Hi my name is melanie and i'm a high school senior. As most seniors, we have personal issues in llife that we come across everyday. Miness s more like problems filled every week or so, so i have a question and you'll already guess its about me. But Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and some months now, and the "promise" we made to each other was we'd never lie to each other. Of course people lie all the time but i wanted this relationship to be different. My ex plays a major role in this picure because he's who i've been lying to my boyfriend about. My ex calls me and i talk to him on the phone on occasions. But the truth is sometimes i feel like i miss him or feel like when i broke up with him and began dating someone else it was a mistake. Also when i boyfriend asked me if i still had feelings for him i lie and tell him no, but honestly i don't kow. It plays a major role in my relationship as to seeing him around and him talking to me. I feel like i just keep hiding stuff from my boyfriend and it feels like i'm lying by keeping things to my self, and i feel bad lying to him. I want to kno has anybody been in a situation like this? If so would it be better if i just sat him down and told him the entire story, tell him how i feel? Can somebody give me some insight on it? One friend says i should leave it alone, while the other says it would be best if i said something.... but its just confusing
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OMG i had a very similar situation. I wasnt looking for a new boyfriend but one came along after the breakup and took my mind off things but the ex was still calling and trying to come around. I continued with the new relationship since it was a pleasing change and a total different person. I liked this guy and didnt want to pass on a good thing especially when the old is now in the past I continued to talk t the ex for a while in the begining months of the new relationship. I have not told him this. I even missed my ex, which is normal no matter how the relationship went. Im studying to be a psychologist in college at the moment and i think you should keep it to yourself and try to get rid of those feelings for your ex. Go with what makes you happy in the present. :-) Good luck!
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