You personally are a mystery. To me, to the guy down the street, to the woman in the car next to you. Even to yourself probably. Do you understand even half the things you do? When that girl down the street sees you in the store, she doesn't see you for yourself she sees what you want her to see. She sees how you pakcage yourself. And whether you know it or not, you have, are, and will continue to package yourself to people.
Do you know what that means? You can be whoever you want to be. It's as simple as that. Yes, you are bound by certian things, i.e. faith, law, family. But other then that the sky is the limit. Habits maybe hard to break, but they are breakable. Think of that, who do you want to be? Nothing is standing in between you and your dream "you"; nothing but you own unwillingness to change. You wanna be part of the popular crowd, fake it. Act like you deserve to be there and people will believe that too. The key is to act like who you want to be, people follow that, and eventually you believe it too. Yes, its risky, yes it can be scary. But wouldn't it be worth it to be who you want to be?
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But sometimes what you see as one package, the person meant it as another. For example, their opinion of a professional person is a well groomed mullet and a tuxedo T-shirt. We see white trash. Their packaging failed.
What I was thinking and forgot to specifically in my blog was a focus more on how you package yourself in a more emotional way instead of psychical sense. If that makes sense. Example. If I wanted to be seen as professional then I would think how does a professional person think, and act and imitate that. This would have people see me as more professional no matter what I was wearing. But yes you are very right, people's views on whats makes something what it is can be very very different.