Okay Well my mom is sick and she just pretends like shes not because she doesn't want to go to the hospital but come on she has 5 kids and 5 grand-children and her husband(my dad) and all her 7 brothers and sisters and her parents that love her alot and we don't want to end up losin our mom because of something stupid she always feels sick she knows she needs a blood transfusion at least (because she doesn't want to do the surgery she needs) to feel a little better and keep from getting all dizzy come on the lady's already fainted in the bath tube and shes already got a transfusion before and felt better and she drove her self to the hospital all dizzy and practiccally unconcious but no shes being ignorant and just takes iron pills every once in a while . And the other thing is the other day she turned to me while driving and said "Brittany, if you knew how sick I feel you would rush me to the hospital asap" and I looked at her and told her I want to and I've tried you don't let us and I said want me to take you right now lets go mom and she just said "No, I don't want to be stuck there for 3 days I don't want to" gosh who understands that lady but really for someone to tell you straight up something like that it must be mad and right now i'm so worried because shes in chicago for a week and I miss her and I'm just scared something might happen to her and what can I do bout it I'm all the way in Houston,TX I'd have to either fly myself down there so quick or speed over there I havent even been able to sleep just thinkin bout her but what can I do she don't want to cooperate with us trying to keep her healthy. Really I love my mom to death and I would go crazy if she died or got even sicker shes like one of my best friends that I tell everything and can joke around with. But How can I get her to the hospital? (Thats the tricky part)
My mom's sick
By brith812 - Posted on July 8th, 2008
Have you considered staging a sort of intervention and getting all of the kids and such together to tell her how important it is to all of you that she go? Also, prying to find out why she doesn't want to go might help her talk it out. Is there something in specific that's making her risk her health just to avoid a stay in the hospital? She may not want to tell you her reasons, but I'd personally keep after her and plague her until she fesses up with a reason or gets tired of hearing it and decides to go. It's probably not the most PC of tactics.. but I've never been particularly PC either :)
Good luck dear!
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We've already tried that bringing everyone together and talking to her and she just don't want to go she just doesn't like hospitals or anything she never has she said she'll get better on her own and no there is no major risk at all of doing the surgery well shes heard people that said they liked it and hated it so shes confused its that surgery where they take out your reproductive organs or what ever i forgot what its called so ya i don't know what her problem is but around everyone she says shes fine and okay but sometimes with just me she tells me how she really feels but she doesn't want to do anything bout it which is sad.
Maybe there's a health professional you can talk too. Maybe a hotline or something that you can call for advice. You shouldn't have to be worrying over your mother all the time, and she shouldn't be going through whatever pain she's going through.
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OKaY well Thanks For your advice I'll try To Make Her understand or at least seek the help I need to get her to go.