ok so i know this may be a touchy subject with some people but im writing about becasue i think a lot of people will read about it . being a person that has had premarital sex i want to understand why people think its so wrong. from a religious stand point i can understand but what is the difference if you have sex before or after your married. many people say that the reson you should wait till marriage is becasue you know your in a committed relationship. well guess what people the rate af divorce has skyrocketed over the past ten years and its not showing igns of stopping anytime soon. Some people say well if your married then you know your partner loves you. well guess what your being in love is the reason your getting married its not like as soon as you get that ring you have an epiphany and your lie oh i think i really love this person now. me and my bpyfriend waited 11 months before having sex and by that time we were in love. we talked about it for a long time and decied we want to experience our first time together, i dont see anything wrong with that but a lot of parents do. and i can understand that it may be hard for parents to except but it doesnt make it wrong. as long as your in love with someone thats all that should matter right ?? what do you think, is premarital sex exceptible to you... and why . as always thanks for reading
K
premarital sex
By lillewisk9590 - Posted on March 8th, 2008
Tagged: sexual desires
nothing is wrong with it at all. i personally want to wait till i am married because i would rather wait till i am with the person i am going to be with for the rest of my life. i kno divorce rate is going up but i was raised by two parents who are still married and very much in love so i kno it is possible. plus it isnt that hard to stay married i think its a little dumb that so many ppl are getting a divorce. honestly tho nothing is wrong with having sex before marriage most ppl do it.
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I think it is acceptable and unacceptable. If you are in a relationship such as yours or the one I am in now it is acceptable. I know that he is truthful to me and I know that he is committed. Wheras if you were running around the streets having sex with every living male that would be unacceptable. Sometimes people want to give something to their spouse other than their heart and they want to show them that waited for them and they are special. It's the individuals choice but they shouldn't be judged on their decision.
It's perfectly acceptable to me, but I'm a supporter of casual sex as long as it doesn't decieve anyone and is practiced safely.
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