what did i do wrong to deserve these idiots as roomates. I mean don't get me wrong the girl i share a room with is great. Couldn't ask for better roomate. But the other two are just so ignorant, self-centered,smallminded and think that the whole freaken world revolves around them. how spoiled can you possible be. Just because they are rich and everything was basicly handed to them on a silver platter they think they can do anything they please.not to mention how racist and prejudisial they are. First week here T.S. came back from the pool 2 minutes after she went there because there were black people in the pool. And she could not possible swim in the same water. What an idiot. Two of them don't like anyone who's not just like them. They are always talking crap about my roomate and always making fun because of her accent. So what?K.Z. is going aroun the school saying how M.L. can't speak English. Just beacuse person has an accent and can't always find the right word does not mean she doesn't know language at all..T.S. forbade my boyfrien to step a foot into this apartmen because apparently he makes her unconfortable.Why, i just don't get it why. Just because he is super tall does not make him a scary monster. I don't know why but alot of people said they were scared or still are of him only because he is so big.I really dont get it. What really pissed me off few weeks ago was that T.S. perfectly confortable with 3 complite strangers(guys) sleep in her room but she is unconfortable with my bf just coming into apartment to see me for few minutes. How does that make any sense. She behaves like she is encharged of this apartment. And than she gives us this speach about how we are supposed to lock the door when leave. Imean really is anyone that stupid to not lock the door? And whats more next morning she leaves this huge note on a door telling us to lock the door but she leaves for school withouth locking the door. I just thought that was so funny. Late ly they have been getting drun alot. It does not botter me really as long as they don't bring alchocol in here. Whih they of course do. That would not botter me eather except that RAs are always going around the apartment and if they get cought with it in here all of us will get in trouble, not just two of them. And than all this complaining and whining about how they can't possibly wear the same clothes twice.OMG.Spoiled brats.What irritates me so much is that she is always calling me 'kiddo'. Sorry but I am way older than her. and than,two of them are constantly talking crap about me and my roomate(she's Asian and they really don't like Asians but than I'm pretty sure they don't like any foregners so that's probably why they dislike me too,other than the fact that i'm not rich like them or emptyheaded), anyways these walls are very very thin it's not like i can't hear them.This is really bad of me to say but i really think that two of them are the two stupidest people i have ever meat.
wow, i fee better after this...............
spoiled, selfcentered, ignorant idiots
By kiki.88 - Posted on March 15th, 2008
I hate people like that...it drives me insane...I consider going to a minority high school and being the minority there...aka white...a huge privilege because I've seen so much racism...and I've felt it too...and I hate it...I hate when people can't see any views but their own...it's so ignorant...I wish more people could be like us and be accepting of and even embrace other cultures...in my opinion immersing yourself in another's culture/ beliefs is the best way to learn about the world...it just sucks that your airhead room mates can't see that
Just please remember that you are the better person here. Some day they may experience that they can't afford all the things they have become a custom to or give orders to others. They will have to where the same clothes twice, will have somebody else giving them orders and so on, will be a big adjustment for them. Hopefully they will be able to adjust. They may look back and see how silly they acted and feel horrible. I just wonder if they will be able to handle not having the silver platter. You are the better person here because you pay attention to this. Hold your head high and be proud of who you are. You may want to try and find new room mates to relieve your stress from them.
yeah...and take it from me...before I lived here I was those girls...I was in the popular crowd...I was one of the cheerleaders...the in crowd...I had everything and I wouldn't talk to people I thought were beneath me...but when I moved here it was a rude awakening...the first day of school here I seriously thought I was gonna get shot...but after the initial shock of not being the top dog I took a serious look at my life...I realized that you have to accept people...not judge...and not have high expectations of what others will do for you...b/c they won't live up to them...you have to do something for yourself...and learn how to work with others...not against them...hopefully these girls will see that
and mad props to you and your friend for putting up with it
Sounds like you got stuck with real winners. Hypocrisy at its finest. Perhaps the one that claims your BF makes her uncomfortable is jealous.
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it's funny, that's what everyone says
I don't know how you have survived it! I hope you are not bowing to T.S.'s will on the boyfriend edict. You should be able to have whomever you choose over to your home. And if you are really concerned about the alcohol in the dorm room, why not have a conversation with the RA? If you express concern that they'll know it was you, I'm sure the RA will come up with a way to leave you out of it. I know there is a culture of no snitching among young adults, but if it could get you in trouble in a serious way, there is no reason to protect them.
When I was in college, we occasionally had alcohol in the dorm room, but if we had been caught, we would have been reprimanded, and not thrown out or anything. If our school had had a stricter policy, we probably wouldn't have risked it.
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no i don't bow to her wishes but unfotunately he does. I tell him he can come over anytime he wants but he says that he does not want to make anyone unconfortable and he doesn't want to get me in trouble. u see this college has some pretty stupid rules for housing. If someone in the apt. does not want somebody to came in than that's it they can't came.don't know who made that rule up but it's really stupid.
I'm surprised you haven't complained about your roommate or told them to shut up. They are not your parents and they pay the same amount of rent you do. So why let them make all the rules? That's the bad thing about having roommates. If you don't roommate with some people you know, you're going to get screwed over with people you don't know. So take this little bit of advice, tell them to leave or find a new apartment. It's not worth the grief and you should enjoy your independence not suffer through it with people that are closed minded and need time to grow up. If you're at a dorm well... Haha, the semester is half way done and it'll be summer! :-SS
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yea it's college housing so have prity much been stuck with them all year
but oh well 5 more weeks and it will be over
thank god hah