD and ADHD exist. They are made up as excuses so that the parents are not held liable for what their child is doing in school, and that way the school can blame it on something. Back to the playground issue.
Let's take everything away from kids that we can! Swings are dangerous! You could jump off and skin your knee! We can't have wooden castles because you could trip and skin your knee! Oh and tire swings? No way! You might get sick! Monkey bars? Your hands can slip, gotta take those away too. Oh and you can forget about any sport. Heck, why don't we just rule our gym class altogether?
I mean come on. This is so pathetic, outrageous, messed up and just plain dumb.
"Recess is "a time when accidents can happen," said Willett Elementary School Principal Gaylene Heppe, who approved the ban."
WELL NO DUH. If the kids are not allowed to have accidents, how will they ever learn? If your kid never gets hurt they are going to grow up weak and feeble.
Kids have to fall down, kids have to have accidents, it is the only way to teach them how to live. "Learn from your mistakes." While getting hurt is not a mistake-it is an accident, and can be fit just as easily into that saying.
I guess this is what comes of hippies for parents. Kids that are diagnosed with non-existent "diseases," kids that can't even play tag. Tag is a harmless game, as is everything else you play at recess, why take it away? We complain because kids are to fat, but then take away one of the most energy-required games on the playground.
Sad.
The article can be found here: http://www.comcast.net/news/strange/index.jsp?cat=STRANGE&fn=/2006/10/18/501446.html&cvqh=itn_schooltag
However, I am not entirely sure if everyone can read it, you may have to be a comcast member to be able to read it.



You are right there is no such thing as ADD and ADHD. All it is is the child acts out to get attention. And your also right it is the parents fault. If they do not pay enough attention to their children they will do whatever they can to get your attention.
And banning tag. That is just retarded. What else are kids going to do to relieve some energy and get unbound from class. It is compromising their ability to interact with other kids. Kids are going to grow up being weak and feable and lacking the ability to interact with other people whether it be in the work, home, or everyday living settings.
They definately do act out to pay attention--and it all starts inthe home.
This is the stupidest thing I've heard of. I think you're right, pretty much everythig kids do during recess can easily be considered dangerous. This is absolutley unreasonable.
Another Willett parent, Celeste D'Elia, said her son feels safer because of the rule. "I've witnessed enough near collisions," she said. How many injuries have you heard of due to tag? This woman is being ridiculous.
I do, however, believe that ADD and bipolar disorder are diseases, but are over-diagnosed.
And just so you know, I am not a comcast member and I had no problem reading the article.
That quote from the one mother at the end was like..your kidding right? She said that HER son said he feels safer, yet the quote is of HER claiming to see "near collisions" where does that say her son said anything?
I do believe bipolar is real-but majorly over-diagnosed like you said.
And i'm glad you could read it, I wasn't sure if everyone would be able to or not :D
I agree with Deana Walker about ADD and bipolar, and the fact that they are over-diagnosed. Not to mention, drugs is not the answer to them. I've know people that have been on medication their whole lives because they were diagnosed with ADD or ADHD and it's ridiculous. It messes them up even more usually. By the definition that they are using for this, every single person has ADD to an extent, but you have to live your life and take responsibility. I know a 21 year old who was diagnosed with ADD as a kid and has received disability for it. How ridiculous is that! He is still receiving disability, doesn't work, doesn't do anything but get high and get drunk all day. My sister-in-law is a 15-year-old who has been on medication for ADD since she was little, but she can sit and play games for hours. You cannot say that she can't pay attention to one thing for long periods of time. She does not have ADD!
The thing about banning tag is absolutely ludicrous. No wonder kids are acting out in class if they are not even allowed to play at recess. I guess we can just expect more kids to get diagnosed and get placed on medicine. The next generation growing up is going to be quite scary. They'll almost all have grown up taken psychiatric medicine.
The banning tag must come from the arise of increased lawsuits in American, another horrible problem in our society. People trying to take all the money they can without having to work for it. Things are getting way out of hand.
The money seems to be all of it...I say shame on the people that even THINK about trying to get money for petty issues like that.
The money seems to be all of it...I say shame on the people that even THINK about trying to get money for petty issues like that.
I do think there are sincere disorders of ADD/ADHD. HOWEVER I must clarify that our society is full of weak willed parents who are 1) afraid of their own children and 2) have their hands tied by agencies like CPS and DSS and would simply prefer to medicate over educate. Lord help you if you are a dicsiplinary parent. No dinner for misbehavior can lead to charges of neglect. Heaven forbid you spank a child. Especially in public. The boys in blue will be waiting at the car for you. (AND NO, I'm not talking about abuse here... there's a difference. No kid ever died from a swat on the rump or missing a meal. How many times did we skip them as kids so we could PLAY longer? But send a kid to bed without dinner?? Well, I digress...)Children can't possibly learn proper social behavior in an environment of rampant permissiveness, and wussed out parents. It's become far too EASY and far too CONVENIENT to medicate our children rather than deal with them and take responsibility for their proper upbringing. The problem is not medication and disorder. The problem is poor to non-existent parenting where we allow strangers and the gov't to raise or kids. Welcome to the machine...
All these poor kids are being put on constant medications, with no true definition of A) why they are on them and B)what the drugs are doing.
We are killing ourselves..well-the kids rather-by putting them on all these medications, then taking away their simple play time fun. By the time these kids are in the 30's or 40's they will be entirely dependent on false drugs. It is so sad.
All these poor kids are being put on constant medications, with no true definition of A) why they are on them and B)what the drugs are doing.
We are killing ourselves..well-the kids rather-by putting them on all these medications, then taking away their simple play time fun. By the time these kids are in the 30's or 40's they will be entirely dependent on false drugs. It is so sad.
I'm not that great with words, but you have hit the nail on the head tlisley. I do think there are severe problems out there, but parenting is essential in all of this. My husband and I tried to take priveleges away from his sister when she acted up around us, and she rarely does that anymore. But her mother refuses to do anything to punish her and uses ADD as an excuse as to her acting that way. She still needs punished though or she's going to end up like the 21-year-old who still lives with his dad and drinks alcohol and smokes cigarettes and pot all day long. They might have problems, but the parents need to step in there and make them grow. For the severe cases though, which do exist, they probably do need medication. But medication is used way too often in kids being kids.
I believe the parents are the biggest problem.
We are in a time where parents throw their kids into [dangerous] day cares, put them on a bunch of medication, then run off to work or play for hours on end before returning to pick up their kids, give them more medicine, sit them in front of a tv and go to bed.
Parents are getting more and more irresponsible (sp) everyday. I see it in my older sister constantly-she does NOT know what responsibility is and most definately should NOT have a kid, yet she does anyway. People are having kids younger and younger-and they aren't ready for it.
Re: banning tag - AMEN. Que ridiculo.
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let's ban wrestling, football, basketball, soccer, four square, hide and seek and any other contact sport while we're at it because someone might get hurt.
Why don't we just take out gym class and recess entirely? lol
The Schools are way to paranoid. When, and I challenge anyone to prove me wrong, have you EVER heard about someone sueing a public school because their kid got a bruise or bump or scrape, or even minor cuts from playing a game at recess? I mean, when I was in highschool i was constantly getting injuries from playing sports i was FORCED to play and I never even thought about suing the school or anyone else becase it's not like any one was purposely trying to attack me or put me in danger. The fact of the matter is, sometimes we just don't see the ball coming and get a good smack out of it. I've jammed my fingers, gotten bruises, cuts, etc. just from playing sports at P.E. Accidents happen. And kids are more proned to accidents, that's just a fact. But that's also why there are campus nurses and why they force parents to fill out forms with important information incase their kid ever needed medical attention. But I've never seen a kid with a major injury from playing recess games. Recess games are generally more safe than the organized ones because they're friendly noncompetitive games and usually there's more than one adult out there watching them. People need to just stop being paranoid because kids need to go out and play to be healthy. Also, they need to be not so clean all the time so that they can be exposed to certain germs that help strengthen their immune system. You can't control everything, and by banning playground games like that you might be doing more damage in the long run because a lot of schools don't have too much funding to buy too many games and if kids cant just go run and push each other a little they might end up just sitting and vegetating on a bench. Gah, sometimes by trying to be "safe" they're are just being selfish, inconsiderate, and totally totally backwards.
I agree!! It's just a way of life. Hell, our parents are alive, their parents in some cases are alive and they did nothing but play all day during the summers, because they didn't sit around at computers and such and they all came through it. It's not like you heard of any nation wide mass recess accidents.
You know what the problem is?
Our parents-or well-the ones a little younger than mine-are just hippies. Mine grew up in the hippy age--but were never hippies.
DEFINATELY true!
I have NEVER heard a story of anyone sueing a school because of something --(extremely minor)--that happened on recess.
And the kids do need to stop being so clean! ahh..it drives me insane to see all of that..poor kids.
getting hurt is not a mistake...it is an accident. have you heard of the term "hey y'all watch this", getting hurt is learning from our mistakes. it's the fun way. but banning tag it does sound totally stupid but you have to look at it from the schools point. though i don't agree with the schools, tag is fun. i stil play tag with my young neices and nephews. but the schools are trying to protect themselves not "really" the children. there are way to many people these days that are sue happy and will sue you for just about anything. There was a elem. school in Mississippi about 4 years ago, at recess the kids were playing tag. a boy was it and chasing everybody around. a girl that he wasn't even chaseing but was running had fell and broke two fingers. broke two fingers, not even on the hand she wrote with... but anyway. her parents sued the school. for endangering their child. these people sued and won 1.5 million dollars. for two freaking broken fingers. it is not really the schools haveing to or some wanting to have to do things like this. it's all the parents... "i don't want my baby getting hurt". shit like them get hurt to a point. it makes them strong.
Wow. I hadn't heard that story.
That is still pathetic..and the courts should have overruled it-telling the parents to grow up and shut up.
This country/world is headed in the wroonnnngggg direction.