Sports is my thing..ive been playing basketball since i was 6 years old, and I started playing Soccer when i was 8. Bruises on my legs weren't anything big to me. What would linger in my mind was the thoughts of another adolesent MEAN GIRL. Yess i know, i know, keep positive and dont let someone elses thoughts affect your life, right?
Wrong... I know exactly how sporty girls feel when girly girls call them dumb, stupid, or a lesbian for playing sports. They would look at me funny and laugh at me for wearing a sports bra's ALL THE TIME. Even their subliminal use of "hey MAN" was a nerve pincher. It bugged me so much that I lessend my skills to please these idiotic Whores just to FIT IN. I had the freaking Varsity position waiting in front of me like a plate of food and i let it slip through my fingers to go get high off of alcohol. What the hell was i THINKING? pshhhh... I knnow what i was thinking, PARTY LIKE A ROCKSTAR and forget about my future, its not in the NOW! Yeahh that's it just throw it all away, piece by piece.... I THINK NOTTT!!!
Drugs, Alcohol and Partying is not worth the time. You do it, feel good for an hour ,take a knap waking up to a hangover.
hmmm...sounds fun right?..ahhahahah NOPE!!
Mean girls would always have something to say about you without taking the time to discern our capabilities and our demenors. We are of a sports background, actually its more of a culture. We start from young, building our bodies into magnificant SWEAT holders and infamous MOTIVATED winners. We sporty girls were just born to play. Guys like it so forget about those dummy girls. Guys are turned on by girls that can sit down and have a fair disscusion with them about Basketball , football, or Soccer...I love sports and its just me... i dont know what i would do without being in that atmosphere
Would U?
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If you look from the male perspective, althletic male jocks give their non athletic male contemporaies a pretty hard time too. The fact is that if you are a girl under these rules, you're meant to fit in with the kind of girls who crack their pelvis in attempts to get a jock to have a dip. What you aren't meant to do is be a jock yourself.
So before you go ragging on people who use drugs or 'party like rockstars', you might want to consider that the mean spirited shit you put up with from these girls is the exact same bullshit guys who do drugs and aren't into sport get from meathead male jocks. I mean if sport gave them such fullfillment then why do they have to give other people shit to make themselves feel good? In the same vein, why would these girls give you such a hardtime if what they were doing was genuinely fullfilling.
I can empathize with you on getting shit from people who should mind their own business and be content enough with themselves to not have to rag on other people. Especially if the spend so much of their time proclaiming how wonderful they are. The few genuinely wonderful people I have ever met, I've known for years, and I've never seen them pick on anybody. I wish I could say the same for myself, but I'm not wonderful, nor do I claim to be.
"Guys are turned on by girls that can sit down and have a fair disscusion with them about Basketball , football, or Soccer..."
Some guys are turned on by this. I would personally find it a complete turn off. I'd be turned on by a girl who can have a fair discussion, somebody who has a brain, yes. But the subject of sports, no, simply because UFC and BMX are the only sports I'm really into, so outside of those or general martial arts talk, I'd have to say it would be a complete turn off.
But you also have to consider that some guys get turned on the most when they are presented with a girl who is more stupid than he could have ever hoped for. Some guys like a girl who just giggles and has nothing to say beyond pleasantries and offers of uninhibited sex.
Guys like all kinds, it depends on the guys.
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I know exactly what your talking about! Last night, I was taking a small break from my seven hours of studying, and I was comtemplating what I would do next, regardless of the pile of homework I had left to complete. My friend had just called me to tell me that her best friend's parents had gone out of town and she was having a party. I didn't really want to go, but I felt too embarassed to say the reason I was staying home was because I was the nerd home on a saturday night who would rather study than have fun. So, I went to the party. Knowing I had to drive home later that night, I swore I wouldn't drink and that was exactly what I told my friends upon my arrival. To my disappointment, they shoved a beer in my hand anyway. I felt so torn. I wanted so much to fit in. It was my first real high school party, but I didn't know what to do. I really felt lost, and now I'm stuck with my homework to finish, but I'll never be done by monday morning. The only thing I can say I've learned is that in the future I'm really going to try to avoid these types of situations. I did not have a good time!
Okay this is a reply to you and the blogger. You guys need to have more confidence in your decisions. Stop caring what others will think. You will be the one with the cool car and house because of your awesome well paying job. In high school I never drank and partied. Seriously. Sure I was geek, but I was a well liked geek. In college sure I've been to parties, but last night I had a paper so I was in my dorm by 10.
Just be firm and confident in yourselves. You don't need other people to approve what you are doing. And just think of meeting them ten years later with your life well put together.
"I am a Stephens Woman."
i never wanted to fit in with anything other than just be me and do what i know i had to do-
if kids and people in general had their goals and priorities that they stuck to then these probalems would less likely occur-
the cycle begins only when you let yourself think that you are not good enough or you can't think for yourself and have friends who aren't the "in" crowd
quite frankly high school culture (the prevalent one) is something that disgusts me
but I remember that NOT everyone in high school of college is into that stuff...some people do have a grip on themselves and have confidence in their own personality, just learn to make smart decisions
and try not to get swayed by others, if your parents have raised you right or even if you know right from wrong---Don't go against your own judgment just because of the expectations of society and your supposed friends and classmates
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I was almost like a loner in my school. Yet, I joined all the activities that I was passionate about. I was in volleyball and soccer team. But I was really quiet because I wanted everyone to see how good I am with my skills and not with my mouth. Sure, I wanted to fit in. I didn't think it was necessary for me to go out of my way to prove them I deserve to be in their group. So, I created my own group. lol. I ended my year with being the captain for my team. Everyone loved me because I never pretended to be someone else. It was a good year. And I'm so glad I'm still me.
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Since kid, i have been active in sports. Handball,volleyball,netball,taekwondo (skjp je),judo (mase kat UK) and swimming.Explains the dark skin. Sports is my thing. Except for olahraga,i love all sports. Since primary school,i was really active in everything.I was chosen to go for the state practice for handball but it was to near too near to upsr.I regretted that. My mother kept saying " Dah2 la tuh,blaja la pulak" but i can't. In the evening,rather than stay at home studying,i would go to school and play anything.Anything i can find.
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