Whose quote is this?

The following quote is from a well known woman. Do you know who that woman is?  Tell me. I know.
                                    
REALIZE
         
               " If you want to be respected for your actions, then your behavior must be above reproach. I learned from my grandmother and mother that one should always respect oneself and live right. This is how you gain the respect of others. If our lives demonstrate that we are peaceful, humble and trusted, this is recognized by others. If our lives demonstrate something else, that will be noticed too."

When this contest is near the end I will give the answer to who I am quoting