how can you pick apart good men from bad men when it comes to relationships?
My sister is now living with us once again. And why? because she couldnt tell the difference between a good guy and a bad guy and got her heart broken. He had broken her heart once; he proposed to her and then broke up with her. She took him back and they got engaged again. Like clock work, they broke up again, and this time for good. A month after the breakup he's already engaged to another girl who works for the same company as my sister. They all work for the same company.
Is there a guideline you have to follow or symptoms to look for to tell these things? Are there even any good guys left?
I don't like to bring up the past, but my sister's last boyfriend (before this dirtbag) was a good guy, or at least seemed like it to my family and i. They went out for 2 years and gave her everything she wanted and she left him for the dirtbag, which just reminds me of one saying; "never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like could leave you for the one they love"
never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like could leave you for the one they love"
Good one. It always seems that people want a good person, but when they get that good person, they dog them out. When they get the bad person , they brake thier neck for them. Sad just sad.
I have never left someone I loved for someone I liked, but I know what you mean. My ex seemed like the best guy ever, but well, let's just say he turned out to be somewhat psychotic. Good guys are really hard to find, and when you find one, they are most likely with a skank. Excuse the language if anyone feels offended by it, but you know, you find that even if you don't get to be with that good guy, you are glad to be his friend. Speaking from experience in that aspect.
Sorry to hear that happened to your sister, I can't imagine that happening. I don't normally give guys a second chance. If they do something so bad I leave them for it, I will only give the another chance if they really seem to want to change, or have taken steps to change before talking to me again. Otherwise, I forget about them, or at least try to. Love hurts, but with each blunder, you grow stronger.
I am who I am and who I am is someone unique.
In public schools you get more of a diversity in personality. Private schools, far as I know, you get the stuck up overachievers. I'm all for overachieving, but being stuck up is not cool. Plus, it's true, you get the whole sex, drugs, violence thing wherever you go. Not just in public or private schools, but also in work places, home, the streets, everywhere. Really, the only difference is that private schools have the reputation for being expensive, for the rich, and for the people who think they are better than everyone else.
I mean, take a look at me, I'm eighteen, just graduated from High school, I have a job, pay my own fees and what not, and I'm going to an awesome college in October. If public schools are for underachievers then I love being one. I am who I am and who I am is someone unique.
I like that saying. :) sometimes it is hard to tell to be honest. This one lady was married to a man for 15 years and he tried to kill her. It is very hard to tell, one thing I know is there are warning signs we just choose to ignore them or they don't seem too bad. Sometimes woman don't think. It is also very hard to tell when your blinded by love.
http://www.progressiveu.org/032913-lupus-uncureable-wait-what
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