feminism or favoritism?

okay, am i unjustly classifying? maybe. on whom? which sex was i talking about? both.

a lot of men are prone towards sexual thoughts because they happen to be driven by the sex hormone, testosterone.

maybe i should have said extremist feminists. regardless, though, women have been in power longer than they realize.

look at sexual power as a pendulum, with one end of the swing representing each sex; the pendulum swings to the power holders at the time. it goes back and forth. in a lot of societies there is an offset of power, men having some power over things and women having others, so it balances out to a large degree.

overall, however, the pendulum takes time to swing back and forth. right now, with both sexes being mostly equal, it is a fight of the fittest to see who gets the power next.

women could just as easily make it a matriarchy, as they have done before, as men have made a lot of history a patriarchy. i hope neither comes back into play and it remains that neither sex is better than the other.

although i must admit that women have it easier overall, especially since there are more women in the world than men. don't agree? think that i am making sexist remarks?

when was the last time that you heard of a man going out on a date because a women asked him out on one? personally for me? NEVER. not once have i heard of a women asking out a man, or even asking a man to marry her. personally, i probably would say yes to the right woman if a woman asked me and we were in love.

ultimately, it doesn't matter either way. i am just saying that a lot of men, that i know to be in relationships, they complain about always being expected of, to be the leader, to be the breadwinner, to be the final say. that certainly is a lot to take on, day after day.

by any rights, and i am sure that you know this, women can be just as cruel and unforgiving as males can. women have a knack for formulating logical arguments, and seeing things from most perspectives, however, a lot of the time, they don't know all that they portray.

sometimes their complaints seem downright petty, and unmentionable. they need to toughen up a bit, give men more logical complaints, or better yet, explain why their feelings where hurt, and what should be done about it. they need to speak their mind more, as opposed to biting their lip and letting things progress. i mean i am fully behind the feminist movement, although the extremist, misandrism(extreme hatred and distrust of males)is something that i cannot abide by.

they do not know that, while they are saying this and that about glass ceilings and equal treatment of the sexes, they aren't doing much to further those ends. how many women do you know that has climbed corporate ladders, from the bottom up? how many women do you know that toughed it out through the worst of it, so they can reap the benefits of the best of it? it being what ever carrier that they are in?

often times, they end up being called a cold hearted woman who is a force to be reckoned with. sometimes that is the only way to succeed at anything. even for men.

how many women do you know that put their sexuality aside for a moment; and they always have it, regardless of perceived attractiveness; and act from a neutral point of view?

all it takes to put sexuality in play, is a pursed lip here, an arched back there, a little swing in each step. all of these things are at any women's disposal. all of these things make women attractive in men's eyes, also being confidant in your attractiveness helps also.

all that we men can do to look attractive is groom ourselves, stay fit, and be efficient at whatever we do, so we can make money to provide for ourselves and our mate; that is a lot of what women care about. being confidant helps out a bunch also. maybe being a nice guy, if you are a nice gal that is, also helps, but in the end, you women have more than you bargained for, more than you realize.

right now a woman can have a man prosecuted for sexual harassment solely because she felt sexually threatened by a mans "lecherous" looks. if a man tried to do the same thing, he probably would be laughed at by the court and have the case thrown out. who has the short end of the stick now? and are there masculinist groups out there? no. hell "masculinist" isn't even a recognized word in the dictionary. i just tried looking it up. "masculinize" is the closest word to masculinist in the dictionary and that means to make masculine.

which is what the feminist movement is trying to do, masculinize that is, maybe not technically, but in spirit anyway, with the idea in mind that they are just as much capable to do masculine things as men are. that they are equal. often times, the feminist movement is misunderstood as extremist.

one thing that most fail to realize that some of the women in said movement don't want to be masculine, they have embraced the idea that they are better at other things, aside from the tougher professions, like the trades for instance, and there are women in the trades, so i don't want to hear any arguments that they can do tougher work also. i know that they can. all the more power to them. i am glad for them. proud even.

if you women don't want to be gawked at then don't dress in a scantly clad manner, avoid clingy, or semi transparent clothes, also clothing that is tight around certain points of your bodies, and you know which ones ladies. otherwise, don't complain about creepy men checking you out. most times guys will just sneek a peek and get caught. that happens often when i happen to be admiring how well a women fills out her clothes. or to be blunt, admiring her beauty. there are all types of beauty to a man, and in very ill-definable ways. it kinda sucks really for the most of us. like "oh yeah, she is hott" or "she is gorgeous" or "goddamn!" you must know that i am avoiding most of the terms that a lot of my fellow men use, they can be rather vulgar at times.

you all seem to have a sixth sense on when you are being watched and in what direction looks come from. also, if it happens multiple times, then a lot of women will just assume that the man is just starring at her, doing the wolf whistle in his head, and imagining bedding her.

most of the time, we just happen to be admiring a certain curve or angle in which we get to see you. to quote the song "don't touch my bikini" by the halo benders, 'don't touch my bikini, looking is for free but touching is going to cost you something' and know that it is sung by a guy, with a very deep voice, you should check it out, you might get a laugh. and i am not calling anybody whores.

maybe he is doing the wolf whistle, maybe he is fantasizing, but then again maybe not. you should check out getittogether's blog "Generalization of Women and Men", and then come back to me stating that that all men do is think about fornication. here is the link: http://www.progressiveu.org/133452-generalization-women-and-men

some women are okay with being an object of desire, in fact, i am sure that they feel it to be very empowering, hence dressing in an unladylike fashion, to use olden terms. however, men are ostracized, by women and other men alike for having sexual arousal. having an erection in public can be quite embarrassing.

most times there is nothing that we can do about it, other than picture bob dole naked, or our grandmother's doting on us, or big bird playing tennis with donkey kong, you know, non-sexual things like that, so that we no longer have an erection and it does take a while to stop our little generals or whatever dude happens to call their little dudes. little whatever their name is, little soldier, little man; i am sure that you get the picture.

women, while embracing their sexuality, unknowingly put us down into the ranks of near slavery, due to our heightened sex drive. i ask again, who has the shorter end of the stick now?

Yours truly,
.demosthenes

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