So I am seeing this guy that is very sweet and caring about all the things in my life, even my son. That is a concidence and everything that they both have the same first name. We have known each other bout two-three years and we jus haven't been as close as we are. I love being with him and everything because he makes me smile when I'm sad, and holds me all the time, he is jus always there. But the only problem is that the guy friend that I had goin to the Army is not goin anymore. We broke up though we are still friends. So the question is who should I talk to? I don't know what to do...My guy friend and myself have a longer kind of relationship that is different my Sweet friend. So this week I have spent time with my Sweet friend and i have realized that something is missin between the two of us. We have good face to face conversation but still something is really missin. And then when my Army friend and myself talk then its' like old times, but more confusin cause I feel as though we can't go back to what we use to have. So help me please......
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You have to do what is best for yourself and well, i dont know
Well first of all, this really is not the place to ask this sort of a question. This site is meant to be progressive and academic in nature- but to answer your question before you break up with your current boyfriend you should make sure that your old boyfriend still has feelings for you.
Francesca Chambers
If you are that confused, then you should not be in a relationship with neither of them at the time. And stop calling them (friend), it sounds like you're just trying to cover up the part, that you're actually using the both of them, just to fit your need. What's going to end up happening, is that you are going to end up getting more closer to one of them, and the other might not understand, and end up hurting you in some way. You don't want that. Right?
So maybe you should just, give yourself some time alone, to really put your options out on the table, so that you can decide on your own. And then, to never ask other people what you should do in your own relationship. That's what little girls with too many mouthy friends do, who can't think of it themselves, of what they really want.
And for all you know, you may not want either one of em.