Due to the fact that my uncle is mad that his name was taken off the bank account, he feels the need to harass my grandmother. The lady just lost her husband of 60 years and now he is going to torment her. He thinks what she is doing it wrong but my mom and uncle up here did what my grandfather wished. For the past year he’s been bothering my grandmother but since my grandfather passed away he’s been calling her telling her all kinds of things. My grandmother did nothing wrong yet he feels the necessity to drive her crazy. While she says it doesn’t bother her I know it does just by the way she talks about it. One he called her up and told her that he was the bastard of the family. How do you tell your mother something like that, the woman who carried you for nine months? Then when I was there he told her that she’s going to suffer in hell. He doesn’t have the balls to say it in front of anyone. He just gets her alone and tells her this. And then he tries to act nice and tell my younger brother how he has nothing against us and that he loves us, yet he goes telling his mother stuff like that and has something against my mom. I’m sorry, if you have something against one of us, you have something against us all. I’m sorry I was nice to him when he came over because he didn’t deserve. I’m sorry I couldn’t have said all this to him in person and I wish I had known he said when he was there, but my grandmother doesn’t like to repeat it or anything.
I don’t know if I’m backwards or something but I don’t see how someone can do such a thing to a mother in such a situation.
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you're not backwards...your uncle should be more respective of his mother..after all, like you said, she did carry him for nine months and cares for him very much if she doesnt like to make him look bad in front of the rest of your family...
If only he would see it that way.
If only he would see it that way.
The respect of parents isn't a backwards thought. Everyone should respect their parents, they have done so much for them. Even if their parents did nothing for them, they should respect them because they are older.
Your uncle needs a reality check, maybe you can give it to him one day. Until then...
ehh....i tried. It didn't work out so well.
until then something has to be done. think about that poor woman...
Uh, little background please? What bank account? What wishes? Maybe you should edit a little so it makes sense to someone who doesn't know what's going on. If you don't want to divulge personal information, just say they argued over money matters. I respect your pain and hope you'll be there for your grandmother but please do remember it is possible for a family member to have a problem with only one other family member. There are a number of disagreements and arguments that should be kept only between the two people they involve, so the rest of the family doesn't take sides and start feuding.
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