Do guys really like girls super skinny with no shape just flat font and back Or do they like some curves that coke bottle shape?

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Do guys really like girls that are super skinny with no shape or just flat font and back Or do they like some curves that coke bottle shape??
Well I have that coke bottle shape and guys have complimented me and a few girls have to sayin they wish they did have a body like mine.. But I hate it alot and my friends are like literally ShapeLess and so when I hang out with them I just feel weird wishin I was skinny like them even though I do know that they have no a$$ or hips or really and kind of curves or whatever else that don't really have and I still think damn only if I looked like that.. Because I hate my big thighs my butt and hips i'm not fat though I got a pretty flat belly but still Its like I don't know whats better. Some people say that I should be glad that I have a Shape but then some don't realize how hard it is.. Have You tried fitting in jeans its so hard to find a good pair of jeans its like that song "Damn girl how'd you fit in them jeans" LOL but seriously I have to get like 2 sizes bigger to fit over my thighs and hips and butt the thing is then I have to wear a belt or be picking them up every few minutes because they are to lose at the top and fall from my waist so its very annoying and I just dread going shopping for pants its torture and guys love it though but WHY ?? Well i admit guys have different prefrences skinny, BiGG, or just curvey but still I wonder whats better I got the curves and i'm not fat but i wish i was skinny like a pole sometimes like my friends. So that when we go out there wont be guys yelling " Hey wuz up girl in the middle" then i look both ways to realize i'm the girl in the middle it just pisses me off sometimes and its not like i dont' love the attention but sometimes its to to much...

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I am a curvy girl. I agree that jean shopping is difficult.

On Jean shopping:

I know Lane Bryant carries a "right fit" brand of Jeans. They're $40 and come in different styles for different shapes. But Lane Bryant is also for women that are at, I think, size 16 or bigger. So, I don't know if it would work for you. But I take my mom there whenever she needs new clothes.

JCPenny's sells some jeans I like for about $30-35 a pair. Levi's Slimming Jeans with tummy panel ($35) and Levi's Curvy Jeans ($35) might work for you. Lee No Gap Double Pocket Jeans are $30.

And Victoria's Secret Easy Jeans are good too. They also happen to be on sale right now for $29.50 if you go to their website.

You can also go to zafu.com. Answer some questions, and they'll give you a list of brands of jeans to try out that fit your waist, make your thighs look slimmer, etc.



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Thanks oh but ya i don't think lane and bryant will work for me because i wear size 9-11 but thats for letting me know bout the other places i'll surely look into it.

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Thanks oh but ya i don't think lane and bryant will work for me because i wear size 9-11 but thats for letting me know bout the other places i'll surely look into it.

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Ya your right what alot of the guys think don't really matter because for every one that dont like one thing there's probally 2 or more guys that do.

i think it's better to have curves. even though it's a pain for us and we hate it, guys love boobs and butts. i have a lot of skinny friends who have no shape. they have either 1. the shape of a guy (straight down) or 2. the body of a 12 year old. yeah, we might be jealous cause we're not "skinny" but we look good because we look like women.

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I know your right i've told so many people that I wish I had a body like my shapless friends and they think i'm stupid especially the guys that like it. (But you know how it is to be a girl we are always critizing ourselves.)

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I know exactly what you mean about the gap in the back! I have the same problem! I have to wear a belt all the time to cinch the gap in. The only jeans I've found that work are at The Buckle. It's their Buckle brand, and the styles that work are called the Wendy and the Liberty (I think...I haven't bought jeans in a while, so they may have changed the styles by now). They're made for round booties. And they're cute. They are about $60, but they fit and they come in long(and short, for those who need that) lengths, so i think they are worth it!

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okay wow thanks i'll definetly look into that because that does get on my nerves and then when I forget to wear a belt i'm there pickin my pants up every few seconds because I'm worried I might show some crack and i'm not a plummer so i don't want to do that LOL!!! but Ya $60 dollars are so worth some nice fitting pants.

It depends on the guy, although id say most guys like curves. Also y do u care? Whats this got to do with love or relationships or anything that matters in life?

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