* my first post didn't upload everything *
Many guys out there are just plain lost when it comes to making women feel beautiful (inside and out), captivating, and down right desirable. Throughout my college years, I have come to realize that women are all the same .. and yet .. they're all different. Do you remember when you were younger .. and how you acted? Boys would wrestle with each other, go camping in the backyard, and go on wild adventures .. while girls would dress up, have tea parties, and try to get the attention from her father any way possible. As the children grow older .. the story slightly changes. As these boys go away to college .. they find themselves lost in a tumultuous sea of young, drop-dead gorgeous women .. and constantly striking out .. time and time again. Women, on the other hand .. are trying to captivate the hearts of these young men, and fail .. because .. quite frankly .. guys don't know what they're doing!!! Guys have no idea how to talk to a woman much less how to love and cherish a woman. So as I begin my thought .. I just want to say that in no way am I an expert in the ways of women .. I've just learned through experience.
Step One-Be Patient
Ok guys .. listen up! Girls are not the ticking time bombs you think they are .. they will be there for awhile. So .. let's say that you see a girl on campus .. and you would like to talk to her .. but you don't want to sound stupid .. and you certainly don't want to sound like a dick. So what's a man got to do?? Ok fellas, think about how you are going to: introduce yourself(opening statement), approach her with confidence(standing tall with smile), and what you may want to talk about(classes, goals, common interests).
more to come .. when I have the time ..
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Women are not that different from men in that we want to be listened to. Everyone wants to be heard, acknowledged. Giving someone positive attention is important but you can't overdo it. Helpful hint here: girls (like guys) don't like it when you come on too strong..so play it cool.
If you want a girl to like you, don't show off--that just reenforces the idea that all unmarried unattached men are idiots and we (sinlge women) will never find a good one. Be who you are--not who you think she wants to see.
~CallieV