recently ive realized that after a while people you used to be good friends with..
eventually fade away rather they were meant to or not.
and at first i thought maybe it had something to do with me then i realized that i was not the problem
they were completly.
most the time friends call you and ask you to hang out
the people i used to be friends with did that
UNTIL they got a boyfriend or girlfriend
now these certain friends dont call or text me to hang out
they only call or text me when they have a problem
well i can not longer be there for them
i mean i was for a good while but then i started to think that maybe there are just using me ONLY when they need someone
they dont really care if im their friend or not and im starting to not care at all
recently my friend hasnt talked to me in a long time and she hasnt text me either
THEN last night she text me saying "luke doesnt love me and i am sad"
like that is ALL she said and i didnt answer
yesterday i had surgery and she didnt even ask me how it went or how i was feeling
so we too worried about her own feeling with her boyfriend who way too old for her anyways
mainly what im trying to say is, eventually youll find out who your true friends are and who only needed you while no one else was around. then thats the time where you should just let them go if they are like that to you. everyone deserves friends who will be there for them NO MATTER WHAT...NOT only when theyre having problems or you are.
after high school i bet none of these people will bother with me, as theyre starting to do already
and honestly what youre friends start doing this you begin to realize that you are way better off without them
im doing a lot better now that my life is drama free..well from them and that i only have my problems to worry about
i would always hate having to feel sorry for them and to have their problems effect me
well im done with that it feel so good
if these certain people wouldnt be this way to me then i wouldnt have stopped caring
this happens with a lot of people as time goes by
you realize who you real friends are and who were faking it the whole time
thats the point where you move on with your life and start living how you always wanted to
sometimes youre just better off without certain people
I wonder why friends always blow you off when they get a boyfriend or girlfriend. They did the same with me or either brought their boyfriend with them when we had plans. I totally agree with you but the problem with me is when everyone you try to be friends with does this to you it gets irritating. I just stopped trying so my problem was fixed. I would rather not have friends I guess than bother going through false hope of building a friendship.