so a major thing that is going on around not only in my school but is also in my home is: PROM. im personally excited for the whole event. i cant wait but some of my best friends wont be going with me.
some people dont seem to understand that i know how it feels to be at a dance without a date. they assume just because i have a boyfriend that i dont know how it is to go to a dance with out a boyfriend. the thing is i do know how it is and i still cant seem to understand why it is girls have such a problem going to prom, or any school dance for that matter, with out a date.
i know that even if i didnt have a boyfriend i would be going to prom to have an awesome time. i think thats because i see prom as a last chance to go have a kick a$$ time before you graduate. apparently though, not all girls see it that way. i think that alot of them see it as a time for them to feel all sad and emo just because they dont have a date. come on girls! wake up, you dont need a man to make you feel happy. i know that is kinda sounds hypocritical because i have a boyfriend and i am very happy. but in having a boyfriend, i have learned that i dont need him in my life to be happy.
there was a time where we broke up for a little while, and i realised that yea it hurt because we werent together but ya know what? life goes on. it sounds a little cold hearted but its true. when i see girls that arnt going to go to prom just because they dont have a date, i see that as the men holding down the women in this world yet again. women dont let them hold you down! you dont need a guy to have a good time. as long as your friends are there youll have an awesome time!!
I don't get why girls feel like they need to have a boyfriend orelse life cannot go on. And they even feel the need to dictate their lives by their boyfriends. I dont get it. My prom was friday night and i had a date; i went with a friend but only because he broke up with his girlfriend a couple weeks ago. I was going to go alone with my friends. The only thing that would be awkward without a date would be the first date. But after that i danced with my friends most of the night. I do see where having some sort of date/guy friend in necessary when going to a club because i was alone with friends in the beginning, meaning they were all couples and some random guy came up and started dancing with me and it was like way too much.
i never went ot my prom. was not worth the money
Let's say, all your friends have dates and they want to be alone with them. Youre going to be the only one, up there by yourself dancing alone. I know I would feel sad for that boy/girl because they eventually start to look stupid. Not to offend anybody. But you're by yourself, alone. I would of asked myself why they couldn't get a date or stayed home.
i'm sure there would be plenty of guys without dates to chill with. if you pay to have fun, have fun, no matter what little things come your way.
i most likely will go cuz i will be forced to ask a chick by my friends cuz thats what most the sports, good looking guys do in my school but im not too excited about all the money involved
JZ
i feel that you can't truly be happy in a relationship until you're happy outside of one. yeah, its nice to have a man to reaffirm that you're beautiful and someone worth something, but if you can't see that for yourself, nothing else will really reassure you. i'm going to prom stag, i'm going to dance with all the guys, and i'm going to feel sorry for the girls who end up with crappy dates just because they didn't want to be alone.