Ever heard the cheater cocks blow their horn when they get caught. Most of them plead and cry for forgiveness, the very few brainy foxes shoot mind boggling questions that really make us rethink beliefs that we grew up with, which obviously we otherwise don bother contemplating about. (And here i use the cock and fox as a general term for both the sexes ) Well I stepped out of the society into my space, no not the virtual social self marketing website, but the one inside me. Being a cunning cheater or a paragon 'cheated' lover, some common questions arise...
Cheating partners are the biggest turn-off. Why does the need for cheating arise anyways? Why should it be a problem if the partner is doing something which makes him or her happy? People lie out of fear of unacceptability, why can't one accept that he or she cannot fulfill all the needs? Why should one compromise? Why can't we not be jealous of sharing our partner? They are separate individuals after all and have full right to be with someone else when they don mind it themselves. Why should we submit to society or religion when ones life is ones own to do whatever they want to with it?
Bringing in the twist...
The why-why list can go on and on. All these question raise because we think it is jealousy, ego, selfish love and all the negative emotions that make us hate polygamy or poly-gf(don kno if they hav a term for that...)
Simply put, things mess up when one is impatient (if not desperate) to get into a relationship. A lot of things are overlooked due to this, we just see the flowery goodness in others and the relationship at hand. Then ultimately the spark dies down and we see all the highlighted missing elements. At that point it depends from person to person what decision they take. Whether they compromise, move on, cheat, call off, convince the other or whatever they do...
I say patience is the key. And this thing "one person cannot satisfy every need", I'll ask that aloud when I get too lazy to work towards applying my brains or body towards finding alternatives for the partners need.
All along i did not think of those who just aim at scoring chicks or chickas because they firmly believe " life is a game", "Live for the moment", "Only birth and death matter, rest in between is forgotten", et al
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I read recently read a nice article by ediblewoman
http://www.progressiveu.org/222442-trip-down-slutville-girl-power-genera...
I really hate it when the female power is redefined as f*** power by the very own divine sex. Relating it to the parent post, girls do tend to keep men on lease. And when such 'babes' lure their lust lasso around men, even the faithful tend to loosen their belt along with their brains. And then they think of all the ambiguous "why can't...., why should..., why not....", possible clauses for defending their feelings.
But since diamond cuts diamond, i find it silly to say men should restrain their desires to fend off such feminist attacks (no offence to ladies... i'm a feminist too).
Why thank you. And thanks for posting the link.
http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/ediblewoman
I just spent the last hour on the phone with someone I love very much whose wife just cheated on him (in their house, no less) and left him (last night) for the guy, who is married with two children. I have to say that I don't care what her justifications are; she made a stupid decision and he has every right to feel angry, hurt, and jealous. If somebody wants their freedom, they should not get married. They should have an open relationship with someone who agrees with their philosophy. Forsaking all others is part of the vow. If you can't do it, don't vow it.
http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/ediblewoman
Marriage is the biggest nonsense around, it’s a contract which creates enormous quantities of misfortunes and social problems. It is a retarded concept which is tearing humankind apart.
http://www.progressiveu.org/151225-polygamy-is-it-right-or-wrong
Reading your other posts in
http://www.progressiveu.org/151225-polygamy-is-it-right-or-wrong#comment...
Its seems you have some how formed a general opinion about marriage. I think it is just a legal formality that is done after two are commited to each other, after all we need some thing for paper work like insurance and details... to ban marriage for the prejudice hate maybe due to some personal reasons or whatever will be chaotic for the system... Don't you agree ?
Although I fully understand your argument and I support your view upon this matter, you are right saying it would bring chaos. To ban marriage in a situation wherein it is in fact nothing more than a tool to enslave us, is indeed not the best path to follow.
People are not that strong or willing anymore to handle and deal with everything (so called morals) which passes by in their lives.
Our societies have become horny for freedom, same goes with sex, all seem to want more and more, this is way funny, I love it!
I always like to hear people say, I would never do this or that, what a joke, lol
Once humankind passes this critical stage of ignorance, things will be much more fun to experience.
Paperwork and insurance are part of that same structure put in place which is failing, so, it will evolve all together with the rest, chaos around this issue is already manifesting itself, take a look at all those kids out there, they hardly can wait to get sexually active.
Marriage will soon be something, forgotten, because it sucks BIG TIME
Divorce is the new standard for the coming years, after that, people will finally start to mingle!
That’s the only thing we like to do!
But first there is a need to break down imposed morals about sex, youngsters are doing a fine job, bit disturbing for some, but this is the way evolution is at its best.
Disturbing!
Whatevers next will be chaotic for the system...
http://www.progressiveu.org/231800-to-cheaters-everywhere
I love this answer of Tuffgong, check it out,,,,, Bulls eye…lol
I like the thing bout evolution of the society and imposed morals that you wrote, i can see where you are coming from. Still, being the non earning person and kept away from family responsibilities, am actually not in a position to comment on some of the things that you said. And this goes for all those who are still students, who depend on their parents and hence have to follow their morals and values out of love and respect, if not due to compulsion.
You write well, I saw you are new around, welcome, hope you will enjoy this platform the way (we) I do, it’s a great place.
An important problem societies are facing now, is the lack of respect (many) parents have in regard to their children, many might claim this is not true, but then again they can always come and have a chat with me….lol.
Those imposed morals (marriage) are few of the bad taste presents of religion, being the key factor, element and tool of enslavement, put in place in order to control our mind, money and birth rate.